#■ ^'M DUKE UNIVERSITY LIBRARY Treasure %Qom m^r'^ s . ./^ /- ^i/^'a^ /s'-4^ ,V ENGLISH GENTLEWOMAN, drawnc out to the full Body : EXPRESSING, fFhat Habillimcnts Joe beB attire her^ What Ornaments doe^ heH adorne ker, What Complenients dot^ beU aceom^ jplijhher. '^ — - Richard Br a t h vv a i t E/jf, ^SM^odeftia^y nonforma^. LONDON, Printed by B. Ai s op and T.Fa v? c e r/or iMicJmdi Sp4rkf, dwelling in ^reene t^^rhr, I 53 I, TO HER, WHOSE TRVE LOVE TO VERTVE HATH HIGHLY ENNOBLED Herself E, Renown ED Her Sexe, Honoured her Houfe ; The ^ght Honourable, the Lady ArbellaVVentvvorthj Th(^ AC comfit jhment cf her Dtvintfi ^ijhes. Madam; Ome moncths arc paft, fince I made bold to recom- mend to my Right Honorable Lord your Husband , an ENGLISH GENTLEMAN.^ whom hec was picafed, forth of his Noble difpofi- on, to receive into his Protedfcion. Into whofc moft Honourable fervice hee was no fooncrcn- % 3 tertai- Tr-."S? 207144 TheEputlb terrained, and upon due obfervance of his inte- gritie approved ; then upon approvement of his more piercivc judgement, he became gene- rally received. Out of thefe refpecfls, my mod Honourable Lady, I became Co encouraged, as I haveprefumcd to prcferre tmto your fervice an ENGLISH GENTLEWO M AN^ one of the fame Countrcy land Family, a defer- ving fifter of fb^wfr^ff/ a brother : Or (if you will ) a pleafing Spoufe to {Qgrdcious a Lover. Whorp, if your Honour fliali be but pleafed to entertainc, (npid your noble Candor is fuch, as fliecan exped nothing lefTc) you (hall finde excellently graced with fundry fingular quali- ties^beautified with many choice endowments, and fo richly adorned with divers cxquifite ornaments, as her attendance fhall be no dero- g^^tion to your Honour , nor no touch tt jsur ufiblemifh'd Selfe^to retaine her in your favour. Sure I am, the fweetnelTc of Iier temper, forts and futes well with the quality or difpofition of your Honour : For {htc Loves without any painted pretences to bee really veituous, with- out popular applaufe to be affably gracious, without any glorious gloffc to bee fincercly zealous. Her Education hath fo enabled her, as fhee can converfe with you of all places, de- liver her judgement ccnceivingly of mod per- fons,and difcourfe moft delightfully oi^W failiions. Shee hath beene fo well Schooled in the Difcipline of this Ag^^, as (hee onely de- fires- D E D I C ATORY. fires to retaine in memory th^tfor?xe which is leaft affeded but moft comely ; to confort with fiich as may improve her Kjwrvledge^xnd pra^^ifn of goodneiTc by their company j to entertaine thofc for reall and individuate friends , who make a(5iions of pietie cxprcfliveft characters of theyr amity. Diligent you fliall ever finde her in her imploymcnts , ferious in her ad- vice, temporate in her Difcourfc, difcreet in her anfwers. Shee befi:o\ves farrc more time ia eying theglaife of her life to redifie her errors, if there bee any, then the glafTe of her face in wiping of fuch outward ftaines as might ble- mifli her beautie. Neyther in preferving that, is fhee altogether fo remifle, as not to retaine that fecmely grace in her feature, as may put her in remembrance of the unexprefllvc beauty and bounty of her Maker. Neate fhe goes ufu- ally in her attire, which (he puts on with more can then cefi. And to thcfe fhee addes fuch a well-feeming grace, as ihe beftowes more beau- ty on-^them., then fhee receives from them. Phantafticke habits ©rfoirainefafliions are fo farre from taking her , as with a fleight but fweet contempt they are difvalued by h^r. She v/onders how a wife ftate fliould employ fo much time in inventing varietie of difguifes to disfigure theyr Sha^c-J* This makes her defire rather to bee out of requeft with time, then Avitha civill and well-compofed mind 5 wbofe honour it is to bee prized more by herownc inter- 207144 TheEpistle iRternall worth, then any outward weare. Conftant (hce is in her behdvtour • wherein Hie affect little, but obferves nauch. Withabaih- fuU admiration fliefrailes at thefe ci vilizcd fi n- pring Dames, whofe onely glory it is to afFe(^ a kind of referved (late ; which, as they hold, confifts principally in a minc'd fpcech , fee looke, or ginger pace. Shec loves alw lyes to bee her felte , nor to cntcrtaine ought which may eftrange her from her felfe. So aSjthere is nothing in the whole pofturc of her Bebdvhur, but with a native gracefuU propriety doth infi- nitely become her. Take upon her to inftru^ others, fhec will not, fuch is her Humilitic j al- beit, every moving pofture which comes from her, may be a line of direeccncj^ fhee affeds in her Cltathes, aifability in her Difcourfc ; fhec hath made a covenant with her eyes never to wan- der, nor intentively to beflow themfclves on any other obje<5t than the glory of her Maker. A proper perfonagc isnofuch attra(5tive mo- tive to her tyc^ to make her loofc her kl^Q, Wharfeever (hee undertakes bcfcemcs her, be- caufe fliee afTcj^s naught but what naturally be- comes her. Her beauty is her owne • and whatfoever clfe may better accomplifh her. Her pathes are evenly vcrtuous ; her defires truely religious; Piety is her pra^ifcj which fheecxprcficth io fully in every adioHj as the whole courfe of her wcU-dilpofed life is not fo much as juftly confcious of the Icaft afperflon. So highly fliee values her Mfimdfioft^is fhc will not engage it to fufpition. Promifes cannot tempt her, nor hope of advancement taint her. She wonders one (houW prcferre a conceit of ^dng great before a defire of appearing gead, Protefting Lovers flic holds for no better then deceiving Lures. Bee their vowes offirmce never fo iRceffanr, their affaults never fo vio- lent ; her rcfolves have vow'd her conftant. Hope of Profit cannot furprize her, nor thought of PleAfure vainely delude her. Bftd- fffdtm fl je holds her higheft grace j with which untainted fhee purpofeth togoe to her Grave. Shec knowes how to fancie 3 aad in her (hcc ^ f * ____ retaines «H HE Epis TLB rctaines what fhce fancies moft : A ehaftfoule 5 this is that (he loves ^ and with which flic cheere- fully li*iies. ^\\t;?tf«r, flic admits it, but fel- dome or never admires it j the Staireshy which {kt meanes to clime to it, muft be faire & firmc, or flic will never mount them. She rather ad- mires the Ages folly • while fliec obfervcs how many hazard their high-priz'd liberty, for a vadingglimpfc of popular glory. Her defires are Dedicatori e. are higher fcated, where they are onely to bee fared. A fecure State confifts not in Jlyfes but venues y which are Homurs fureft ftayes. There- fore her higheft flomur reflects on her Creator, wherein (he is fo farre from fearing, as fliee is ever wifhing more Cdrrivals, Th i s isthe GENTLEWOMAN whom I have prefumed heere to prefcnt vnto your Ladifhip feruice 3 who/e fwecte conver fc will at retired hourcs afford you choiceft folace. Neyther, fhould yourankeheramongftthe loweftofyour me- ney, will it difple^e hcr/uch is her Humility : for fhe hath learned as yNdltoeheyzsfcmmdnd. Nor will flic fpare for any paiaes, fo her dili- gence may pleafc.Onely (Maddtn) be pleafcd to fhine upon her with the gracious raies of your favour, to flirowd her balhfull endeavours un- der the wings of your Honour • and cntertaine her blufhing approach with your benigne Cen- fure. So fliall you finde a conftant defire of rc- quitall in her ; and eagagc ^/«?,whofe intimate Zeale to your H^nmr recommended her, Idur LAdiJhip devoted fervatit .• Richard Brathwait. Such, to your UfiittmY, is her zealous iSeAt- on, IS fliee makes it the fole Apologie of her Pre- ftimption: which Hiee weaves vp in this Dimenfi- on: t» fttytfonu Griatonbs tyeim»ftm*t VftOiif ButH^xs I'm vovpV, that is htb G R 1 A T TO THE GENTLEWOMAN READER. Gentlewomen: Havc^ heere frefented Vfiio your view one of yourowne Se^ce^ Onc^^ ry^fife improved EducA' tion will bee no klcmijlj but A beaut ie to her Na- t!9?i. Perufe her^ and I make little doubt ^ but you wiH fo Approver of her Behaviour^ as you jhAil Acknorvkdgc^ her right worthy the titles of a Sifter. O\4ore fhali you fnde in her^ by freely converfing with her , thAn tn thofe Y ov ^ G but loofc^ ENGLISH GENTLEWOMEN, rvhofc^ long mtr- cimrie Projlitution vpon the Stall, hath brought them out of Eequefi , and made them grow too Stale 5 by being expefed to publike Sale. Olia- ny Countries hath jhee^ coaled , fundry Dangers To the Gentlewoman Reader. accoafied , Courts and Cities hath Jhee frequen. tgd, toreturne home better freighr:.d, and re-cen- vey the benefa of that fraught to this Hand, where fine, pjos frft bred and now arrived. Doe yee iteh after Fafhion < She is for you ; yst ut that^ which the vanity $f this Age admits -y hut what Modejlie onely affeSis. She hath obfervd much inferratne Courts^ which defirv'd rather Contempt than Imitation; this Jhee would not for a world intro- duce into a we!l-govern'd State j fo tender fhez^ is of her Fame , as ;^£> place n9r pcrfonjhaf/ derive from her the leaftjlainz^* Whatfeever jhee hath commended to be fcene J u no kffe fully than faith* fully p)Owne, and with that temf orate fly le drawne, as in every Iwe feme case precept of Verttie feemes tofhinz^'. Neither in this herftrtci or ferious Oh- fervatiofs of Tiroes, doth jhee refemble thoft La- in irr, who vfe to tah their eyes with them when theygoe abroad^ but lye them aftde when they come hirne : '^o-^fo little doth fhee favour her f elf e^ as Jhee preferres others Cenft^res before her owne ^ and in no one particular fo wuch exprcjfeth her O'vne true glory , asw the conflant ^railife ofHumilitie, Hence it is, that jhee is no curious fryer into others a&ions^ nor too cenforious a reproover of others DireQious ; being indeed^ a Tyresias in the epngcr defcrpng of others errors i an Argus in her ownc. What is good and amiable in the eye^ of Virtue jf,K imbraceth with an affeciionate tender '^ making it her highefl honour^ to promote the glory of her C^faker, But leajl by being tooferious^Jhee might To the Gentlewoman Reader. might hecome tedious • jl:>e will not [licks to wdk^^ abroad with you into mort fUaCmg groves or p4~ fiures of Delight : rvhers jluc wtO confer fe ptth you of Love y and' intermixe her Difcourfe with fuck time-heguiUng Tdes^ ai varietie ]l)ali no Ujfe fl)arpen your attention , then the modefly of her Method beget admiration. Every Subtenfl)e treats of you JhaH f ride fi equally tempered rv/>/^ profit 4/7^ delight; ai the one jhaU no ie^e bemfit y-our minde , than the other fokce jour Eare^, Shee can reprove without gall, blufn rvithcut guilt, love without guile, live without gaine. Her gaine is to pur chafe vcrtuc more followers ^ her guile,* ^ de^ pnve the world of her favourers 3 her guilt, t$ defeat alivitious pioners . her gall, to difrelifl) all Voluptuous praUtfers, She can difcourfe ofLovt^ without itghtneffe ; converfe with Love Without Uofenejfe • and con fort with thofe Jhee loves rvith- out leudne£c^. She knowes how to ret aim afeeme- lyflate without pride ; to exprejje herfelfe praife- werthy without felfe-praifs^ *^ and in aliheralii- ons to make Vertue her highejl prize. Humilitic, which is theprincejfe ofVertues , the conquerejje of Vices y the mirror of Virgins^ and Crowne efChn- fiianSy [beefo much honours, 04 jhee values it above all humane glory : whence it is^ tbatjliee hath e- 'Oer reapt more ^irituallproft by dif-efteemc then fclfe-efl:eeme» Day by day jhee recreates herfelfe in her Garden ^'/'goodwill ; and in her recreati- on^ jhee makes this her foule-foUcing Meditation : Who be they that neighbour neare me , and whofc To the Gentlewoman Reader. whofevvcakeeftatesihndinDcedof mc ^ Cen- cludtng with thii charitable rejolution : There is none ib poore, but to my power 1 will relieve, fo long as I live, for the honour of his Im^ge whom I love. Sheedsvtdcs her daj intoh9ures^ her hotires into hslj t Hikes . Employment takes a- tvay all occaftons of diflrABion. Should jhefttffer a light or indif^ofedthought to rvorke upon her ima- gination : orgine way to any fuch intruder to di^ llurbe the peace of her inward houfe,)^.' would en. dure her felfe worfe for m^ny yeares ; and infli6i "Upon her extravagant affeBions fuch a cenfure, as might deterrc them thenceforth to wander. She diflaftes none more than the fe bufic houfe-wives, who are ever running into difcourfe ef others famt- lics^ but forget their o(vne. Neither holdes [hee it fiifficient to he onelj an Npufc- keeper ; sr Snayle- like ^t 6 hcfiiUvnderroofe : fhe partakes therefore of the Pifmh'cin providing^ of the Sarrcptan wid- dtjv in difpofing: holding ever an ahfent providence better then an improvident prefence. Shee u no com/non frequenter of puhlique feajls^ hut if neigh - hourhood require it^fl^e will admit of it : wherein /l)e demeanes herfclfefo civilly^ as there is no dif creeteperfonhut ioyes in her fociely. There is no- thing mujl hegst in her 4 dfflemper, having ever a tender eye ore her honour, in the report of others praifesjhe is attentive , but deafe to her o:vne. Bee fhe in places ofpubltque refort or privately retyrd^ /he ever enioyes her felfe -^ neither can eueffe of mirth tr an fport her '^ or any crojfe occurrent much \ ^^ ' per pie xe I To the Gentlewoman Reader. ferpkxeher. There k nought that diens hertnind mere from thofewith xvhomjhee conforts , than an immodefi difcourfe , which fiee tmerrupts with a dtfcreet anger, Whereficverjhefets her rejl^ fies makes Vei'tue herguefi, whom [he emertaincs with fofweet m embrace^ as nothing can divide them : fo frme and inviolable ii the league that is be- twixt them. She conceives nofmall delight in E~ ducating the young and unexperieniced Damfels of yourfexe : wherein fie retaines an excellent facul- ty and facility, Itjhall mt be amijfe therefore for )$U' who have. Daughters , t$ recommend them to her dire^ion • whoje government isfuch^as neither her too much indulgence Jhall (jfcile them-^ nor re- fir aint dull them, Whatfoeverjhe in many ye ares hath learned {fo defrous isjhee to benefit when her Obfervations may ajford profit) [be is wiU ling to impart j to the endjhee may procure her more fervants , whom fiee religioufly hath ever vorvdtoferve. Long bath jhe beene a Learner^ neyther is Jhe ajharnd to be fo ft ill, Onclyfor ver- tues honour^ is flice become a Teacher • that the Younger may be inftruBedbj thofe that are ^\- det'^the vndifciplmdbyfuch as are riper, Ney- ther Jhallpu find her (low in performing^ what Jhe hath Jo perfectly learned. For her very Life is a continued line of Direction^ being Jolelj dedicated toavertuous profefion, St, Cyprian didJJwpe- ly reprove a rich worn an^ for comming into ihe Lords Temple without her Oblation : But this re- proofe jhe w^uld be loath iufilyto incnrre : there- \ ^ fore \ To the Gentlewoman Reader. forepe goes better prepar'J ^ that her prtton of CUf) may befoorter jhard ; havi?Jg ah OhUtion in herhAnd^ Devotion i» her hearty And a Crawneof eonfoUtion in hope, Tou then, who lovg modefiy^ emertaint her 5 forjke will fort mil with your hu- mour. And through her AcquAtntavce imfrove your honour, Forfuchwhofacrifce the Mornetol^eir CUffe^ the Jfternooioe to the Stage^ And Evening to rtvelling \ fhe holds no correfiondence with them, 7 hefefhe holds forno employments ; northefrofef ' fors ofthtm worthy her knowledge. They mujl not 4. bufe time, that Are fommended to her trufi, she is mtfo weary 0/ time ^neither dot hjhefo difvAlue it^ AS with fuch impertinences toconfume it,7ho[e Itke- wJfe,who freferrt Fafliion before lytccncy formal Punto'es before reAllForm2^,ityyC^ will fuffer the- felves t$ be deluded by VAnity ; they mufi not be ad- mitttdinto her family* She kAth leArned better things than tofoole her f elf e in ApAimteddifguife^or toMor vfthat Vrnvtrfalldifeafe^whitht he corrup- tion ofafhUandfiourtfking State ufuallyproduceth. She hath leArned with thAt better Sifter, todmre tho better part. Conflam be herpurpofes^co9tent. mem her defires^eonfinant bet delight f. Me it tbeto your\iotiO\xrtobe informed by her, feeing her in^ firuetiom ariOfUAlly mixt with profit and plci- fure. N^ifyou obiect ^thAt fitee hAth beene too fiomin comming/eeing her GE N T L EM A N filtngfinct Arrived'^ heate mine anfwer -^ andfuf. fend your Cenfure , by iptpnting thisfadt to our Englijb Error, When Venus is longer in trim- mings mmmmti0im» To the Gentlewoman Reader. rning^ than Mar^ in trdinm^, Man'j frevifions were required by her^ before the World were tobe^ fojfeffed of her. Much likewifc^ ex^e^ed from ker^ before the World had knowledge of her ; this Made her the longer to retire^ that pee might fro- fit th morc^ in her returnee- (Jl4sy you , Gentlewomen, bee the inflame ofit-^ fo Jhall both the AuthoT and hii hhouv reioycz^ in it. To draw then to a Condufion , lejl my Portell rife, too high for my building • as you are not to exfeB fiom her my guga^yres, toyesy or trifles ; love-fented gkves, Amorous fotionSy pr fumed pi- Hures^ or love-fieke peuders j fijhee doubts not, tut to finde in yeu 4n Bare, fr$mft to Attention ^ 4 Tongue, f/wre ofinveBion-^A S^nlt^fiet^frem detra^ion^ with an Hrart '»/•' *<> hArL»mr ajftHion, Now for the VolumCyl hdd furptfdy made it more port ablest that it might become your tnonfo. ciable folUwer ; had not my ehfervati$n aid mec^y that albeit amiableneffe e$nfiii in 4 lovely feature, the goodlincffc of 4 Centlewonaan teBs in her comely Statures, Sefdes, tha correfonded better with the Portraiture of thc^ ENGLISH GE^T LEU A^^ her afiancd Lover. For the Margin, i have not charged it with many Notes, leHyoufliouldnegle^ the Garment, by Ireing taken too much with the border. Improve it to your beJIproftOy and let God ha'wc the glorie of it. (V) An An Abftradt or Summarie of all fuch Principall points , Branches or Particulars, contayncd in this Booke cntituled, 7he Englijh (jentley^oman. Jhe primp Subjcds vrhcrcof it treates. Bth^vmr. f ^ Fancier. Cswpkmint' CS GentHitic^, Diceffcii^* jL Honour. Motto's vpon every Subjeft* C&melynot gAudy, I. \yirgamcnt. r-*-* A p p a r i l l. He Necefitit^ of/^ppareli j Of the vfe and dufe of Jfpanll 5 Two medhes by which the vfe may be inverted noabufe-^ That Appear eth moft comely, which confcrres on the Wearer moftnatiue beauty, and moft honour on her Cmfftrey. 2. Ar^ttment, The Argument. 2. {Argument, r^^ Behav.iovr. BBhAvionr refleds on three particulars; How j Loving mo- to hhave her felfe in Company •, How in ' d^fiy^ ii ali- Privacy ;That5f^4'://<7«nnoftapproved/»Yhich : 'vin£ beamy. is clcancft from affection freed. i I 5. y^rgumcnt* rJ^ Complement, i Omflement defined 5 how it may bee cor- ' ChiRCom- rupted, how refined ; wherein ic may bee : plementt my admitted as mainely Confequent ; wherein i ^^^ accom- omitted as meerely impertinent j What C^m- p^*!^^^*^^^ plemcffp gives beft acc9mplijhmem, 4. Ky^fgument, r-«^ Decency, DEcencie recommended as requifite in foure Virgiti-^Tie. diftin(5t Subjeds ; Decency the attradiivcft | cency.is Vcr- motive of apEiisni, the fmoothcft path that ' ^«^-^ ^''^^rj* leades x.o perfect ion, I 5. {Argument* rJ-vEsriMAT-ioN. { E^timatioHj a. GentkwomAns higheft prize ;' c^/)' pWz,^, how it may be difcerned to be reall-^ how ^^ '^^^ ^^^^ Superficially how km?iybte impregnably pre- p^^ff^» ferved ; how irreparably loft 3 The abfoktc 1 effdj whereto it chiefely afpires, and wherein ic i checrefully rcfls, 1 I * s ^' Argument » \ ■•i*>>«*i^Ma My Chshe admits no Change, 'Dtfert efQwnesDif. HontUf is venues Harkoitr. The Argument. 6. i^rgument, rJ^ F^ n c i a. F^^cj:, is to be with Deliberation grounded 5 with Conftancy reteined . Wanton Fancy is a wandring.Fr^;/^;' ; How it may be cheeked, iftoowildc jhowchceredjiftogcoolcjanat- temperament of both. 7. {Argument. r^^GENTlLIT^E. Emility, is derived from our Anceftors to " but foonc blanched if not revived by us G us ; Vertm the beft CoAt 5 afliamefaft reddc the beft colour to deblazon that Coat ; Gentility, is not knownc by what wee wearc, but what we 4rPag. tt^ Paflion. y rertue it tke life of A6iionyti^ion thelifyef man, ibid. In this Subie^fome are employed ( but remijfely) to thepurpofi. Others are employed to nopurpofe. Others Jleepe out their mind in fecurity^ Others creeps and cringe into an Apjh formality, N^nc^ ofthefe dirtSi the bent of their aHims^ to the ob- kct H« Ta B L E. I I Uft ofirue Giorj. pag. ^p. A tvemam homur is $f higher sjleeme than to he thus difvalued. Light oc-cdjtmi arc^ many times grounds of deefeajperjions, i^ctiom areto hec^ fcdfoned With difcretten^ feconded by direction^ jlrengthenedx&ithinjlruction^ leafitoo much raO)^ »ej[e hring the undertaker to defiruction, ibid. A britfe CommemorAtionofdtvers noble women^ who as they were honourable by defcent, fo were they wemcrablefor defert, FjiraUlsto thebejl men for converfAtion^ though weske infese^ nature and son- 4ition» p3§»30» An exhortation to young Gentlewomen , to con- . forme themfelves tofuch imitable patt ernes : con- cluding with that excellent infiruction addreffedby ^r. Hi H R o M to that holy Virgin Demetrias^ commending nothing fo much unto her 44 indufiry^ the better to inurt her in the fraetife of Pieties, pa^. 31. Nothing requires more difiretiort thjndffection. One can never truely love and not be wife : which directly oppfeth Plato's opinion. ibid. Nothing more impatient of delay than Lovz^, Nothing of more different papon : with an exact relation of their dtfiinct operation, pag. 3 2 • 5 3 . Love is neither to be teofubtilly coloured, nor too fiwply difcovered, if too hot ^ the violeme of it is beB rebated by abfence • if too coole , it is to bec^ quicknedowith more frequent conference^- and ap- duateprefence, pag. 34. *^ 2 Paflion I- Aug. Ifh* de honefiate mftlieru. HE AB L E. Paffion never workes more fear e full effects ^then when hftreamesfromjeahufie : verified hj 4 tra- gi eke Example ineur orvne lie and time occurring , afidto [Hcceedingtimes frrvtving. P'ig'35'5^. Remedies to appeafe anger, and every pafionatc^ diflemper, pag. 37. The difcommodities vfhich arife from Papon -^ the benefits which redound from attempering tt^ pag. 58.59. An ufefull Exhortation , to this temperate Moderation. ■ ' ' -;< • > • Vag, 40. How A Gentlewoman k te behave her fdfe in Company. >^':-' :^^»^'>* p^-4i» Modefiie and Mildneffe hold fweetefi correjpon- denceinallfocieties, pag. 42. Chdfttyis an'mclo^cdQudcn z^ and by no U- centiousfootetobeentred, ibid. Other vices are difeomfted by fight, Lufi onely defeated by flight, p3B'43* We may be in fecurity,/* long as wee are Jfeque- fired from fociety . ibid . We are to fubieSf aftedion to thefsveraigntic^ of reafon. pag. 44. ffowa Gentlewoman ^ to behave her felfe in Privacie. ibid. Patternes offingular devotioft recommended to her imitation^ pag. 45 ^45.47. Meditation being aKty to open the Morning, alocketeclofethe Evening, fhotild beea Gentle- womans bofome companion, pag. 48. Gentlewomen^ without much refervmcie^ are not to The Tab l e. to frequent fublike f laces 9 f Society , Pag .50. Jnjiancesoffuch^ as being difcreetlj referved^ Accammcdated their ferfons to pablike affaires, and became im^roi'ved by them, pag .51.52. A iudiciotis recollect ien offuch tvho intend time ^ affdfuch veho mtf^endtime: dozing with the reUti- on of fundry fearefull Examples , to deterre loof^-^ livers from the like fee meneffe, pag. 53.54. That Behaviour mof a^^roved^ which is clcdrcjl frot» afft dation feed. pag. 5 5 . Ferttfcs Hdbhand Behaviour is free and not affected -J native and not traduced, p''ig'57« An accurate dtfiinctioft er dijudicatior^ betwixt an enforced and unaffected Behaviour, ibid, A Gentlewoman tsfo to behave herfelfe^ that too much curiofity tsxe her not offride^mr too much Maiefiy of State. pag. 5 § . Complement. Obfervat, j. Complement defined, Pag. 5p, .With tvhat conflancy the Ancient retained their forme ^/"Complement. Pag. ^o. Different garbes ^ro^ertodifiinct f laces ^ Pag. 61. Adtftinction betwixt reall and formall Com- plement, ibid. A dejerving commendation of fundry Englijb Ladies^ in their unaffected way of Complement. pag. 62. ^^ ? How TmeTable. Hovf Complement maj bez^ corrupted. Pag . odf defer if t ion cfam^rousfoems^ with 4 iufi re- frficfcef their infsrced Hypcrbolecs. Pag,64. 65. The Complement ufed by fome great ones, were but meere Canting Among Beggars. p3g^d5. Bow Complement t»Ay be refined, ibi^. Civility is t he bfft dnd moji refined Comple- ment thAt may be. pag. 6g. Civility h never tut offajbion : ever deferving admiration. pag 6^, It u Society th At gives tu^ ^r takes from us our Security. pag. 57. Wherein Complement way be<-j admitted, at mainely confequent. pag.70. The Court />7)&tf Beacon oft he State • f^tf Seate tfrSchoolei>/Complement. P3g»7i. \^s Courtiers are Obje(5ts to many Eyes ; fo fbould their Adiions be fl&tformes to many Lives. Pag. 72. Corrivaljhip in a light Curtez,ans love^ hath de- prived many a hofefuU Gentleman of his dear eft life, ibid. In Contefts of love , it is hard to dettrminz^ whether the Agent or Vmcnifuffer more. Page, 73- Wherein Complement may be omitted j,as meere- I) impertinent. ibid. Apip) formal! lis ^ or Complement all aBort d/f- efreeme thofe threleafant an frver of mellifluous Bernard, ifippljed to all farvfiArd Shee-church difcourfers, pag. 90. Silence in a WomAn , is a moving Rhetorieks^, ibid. Therein nothing tvhich moves us rmre to pride tt in finne, than that which was frf given us to co- ver ourjhame, pag. p i . Sumptuotifneffe of the Habit deferves not fo much reprehenfton, as Phantafickneffe of the Ha- ; bitj in reflect eft he forme orfajhion. p:ig. 9 2 . Decency is a ctvill Gentlewomans choycefi livery^ which fets her forth before aU embroider). ibid. Tim<^is tw precious to be wade rf Pageant o;- yioxilcton, ibid. A brief e but mofi ufefull applicntifJ^yf thofe foure The Ta b l e. fmre preceding Subie^s, V^g,^^. Decency , the aUra^h'efi motive of Jffe^ien. ibid. Nothing convayes mere affeBion to the heart , than Decency in the Obieci we ajfeci. ibid. In this age^ the bejljhot to be dtfchdrg'd is a7a- verne reckonings thebefi Alarum caroufng^ and the moji abfolute March reeling . i bid. JVeale, woundthe enemy mofi^ and procure the Archer befi reB : confirmed by fundry notable examples, pag. 1 18. up. None can walkefafelj^ that walkes not religionf ly* ibid. A refle6iion upon the conftancyand refolution of Heathens ^reocmmended to the imitation of Chrift^- an women, pag. 120, 1 2 Fertue Jliecs hedera xgilis hora T HE Table, Vertue cannot exercife her owne ftrength , nor expreffe her ewne yv firth withmt an O^pcjite, pag . 121. A» infimce in a nohle LAd) . ibid, A direction in the cloze* pag .1 22 . Bow Eftimation ma^ he irreparMy kp, ibid. The "^ Ivie while it U winding , dec Ayes thi^ plant , with which it is wreathing, ibid. An infiance of 4 Citie-Virago, pag . 123. A» ufe of this inftance. pag. 1 24. The abfolute cnd^wheretinto Eftimation a fires, And where w it cheerefullyr^Hs. Pag. 125. Thii confirmed hy fundry examples ; and orn^ moftremarkeahleefottrown^^ P'^g. 125, 12^.127. An application to thefe Lsdies of our owm^, pag. 127.128* Fa N c Y. Ohfervat*6. FAncy^sr to be with deliberation grounded, pag. lip. The Eye iiVmcies harbinger , but the heart k her harbour^ ibid. I>ire5iions for fetling anddtfpojing our affeBi- on, pag. 150. Loves purit) is to be dtfcujfed, before it be enter- tained. pag. 151. Not the rindc but the tninde is Bifcretions Ada- mant. P^.1J2. The Th e Table. , Xhe miferj of i^^ilouCic ddUz^cmd and exem- plified, ibid. SinguUr refolvesfor a Co-aittgAllStdte, Pag. ^ .Fancy is tfi he w'uh ctnjlmcy retained*^-' < • Psge. Tw6 memerable Mottoes rccornrnmendcd, ibid . The xvA'jWArdneffe of fome women iufily repre. ved^ and how that hunt otir m*j be reiitfied, png. J he admirable furitie and efficacie of Love^, P^g- 137' liemorable examples of Cmiugall Conftancy and Qontmtvicy , ibid. {^n exhortation tending to the imitation offuch fawow Prefidents. ibid. Wanton Fancy k a wandring Frenzy, pag. 158. Wanton Love^feldome or never fromifeth good fnccejje. ibid. The incendiaries or foments of this inordinate paffion^to fixe particulars reduced^ aS which art^ in one difiich included, P^g* i^P The odi OH/ and inhumane effcCls in all ages de- rived from the violence of thii Wanton fancie, e?y Wandringfrcnzie. Pag. 14©. 141. Soveraigne receipts to cure th^ dc(perate maU- die, ibid. What kind of ajfcBiondefervcs a Gentlervomans e legion. pag. 142. HowVzncy wayhecheckcd^iftoo wilde^ con- ^ 3 frmed The Table. v^ firmed b J a Philofi^hicAU demonfir^tion sr Fhy/icaU experiments ibid. ^^fleaft'At and pithy expefiuUtion with fancy. ibid. A dijfrvafton frcm tio much credulity to thz^ light prttefis of deceiving fancy: cori-Jirvted by d moder He example, Pag. 143. A GentlewomAn may with m»re frfetf fi^eii than too rdfhly affe£f, ibid. A difcreet refolution upon tearmes ofafft^itn feconded mth tic^promtfe cf 4n ajfured hlepng. Thefecret imprepan^andpaponate exprefsi^n of '^anHnfortunate Lady in the relation of her mfery, pag. 144.145. It is not fo hard to give comfortable counfekto the for row full yds tofinde dftfeafon when to give it, ibid. Confiderationj aneceffarie guide to "IL affe5lion, \-U'a Repentance comes leo late at Marri- (^ dge. night. j How Fancy may be cheered if too cold, pag. 14^. The incomparable honour of a Virgin-condiri- Oft. ibid. The hate oflncefi with brute Beafls, pag. 1 47. The Bird of Love, the Embleme of a Lovers heart, pag. 149. MoneyesAremitno\xxpvSt\xvt% to true Lovers, ibid. Th e Tab l e. The abfolute end of a cmmgaU StAte» pag. 130' An attemperament if hot b thfe wdijpcfed Fan- cic s he fore mentioned, ibid. The difference betwixt a wife and wiWe Love^ confifts in thii : the one ever deliberates before^ it loi-e J the other loves before it deliberate, Pag. 1 5 r . Neceffarie Cautions for /^/(kind-hearted Gentle- women, pag. 153. '.The like for all coy or coolc-afFc(fted Gentle- women, pag. 153. {^ fweetattefnperament of both thefe humours : with an apt Emblem explained and properly apply - 'ed^tofuch,as are with either of thefe humours di- fiernpered. pag. 1 54. 1 55. Gentility. Obfervat, 7. G'Entilkyj id derived fiow onr Aneeftors tom^ buffoons blanched^ if not revived by ut* pag, 157. Aperfvaftonto the^ imitation of our Anceftors vertues, pag. 158. There was nothing wort all about them bat their bodies^ attdthofe were toofiaile Cabonets forfuch ^-/f/; eminences to lodge tn : whereas , there is no- phing but frailties about ours, for loofe and lieenti- ous love to lie in, ibid. T ho fe Odours deferve highefl honours, that beautife m livings andfreferve our memory dying, ibid. I To Th E Ta B L £• To fee A light Lady defcendmg from a m^le Fa. milj, is a Spe^ade of more f^readmg tnfamy, thun any Suhie^i ofinfertour quality . pag. 159. Gentility, ts not to h meafured by antiqmy of time^ hut precedertcy in worth, pag. 1 5o, The reafon why generous dcfcents become fo much corrupted '^ andvertttous Parents by v it to us children fo frequently di(paraged. ibid .Sci6i LMothers^the naturalleft Nurfes: confirmed by precep^ eujlome^ and ex ample, pag. ibid. "^ Su- pra pag, 108. I op. ^n effe^luali perfwafton to that duty . ibid . & pag. 161, Vertue the befl Coat. pag. ibid. Heraldry proves venues Coat tobeetfjebefi , becaufe deblazoned with leafl charge, ibid. Vertue iino admiring lover of ought that ii be- low her. pag. 152.163. The, mifery of this Age^infumptueufneffc of attire, ^ pag. ibid The honour of Humility . p:}g. 1 74 J glorious reproovsHofmodefl Matrons, pag. 175. Smnes prevention^ u to prevent tht^ Occafion, Pag. I7<5. Gentlewomen are to reflect more on their in- ward worth, than on their outward weare. \ Pag. 176. It wiUnot redmnd much to a Gentlewomans ! honour^ to have obfervedt he faihions of the time., I but with a difcreet Contempt or clvill neglect ofh- \ (iiion, . The Table. (liion, lohi'veredcemedhertin/e. psg- 177' Living aUions of true G( mility, Lippj Vre- CHrfsrs to the State ofGloxj' ibid. There are native feeds ofgoodmffe^ fotvnz^ in generous bloods ^^ lineAllfucceffton: varioufly inftanced. pag. ibid. &; 1 7 8 . 1 75?. Thofc rvho Are with the choycejl vertucs endow- ed^ become oft times^ wofi traduced, ibid. & 1 80. There is no one vertue rvhich makes a Gcmlc- womm more gracJous t!^ the eye of her beholder^ than Modcfty, the greatejl advancer of many an^ cient family ilyidl ^*Tohe high borne and bafely minded, utoin- '^ i^^f^ bijiardjli^pes in a Noble fiocl'e, i bid. ffi^h and ficroicke ag.203 ft 1 HER •ibid Th E Tab LE . Her Dejcriftion^ with motives to her tmita- t at ion, ibiJ. A briefe but ufefull application. pag. 201. Honourable Perfimges jhouldbc Preiidents of goodneffe. Pag. ibid, LANDMARRES areufudHy ere^cd for dire- nion of the Marimr^ and CMagiftrates eUBedfor injlrtfclion of the infer i our, ibid. The rvorld^a Maze of Mifery^ a vale of vanity ^ Man, afior) ofcalamit'j^ afiatue ofin- felicitie. ^ To be a Lady of Honour, is more than titu- lar. Pag. 202. Three e(peciall ObieSisj upon which Hon4>ur able pMrfonages are to refleU, charities, p Cbaflitie^, > Pag. ibid. Humiliti^^. j A mofl accurate and ferious difcourfe on each particular hieB, P^g* 2 ^ 2 . 2 o 5 . 2 04 The very lafi day to an honourable Chriflian, is every da^es mcmoriall, ibid. The aciions of Nibble Perfonagesjikeftveet odors ^ diffufe thewfelves by imitation to their follotvers. pag.205. Thofe that are followers of their perfons , tpHI be followers likervife of their lives. ibid. Their private family is a familiar Nurfery. ibid, Foule enormities mufl admit of no Prtvi ledges : Eminent Perfons are to bez^ their owne Ccnfors. ibid. The Tab le. ibid. An excellsnt amplication^ by rvay of Exhortation to allfuch honmrable Cenjors, pag . 2 o 5 . 2 o r?. Fertt:es are more fermanent Monuments, than Statues ^JlileSy trophees^ or oboliskes . ibid . Vcrtue or Vice, whetherfoever takes holdfrjt^ retaincs a deeper tmprejsion in honour, than any lotvsr Suhieci. ibid. In thefe^ whom Nobility of bloud hath advan. ced^ be cverfome feeds orfemblances of their Pro- genitors retained. ibid. 7 his coni}rmed by P hi lo fop hi call reafon and ex- ample '^ Pref dent and Precept. pag. 207 Great mmdes are many times ficke of great mala- ladies : how this by ttmdy prevention may be feafo- nably cured, -p :i g . 2 o 8 . The efficient caafe^why Vcrtue orYicc^ whe- therfoever takes hold frjly rctaines a deeper im- preMon in Honour, than in any lower Subieci • illuflrated by injlance-. ibid. Firjl Motions havedeepe mpreffi07is -^fir^ Noti. onsfirme retentions, Pag. 7 op. Thegreatejl profit o-f Honourable perfonageSy is to become Vvo^CKViis rn the praclice of venue ; Their higheft delight , to fubdue their delights to the obedience ferres9nthe WcjLr€rnfofin4twe beiuty, and mofi ho- nonren her Qountreym Apparell. AD Adam neucr com- mittcdy7«»?, he had ne- uer needed ^gge-leaues tocouerhis^^wtf. Sin n^ade him flyeto the groue for flielter, and fliarae compelled him ; to play the artlefle Tay- 1 ler, and through mccrc ; necejfuj to make him a | Couer. Well enough I was he before that time attyred, albeit naked ; andi B fol O0/ertti,and diftaftiag : Yca,that Ayre,which before was eucr fwcetly and temperately breathing, became vnfeafbnably fcorching or freezing. Nec^f- fity then hath prouided for A^amind his Co!lap(ed pofterifyaCoat, to (hroud them from the incle- mency oTall feafons. And whence came this ftfce£i' ty ,but from ftnne .' To glory then in.thefe*?rfj^r»rj, is to glory in finne. Which wei'c, as if fpme graae Capitall offender, hailing committed hi^hTrcafon againft his Soueraigne, fliould,notwithflandingjOur of a Princely Clemency be pardoned j yet with this condition,,that hee (hould wearet Cord or Halter a- bouc his necke during his Hf«, toputhim fn remem- brance of bis difloyalcy ind treafon.In which Badge, this frontieflfc Tray tor fhould pride himfelfe more, thsnif itwere (bme ancient Creft ©f honour. Re- fled then Tpon the originall fource of your forrow, £»*, ye daughters of Eue, Ambition promp" her to (in, fin brought hcf to fhame, ftiamc toherfhroud. Meere necejpty compelled her to weare what before (he knew not,and to prouide her (elfe of that which before fhe needed not. How is it then, that thefe ragges of finne, thtfe robes of fliame, fhould make you idolize yonr felucs ? How is ir, that yee cbnuerr chat which was ordained for n^ceffity^ to feedtlie light- flaming fucll of licentious liberty? Was ^p- ;>4r^/7fir(Hntendcd for keeping in natcrrall heat, and I -^ -B a keeping ' I — J THE ENGLISH Apparel. , keeping out ^<;cidencall cold? How comes it then rbac you weare thefc thinne Cobweb atiires, which dan neither prcrciue heat, nor repcll cold ? OFwhat an incurable cold would tlicle Buueifly-habits pol- feflc the- wearer, were pride fenfible of her felfe? Sure, thcfe attires were not made to kee[3€ cold out, but to bring cold ia. Mo neee^itjt but mccre vanit3 , introduced theic Pye-coloured fopperies amonglt v^. Vnuailemany of" our light Curtezans, whofe brothell praftice hath reft them of the ornament ot a woman, and you will findc a flrange Metamor- phofis,* fentu armMAtuni'Axo Venm ealu/i. We fay there is no good congruity in a- proud heart and a beggefs purfe.Why iliould we then pride our felues in that which difplayes our bcggery ? Before wee had cloathesjwc wanted nothing 5 hauingcloathes, we ftandin need ofall things. Primitiue purity ex- empted vs from thefe necejjisies ; Originall impurity fubie<5led vstotheie neceffitits. Cold wee grew in Charity, cold.ineuery Chriftian duty; garments then ftood wee in need of, to fhroud vs againll the tcmpeftof abenummed. Gonfcience» Thefe habits then ,itappeares, wereordained, at firft, for mte!- fttj tofliield vs : Vanity had not then fet inuentjon on workCjjiortheage fenthei-Phantaftickes abroad to trafifjcke with forrainc fafbions. Winter made^ choyce of his garment to fit the feafon j fodid Sum- mer, without an ,a&ded fingulairity, fit him to a feafonablefafh ion. They ftood not much either vp- on colour or curious border J temperate heat they defired toTctaine , intemperate to repdl; cold to keepeout, natnraU warmth tokeepc la. This was that, ancient times intcodedj this was all that they affcdlcd. Necijfir). enforced them to doe what they did; otherwile,Iam perfwaded,they had notbcene, rothisday»made. Thofc then that eftccmemore of GSN^LEWOMAU^. \ •^/>;>4''?//, how gort^eous (beuer, thanofa workcofi App^arbl. Mectjficy^ dctraS from their ownc glofy, to fute them (clues in ftufFvs of vanity. '^rHercis-nothing in its ow-ne nature fo abfoliite. • The vfc 0^ i ly good, but it may be corrupt?d ; what was at firft intended for fome good/^/?, ifperuerted^de- clines into iome apparant Abufe. ^ovf Gsntlerfontsn^ (for to you Idircd ihisdifcoarfe) would you ob- ferue the right vfit and diuert in no particalar from the Ordinance of Apfarelt ; Modcll:y muflbe your guide, vertuous thoughts your guard, fo (hall hea> uenbee your gpalc. ^ henthe Roman Princes, in their Conqucfts, or triumphant honours,were with acclamations and voliics of falutcs receiued,. by the gcnerall applaufe of the people extoMed, and in their I triumphall Ekerot Chayre of efhtc feated ; there ftood alwaycs one behind themjn their Throne, to pull them by the flecuc with this Menioriall ; lie- metftber thou art nf»rtaB, A more vlcfull Memoriall you cannot haue, than tliefc Robes you wcare, of your owne frailty,, nor a merecfftduail motiue to humility. Hadnotfinneworneyououtof Godsfa- uour, and reft yOu of your natiue fplendour, you bad neuer wornc thefehabics, lignals of your dis- honour. I commend her for the good vfe which (ht made of her AppareH^ who neuer dyed ber garment, but (hce watred it withatearei remcmbring what ntcejptiesh^v ambitious thoughts had brought her to : for by afpiring to know more than nieedid, (he became depriucd of chat excellent beauty which (he had. Patternes likewifc of modeft/you may be,and herein fmgularly vlefallby your examples, vntb o- thersofyourfexe. Nortan you poflibly cxpre(re it better,thcn in obferuing that diuine precepr,by lear- ning Affm'l, t-^ THe E^CCLlSH Ap PA REX. 1 ning bow to ari^ajf jmr [eines tn cantdf ap^arell^ jfifh ^Htf»ifafine^e4ndni»deiij, netyttth hr»tdtd haire, #r goU^orfeatles^ or cofilyappAreU: But^ at btcomiMth rvomen that profcjfe the fear^of god, Foreuen after thU wanner wtimefMJi did the holj women ^rvhich trufied in g od, tire them feluci.H^c isaprefcript forme by way of dircdtioD, for your habiu Choicer ornaments you cannot haucto adorne youj nor any fafliion thac will better fecmt you. Where you walke, you may enioyyourfeluesfreed from light eyes, gazing and admiring vanity i your very /?^^« is your Tefiat4to witneflc for you : loofe thoughts neitlc not in your bofome,nor doc wandringdiftrad^fonsfurprife yout breaft: you haue learned to your highcft folace,eaen' in euery motion, adion, poftore, gefture,r<5 obferue' modeftyyOS an wnament to honour. For j feeing that the very habit of the minde m*y bee bctt difeerncd and difcoucred by the ftatc or carriage of the body, cbc difpofition of the body by the habit; toauoyd (candaiLandrctainctbat Cbriftaanbpiftion whicbe- uery one ought to prefcrue, weeare to makechoyee of that attire, which Gonferresuvoftfeeming graui- ty on vs. This the very Heathen, whofc beft dire- dion was morality^ were carc&Ilof : k)f in the v[g of ty^ppareU, they retained fuch conftant courle, as they held it the greateft blemifli they could afpetfc vpon their Nation* to mrodiKre any new of ex©- ticke fafliion, either to eflFeminate the difpofitions of their people, ortoder^aie from the honour of their memorable predeccfifours; whofe ftiodellwas their dircdl ion in habit, aftd all othef e takes now acquaintance from tlje Sbc^, Then were inch women matter of (can- dall to ChrJftian eyes, which vfed painting their skianc, powdring their bayrc, darting their eye. Our Commerce with forraine Nations was not for falhions, feathers, and follies. 1 here was diftindion in ©ur attires ; differences of ranks and qualities ; a ciuill obferuance of decent habits ; which confer- red noleffe glory on our lie at home, than vi(?lori- ous mannagements by the prowefTe of our Inhabi- tants, did abroad. If we reflc^/r<:467 in being more curious in our Choyce of ^ppare/i ihin nece^uj or decency doth require ; fe- condly, Superpntj, iw ftoring. more variety and change of raym.cnrs than cither nature needs, or reafon would admit, were fliee not tranfported with a fenfuill afFcdion, by giuing way to what, vnboun- ded appetite requires. . IN the fcarch of any Minerall, we arc firft to diggc fortheveine: and in the curing of any maleuo- lent cfFedjWC are duely and ferioufly tomquire the producing caufe, that by flopping the Spring or fource, wecmayftay the violence of the ftreamc. We are then to infiit of thofc two precedent means, . hy by which the vfe may bee irrtacrted to ahufe ; and tha: which oFic felfeisapproucablejiFobfcrued with decency, becomes iuftly reprShenfiDleby corrupting fonecelTary atid coarequcnc an tz/c', either by de- itc«tsjy\*jh\c\\ weakens and cfF.'minacts the iT^Vif J or by Sn!>erfl:iityj which euer darkens the beameh'ng o{rea(o» with the Cloud oFffft/t. Reproofe touching t^/';>4r^// may bee occafioncd from foure rcfpcds : Firfti when any one wearefh ^pfaye/UboiiQ their degree, exceeding their eftate in precious attire. Whence it is that Gregory faith ; there be fome who are of opinion, that the weare of precious or fump tuousex^/?^?^^// is no fi nne : Which if it were no fault, thediuine Word would n:ucr haue fo pirndu ally cxfiefled, nor hillorically related, how th.c Rich many who was tormented in hell, was cloathcd with Purple and Silke. W hence we may note, that touching the n^attcr or fubiec^ of attire, humane cu- riofityauaileth highly. Thefin'lftufFcor fubflance of our garments, was very meai^e; to wit, Skinne with Wool I. Whence it is we read, that God made /f^wj and bis wife Coatt of Skinne t^ thati?, of the Skinnes of dead beafts. Afterwards (fee the grada- tion of this vanity deriucd from humane fin^olari* ry) they came xoVun Woolly becanfe it was lighter than Skinnes. After ihiz to rifides of trees, to wit, F/4X, A ftcr that to the dua^ and ordureoffVormes, to wit, Stikf' Laftly, to ^oU and Siluer^ and precious Stones. Which precioufnefFe of a tr ire hiohly difplea- feth God. For inftance whereof ( which the very Pajrans themfelues obferued) we read that the very firft among the Remansy who euer wore Tutfle^ was ftruckewithft Thunder-bolt, andfodyed fuddenly, for a terror and mirror to all fucceeding times, that none flioald attempt to lift himfelfc proudly aqainft I . God Apparel. 14 I TBe eUGLISH APPAREU Zephdn.it God in precious attire. 1 The fecond point reprehcnfible is,Seftneffe or ^- I /teacj of ^ppM'eff : Soft Cloathes introduce fbft mindes. Delicacy in the ha^it, begets an effeminacy in I the yenrt. lobn Baftifi, who was landified in his nao- thers wombc, wore fliarpe and rough garments. Whence wee are taught, that the true ftruant of God is not to weare garments for beauty or de- light, but to couer his nakednefTe ; not for State I or Curiofity, butneceflity andconuenience. Chrift &ith in his Gofpell, They that Are dad in foftraj^ ments, are in Kingt houjes^ Whence appeareth t maine difference betwixt the feruants of Chrift and of this world. The feruants of this world Icekc de- light, honour, and pleafure in their attire : whereas the leruants of Chrift (b highly value the gar- tnenc of innocence, as they loath to Oaine it witk outward vanities. It is their honour to pitt vn Chrift lefus ; other robes you may rob them of, and giue them occafion to ioy in yourpurchafe. The third thing rcpioueable is, ferraine Fajhionsi When we defirc nothing more than to bring in fome OutlandifK habit different from our owne j in which refped (fo Apifhly-anticke is man) it bc- comcs more atfedled than our owne, Againft fuch the Lord threatnethj ^ w»/5f 'i^ijit the Tri^ces and the Ktngs chiidten, andaU [uch as are ctoathed mthfiranje •y^pforelL Which grange Apparett is after diuers faf^ionsand inuentions, wholly vnknowne to our Anceilors. Which may appcarc fufliciently to (uch, who within this 30, or 40, or 6q y^ares neuer faw fuch cutting, caraing, nor indenting as they now fee. The fourth thing reproueable is^SfiptrflmtjofAp- parell, exprefTed in thelc three particulars : firft, in tbofe who kaue diuers changes and fuitsof CloathSi; who [ GSNTLSWOMAD^. [ 15 who had rather haue their garments eaten by moaths, than they (hould couer the poore members ofChrift. The naked cry, the needy cry, and {hreekingly GOmplainc vnto vs, hew theymifera- bly labour and languifli of hanger and cold. What auailes it them that wee haue fuch changes of ray- ments neatly plaited and folded ; rather than w^c will fupply them, they muftbe ftarucd ? How doe fuch rich Moath-wormcs oblerae the Dodtrine of Chrift, whenhe faith in his Gofpell ; Heethat hath tv C9MS let him^HC one to him that hath none ? Secondly, wee arc to confider the Snperfittity of fuch who will haue long garments, purpofely to feeme gre&rer : yet, whicn of theft canadde one cu- bit CO his ftature ? T bis puts me in remembrance of a conceited ftory which I haue fometimes heard, of a diminutiue Gentleman, who demanding of his Tayler,what yards of Sattin would make him a Suite, being anfwered farre fliort in ijumber of whathcexpe the foundation. The Souleinthe body is like a Qneenein her Palace. Ifyou would then haue | rbislictleCommon-weahh wtthin you to floiiriili, | yoa mull wich timely prouidencefupprefTe all fadti- 1 ous and turbulent moiefters of her peace: yoiirpal^ j D fions, 1 Apparel. 1- i8 THE ENGLISH Apparel. (ions, elpccially chofe of vaine-glory, muft bcc re- llraincd ; motiues to humility chcri(hcd ; chad thoughts embraced ; all deuious and wandring Co- gitations excluded j that the Toule may peaceably enioy her felfe,and in her Palace Hue fecured. Where- to if you obiedl, that this is an hard Icflbn ; you cannot defpife the world nor hate the fiefh ; tell mce where are all thofe louers of the world, cheriflicrs of the flffflij which not long fince were among vs? Nothing now remaineth of them but duft and wormes. Gonfider diligeatly (for this confiderati- on will be a Counterpoize to all varne-glory) what they now are, and what they hauc bcenc. Women they were as you are : they haue eat, drunke, laugh- ed, fpcnt their dayes in iollity, and now in a mo- ■ ment gone downe to hell. Here their flefh is appor- tioned to wormes, there their foules appointed to hell fire : till (iich time as being gathered together to that vnhappy fociety, they fhall bcrowledin e- I ternall burnings, as they were before partakers with them in their vices. For one puniflament afflicfleth, whom one loue of finne affedetb. Tell mee, what profiteth them their vaine-glory, (hort ioy, world- ly power, pleafure of the flefh, euill got wealth, a great family, and concupilcence arifing carnally? Where now is their laughter ? Where their ieft^ Where their boafting ? Where their arrogance ? From fo great ioy , how great heauineffe ? After fuch Tmall pleafiire, how great vnhappineflc ? From fo great ioy they are now fallen into great wretched- neHe , grieuous calamity, vn(ufferab/e torments. What hath befallen them, maybeftllyou; being Earth of Earth, flimeofflime : Of Earth you are, of Earth you fiue, and to Earth yon flia/I returnc. Take this with you for an infallible pofition in thefe your Cottages of Corruption ; If you follow the flefh, you GEKTLEWOMAl^. ( ^9 youfliallbepunifhcdintheflcfh : if you be deligh- ! Apparel. ted in the flcfli, you fliall be tormented in the fle{li : for by how much more your flefli is cockered in this world with all delicacy ; by fo much more (Kail your (bules bee tormented in hell eternally. If you fecke curious and delicate rayments, for the beauty and brauery of your rayments fliall the moath bee laid vnderyou, and your Couering fliall bee Wormes. And this {hall fuflfice tehauebeene fpoken touching 'DelUacj of j4pparc3 ; wc arc now to defcend briefly to the ftcond branch, Suferfiuitj: whereof we intend to difcourfc with that breuity, as the neceffity of the Subied,whereof wee treat, Ihall require, and the generality of this fpreading malady may enforce. DIuineis thatfaying, and well worthy your re- tention: Thecouetous perfon before he gaine lofeth himfclfe, and before bee take ought is taken himfelfe. He is no kiTe wanting to himfelfe in that which hce hath, than in that which hee h^th not. Hee findes that hee loft not, poflefleth that hee owes not, detaines that he ought not, and hates to reftore what hee iniurioufly enioyes. So vnbounded is the affe(ftion, or rather (o depraued is the auariri- ous mans inclination, as hee cannot eoniaine his de- fires within bounds, nor enter parley with realbn, hauing once flaued his better fart to the foueraignty of a fcruile affedion. This may appcare euen in this one particular. Food and rayment are a Chriftians riches : wherein he vfeth that moderation, as hee 1 makes that Apoftolicall rule hisChriilian diredion : Hauing food and rayment^ I hone learned in all things to i be contented. But how miferably is this golden rule | inuerted, b^ our lenfuall worldling ? Competency mull neither be their Cater in the one, nor Conue- D 2 niency Superfluity of 20 Tlie BNGLISB rappA \ aieiicytluirTaykr in the other. Their Tabfe miili '1 -^ — i labour oF variety of (iillics, and thsir Wardrobe of cxcban:;c ot raiments. No reafon n^-rc probable than this of their naked infid'js, which ftand in need oF rhcic p/ptf^/^au/wadditamenrs. Wharn-iyriads of :ir;d:rpu:cdhoLirticoalunK' thcle in btaurifying rot- ten tombcs 1 H ow curious they are in fuiting rhcir bodies, howrcmifT-Mn perferring their fcuicsruit to their Maker ! How much they arc dtfquicted in their choycc, how iTiUch perplexed- in their change, how irreio'.ute whatthey {hall weare>hovv forgctfull of what they v;tre ! I hiscdging fuits nor, that pirlc (brts not, this drtlTing likes not : off it mufi: after all be {itted,and with a new Exchange, lelTe Iccnitly, butiT.ore gaudy fuitcd. The fafliicn that was in prime requef^ but ytflerday, how itbegins to ci^- reliiili the wearer, as if it had loft the beauty by vn- leaibnable wcaihcr ; thus is fafhion fallen intoa quo- tidian Feuer : See oar eompleatcfl FuifhioK-mehgeri, how much they tyre themfelues with their atriring, how they trouble themfelues with their trimming ! It feemes vvondcifiili come, that they arc not whol- ly cruCbed, with that onerous burthen with which they are prcflld. What afliopoFgoga nifieshang vponouebacke ? Here the remainder of a greater workc, the reliques of an ancient Mannor conuerted toapearleChaine. There the moityofan ill-huf- banded demaine reduced to a Carknet, Long traincs mull (weepc away long acres : the Epidcnijcall va- nity ofthisagedothcxadit ; andfhecis held leaft worthy affecting, that doth leaft afFe<^ ir. . What j (ayes my delicate Madam ^ " Is \z for one of my , ''ranke or dcfccnt toafFed: what is vulgar ? how *' then fhouldrbecomc popular? Iconftire, we are "allcompoff dofonc Earthy yet h the it ro bee prc- " /uppoled a difference in our bmh. Were it fitting that GSNTLeWOMJN, 21 *^' cha: I /ItouM fail orf, either from tfjac fl^f/Tr^rr | Apparel* '* whicU is generally approiied, or that X'-«>'/.''9' which "is b? OMr more generous lormaiifts applauded .> " V/haf amiles a mighty fortune to a miferab.e ciif- "^ pofer ? Or braae aitanvS, ^vhtrc a bate mind is the* "difpfnier? ylpp^re/i muU be with aefirsicj ior^a]^ *« %'«riffyfuited, or chc dignify cFthe perfori, be it *^neuerfo corifpiwuous, will be o'ofcurcd, AdmiCj *^ vinczy bs mcQce /ffpcrfltiity, atworft iris but die " si2,^s zaaity t which is luch an viyiutrfall nia!sdy,ao " it p'eads exemption vvichouc farrhcr npology. Whereto lanfwcr; ic is true, the Age labours of thisdifeatc' ; where ihe eye becomes a d^rermincr of oar worth, by the outward habit which wee wcarc : It refleds not on what is in vs, but what is on vs. She is not tobe accounted a Court viliranr, who rcitraincs her fclfe either in her choyce oide/i^ cacj^otvayttty of habit. What then ? Sliall a viLious or effwininare age deprauG your iudgement r Or a corrupt ti me depriue you of iudgement ? No ; you haue more abPjlurep^rfedions within you, than to bcblemillied with thcfe imperfe(flions which you too frequently cirry about you. The mare you d'lf- play your pye-coloured P.agge of vanity ; die more Lures ycu throw out ofioofeft liberty ; the more fo- ments you rfe of foule- foylin^ di/tcacj ; the deeper Lodgingyoubefpcakeyourfelucs in the Lake ofc- ternall mi kry. Toliich I onely fpeakc, who,fo they may furnifliihcmrciuesof adainty artift, to teac'i them how todye well, make it the leaft of their care how to iijte welL Thele who loue to dye their ^4«V ©ut controulejdifpenfers anddifpofers of their owne. This vAriity and deltcacj wherein they exnrcfle liierr- 21 THe encLisB \ Apparel* ' thcoifclucs by an efptciall markc ofdiftinftionfrom • \ others, they deriiie it from the affluence of their I owne tbrtunes, and not from others : which being fo iuftly enioyed, and withoat ininry, adnaits no ex- ception in all probability. Whereto I reply, with Btifil, the words of a Diuine Father, " Art not thou, " whofoerc thou bee, a Robber, who haft receiued ** goods as a Steward or difpcnfer j and entitleft thy •'fclfe the impropriator or owner? tor what faire "glozes or pretences, foeuer, thou makeft for thy "felfe, CO gild thy fhame, or mince thy finnc, it is ^* the bread of the needy, which thou with-holdeft j *' the Coat of the naked which in thy Cheft thou '*ftoreft; the flioocsof the barefoot, which with ** thee lye rotting ; the coyne of the bcgger, which ^' with thee lyes moulding. Away then with thele Super fiuofu drcflings ; you fee daily obicd:s of your charity, bring out your wardrobe, and cloath the naked. That which you fo prodigally fpent vpon your felues, conuert it to the more glorious Attirinj^ of yoar naked fonles. See that your Kings clanghter be all glorious within, thSitihe King of Kings may take pleafiirc in her. Let not (b precious an Imagfi be defaced, fo fpecious a Virgin defiled, ^o glorious a Creature diftionoured. Inftcad of ll'^^Aff^^, deckc ' your felues Modcftly; iniUidoi Sfiperflfiitj, out of your variety communicate freely to others necefli- ty. We arc now to delcend briefly to the laji branch of this/rj? OhferHAtioH, declaring, how. That ^y^ppa- r^Z^ is ra oft comely, which conferres on the Wearer moikn&tiac hofffj, and moft honour on her^«w- trej. That Apparel I moft comely, 1 which ccn- AS that is euer held moft ^enerotu which isleaft afe^ied, moft genuine which is Icaft forced ; fo there GSNTLeWOMAS^. \ «? fcrrcson tlie H^earer moft natiue&Mv/jr, and moA ho- nour on her Comtrty, there is nothing which confers more true glory on \ Afparbi . vs, then in difplaying our owne Countries garbc by that we wearc vpon vs» The Crowe in the fable was {harply taxed for her borrowed feathers : The /"4^/^,though it fpoke oft Cr^w^.thc L^toraH pointed at a f»a». Habit (we fay) is a C^Jiome ; why (hould itbeoiirc«7?«w?to change oiitBabtt} With what conftancyfome other Nations obferue their natiue attyre, Hiftories both ancient and moderne will (uf- ficiently informc vs. Noihing is held more con- temptible with them,than api&ly to imitate foraign fiifliions : Prefcription is their Tayler , antiquity their Tutor. Amongft the] ancient Heathen, euen their very habit dittinguifli'd Widdowes from Ma- trons,Matrons from Virgins. So as not onely Cex^s^ ftatcSjConditions, yeereSjbut cucn Iinage$,races, and families were remarkeably difcouercd. We vfually obferue fuch a fafhion to be Frenchj inch an one Sfa- nipjy another italian^ this Dntch^ that Toland, Meane time where is the En^lifh f fiirely, fome precious E ■ hxir extra(5led out ofall thefe.Sbe will neither relye on her own inuetion,nor compofe her felfe to the fa- Ihion of any one particularNation,but make her (elfe an Epitomized confeftionof all. Thus becomes flic not only a ftranger tootbers,but toberfeIfe.lt were tobewiftied, that as our Countrey is iealous of her owne inuention in contriuing, fb tfiec were no k{^t cautelous in her choice of wearing. Gngtrj the great thought that Angles did ncercly fymphonize with •Angels, not fo much in letter, as in fauour and fea- ture : Were it not pitty that thefefhould darken their beauty with vailes of defbimity ? Truth is, there is nothing which conferres more natiue beau- ty on th« wartTy than to be Icafl affeSiuein whatfo- cuer (he (hall wcare, Shee afpcrfeth a great blemifli on her better pa«) who tyes her fclfe to that forma- •••^iw-nOT 24 TUS ECNiGLlSB Apparel. I lity, as flic dare not put off the kafl: trifie thaclliee weares, nor put on ought more than {bee weares, left flic fliould Icfe the opinion of Compleac. There isanatiui^raodeftycucnin attire as well as gefture, which better becomes, and would more fully ac- compli lli her, if /«7/J?o» were not fuch a f^^r/^ in her eye, as ix. kccpcs her from the fight of her owne vs- nity. LconKlTe, light heads will bee eafily taken with fuch toyes : yea, J haue fometimcs obferued a pliaatafticke drelTing ftrike an amorous inconfide- rate Goofeling foontr intoa paHionate ah mcy with a carekfPj louefickc wreathing of his enfolded aimes, than fome other more attradiue obied could eucrdae. But what is the purchafe of oneofthefe CrecKm-ixits worth? what benefit can a yong Gentletvo. «7<««rcapin enioyinghim, wholcarccly cuercnioy'd himfelfc ? Meancs he may haue, but {oxn(:fin^\y arc they fcconded by inward abilitics,as his ftare kemes fi.tcrroma.inagchim, tlian hcc to marlliall it. A long Locke he hasgot,ard thearttofrizleit ;a Ring in 2 llring, and the rrickc to havdie it : for his dil- courfc, CO ^iue him his true Cbaraftcr, his iii'encc ap- proues him better ; for his wit, hee may Uugh ata conceit, and his conceit ne*re rhc wi^er; for hiso- ther pares, difclaiming his fubllance, I appcalc to his pidure, UoWjGcnt/en'fffuatt, tell me, dos you trim your felfe rp for this TcftmAj} Would you haue the focle to weare y ou,afrer fo many/^//i^i hnue out wornc •you? Let moicily fuit you, thata difcrectcr m?te may chufc you. Be it your prime honour to rr ake ci- uility yourdiredor. This will incomparably more grace you, than any phamafticke arttre, which, rhoa;;h it beget admiration, itclozeth a-iwaye^s witli , dcriHon. You cannot poflibly detrad more from the renowne ofy our Country, where you rrceiued birth and education, than by too hot a quefl or purfiiir / after GSNTLSyyOM/iS^. 25 ater OutlaRdiflifafiiions. VhynoithtDotterell^in ] Behavior this too apifli and feruilc Imitation ; jet other Coun- tries admire yourConftancy and Ciuilityavhilc they reflect both on what you wcarc and what you arc. Be it your glory to improue your Countryes fame. 1 Many eyes arc fixed on you,and many hearts will be taken with you, if they behold thofc two Orna- ments, C^CoeUiijfy and Humility, euor attending you : Difcretion will be more taken and enamoured with thefe, than toyes and feathers. There is nothing fo rough but may be polifhed; nor ought fb outwardly fairebutmay bediffigured. Whereas the beauty of thefe two cannot by adulterate Art be more graced, by the aged fiirrowes of time become defaced, or by any outward Occurrent impaired. There are many beauteous and (iimptuous Cafts^ whole Infiruments are out of tune. Thefe may pleafcthe eje, but they neither lend nor leaue a fwect accent in the Etire, May-buds of fading beauty ; Fruits which common- ly /4/4f before they be r/;>^,and tender fmall fweetnefle to them \.\\tireafe, Thefe Baths of voluptuous de- lights, challe feet difdaine to approach. Vertue rauft either be fuited with Confbrts like her felfc, or they muft giue her leauc folcly toenioy her felfe. Be you CMmds of henoHT x.^ this maiden PrincefTc. Confe- crate yoiir day to vertuous adions, your night to vfefull rccollecfiions. Thinke how this ff'sr/il is y oar Sta^fj your Life an ^<5?. The Tirm^-hoHfe;whtxc you beflow'd fuch care, cofl: and curiofity, mull be fliut vpjWhen your A/lf^^fapproacheth. Prepare Oyle for your virgin Lamps ; marriage robes for your chafle foules J that aduancing the honour of your Countrey here on Earth, in your tranfiation from hence, you may find a Countccy in heauen. } ^7 02 Jf9&-'S^f_'-? KJt^ "^ THE ENGLIS H Gentlewoman. Argument. B^hauiour refieEfj on three particulars ; Msy» to bc- haue her felfe in Company j How in priuacy : That Behauiour mefl ap^reued, ivhich u clearefi from affeda- tion freed. Be H AV loVR, Ehauiorbeing an apt c6- poftire of the body in ar- guments ofdi/ceur/fTLnd ASion, exprefTech eiiery perfon in fo faire a Cha- radlcr, that \^ his breft were tranfparant, hee could not be diTpIayed fuIler.A!beit,fomeloue to become fo eftranged , r- , tt ^^ retired rather from the eye of the world, as they baue made it their . — Li highert Behavior Ohfernat.i, 28 j TUS BNCL2SH Behavior Behiuiour rc- fleftsonthrcc particulars. Act I a.N.. hicheltarcandabfolutcft ayme, to ihrowde thcm- (elucs tro.n the conceit or difcuITion of man ; by en- tringcouenantorcontradl with DiJj[imuiMton^ to ap- pcare leaft to the ^j ^.p.-. Women ariewoeh'tntn ; No^thefre the way. To hn*)g them howetvard when thej run aBray, In a word, conforme your felues to fuch patterues as are imitable; imitate them in all fuch amom as are laudable j So liue, that none may haue eceafion to GSNTLeWOMA:^. \ 51 cofpcakceiiillyof you, if they fpeake truly. The i Behavisr memory of XJ^rr^w huethftill ; Shce was fulhf good wotkes andai'mes which Jhee did. Yea, euen the very Ctatjgind garments which (bee made, while fhe was h"uing,were fliownethe Apoftle as arguments ofher induftry, memorials of her piccy. Hence it was that Saint /tfrew^, that excellent patterne of holy Difci- pline, ferious proftffor of Diuine Doflrine,coanfei- leth the holy Virgin Demftriof to cfchcw idlcneffc : "Exhorting her withall, that hauing done her '* prayers, (hee fhould take in hand wooll and wea- "uing, after the commendable example oF Dorcas, '^ that by fuch change or variety of workcs, the day " might feeme leffe tedious, and the affaults of Satan " leile grieuous : concluding his deuout Exhortation, with this definite pofition. ** I fpeake generally, no "rayment, ornament, or habit whatfoeucr, fliall *' feeme precious in Chrifts fight, but that which ''thou make ft thy felfe, either for thine ownepccu- '* liar vfe^or example of other Virgins.or togiue vn- " to thy Grand-mother, or thy Mother, no, though " thou diftribute all thy goods vnto the poore. See how ftridly this holy Father proceeds with his re- ligious Daughter 1 Yet was ihisDemetrias^'^o whom he addrefled this his exhortation, a Noble Lady • not one, whompouerty did enforce kq anions o^ ^uch ne- ceflity : but one honourably defcended, richly en- dowed, powerfully friended. Let this Lady be your Patterne, her aEiton your true honour is not wonne, Vnttllfcme honour able diedbe done, Wafle ?i THe BD^GLISU Beh AV I OR 1 Wafte not prodigally the precious Lampc of your I life without ibmc vzn\xo\x$a&ion that may purchafe I loue. Your time h IcflTe than a minute in refpedl of e- tcrnity, employ that minute fo, as it may eternize your memory. Let this bee yoarhigheft taske; to promote the honour of your Maker, eftecming all things elfe a (lauirh and feruile labour. AFFEcrroy. 'TpHete is nothing which requires more difcreti- Jl on, than how to hehAue or carry our Iclucs while we are enthralled to affeSli$n, The Louer ii euer blin- ded (faith wife Tlato) with ^j^^»p« towards his be- loued. Reafcnis laid afleepe, while Senfe becomes the mafter Wooer. Whence came that vfua/l laying, One canmt loue attd ke mfe. But I wholly oppole my I felfc CO their aflertion, who feeme thus farre tranf- ported with thefenfuall opinion oi^jfelfion. My Te- net is, One cannot true Ij Uue^ and not ke rtife. It is a Beldam freezy and no fancy,which giues way to fii- ry, and admits not reafon to hauefoueraignty. Yet inthisSubied, Gentlewomen^ is your temper befl tryed, your difcretionmofl required, and your Pa- | tience, oft-times, moft exerciftd. Looke therefore I how you plant it, left you bootlefly repeat ic,when itismifplaced. i It is moft certaine, there is nothing more impa- tient of delay than loue, nor no wound more incu- rable while we Hue. There is no exemption, all hauc a rafte of this Potion, though it haue feuerall degrees of operation. Looke all about ycu ; rphofojonng that hnes not} Or whofo old^ a comely featurt moues not ? Yet what different pafTions arifc from one and the felfe-fame Subied> Heere, Geutiervomen, youfhall fee fbme of your Sexe fo furprized with affeilion, as it GeKTLeFFOMJTi. it burOis out iato violent extremes ; their difcourle is femi-brcu'd with fighes, their calkc with teares ; they walke dcfperately forlorne, making Launds and defolateG roues their difconfolate Conlorts, Their eyes are eft rang'd from (Icepe, their weakened ap- petite from repaft, their wearied limbs from repofe, MeianchoUyistheirfole melody j They haueraade a Contrad with griete, till griefe bring them to their graue. And thcfe poore wenches arc much to be pittied.becaufe their ownc tender hearts brought them to this exigent : hauing either fet their afftdi- o»f, where they thought \'-erily they might bee re- quited and were not, or elie where they receiued like iecming tender of affe^isn, but afterwards reic- ded, what they wifhedtocfFcA they could not. So as, in time, if continuance of abfence reduce them not to a better temper, they fall into a poore Maiid- /wdiftemper, bygiuing rainestopaflion, till it e- ftrange them from the foueraignty of rcafbn. Where- as others you fhall fee, though not foch kind loules, nor halfe fo paflionate, yet more difcrcet in their Choy^re, and in the paltages of loue more tempe- rate. Thefe will not deigne to call a looie looke vpon their beloucdi but ftand Co pundually vpon their termes, as if they ftood indilFercnt for their choycej albeit conftantly relolued neuer to admit of any change. Thefe Icorne to paint out their 'pafllions in plaints, or vtter their thoughts in fighes, or flied onedifpaflfionate teare for an incompaflionateLouer, Their Experience hath taught them better Notions : they wil fcemingly fly to make them follow, and To take them by whom they are mofl taken. They can play with the flame, and neuer cinge their wings,' looke loue in the face, and prefcrue their eyes ; con- uerfe where they take delight, and colour their '«/^-; fe^ien with a feeraing difdaine, Thefe are they who F can 33 _ BnHAVion -, v*- ?4 THE ENGLISH Bhhavior Passj on. can walkc in the Clouds to their intimateft friends : make their eyes ftrangers to their hearts, and con. ciude; nothing more toolidi than loue, ifdilcoue- red; nothing more wife, if artfully (hadowed. But f neither approiie the violence oi the former, novin- dtg'erenceoHh^hittv* The one interlayech affe^ion with too much padion, the other v,^ichtoo much difTimuIation. Thefe were well to beefo allayed or attempered, as neither too much eagerntflTe raxe thcdifcretioHj nor too much remifnefle argue coole- md'e of afeE^ioK, For the former, Imufttell them, they giue great aduaiuage to an infulting Loucr, to enreitaine Loue with fuch vehement ardour ; it fares with thefe, as with hot duelUFiiy who fight them- felues out of breath, and fo fubied their relenting /"wcf to the command of a better tempered enemy. Forthelattef, they hold conftantly that pofition in arguments oiLone^ as well as in other actions of their life ; She knowes not how to litte, nor how to /pz/^jthatknowesnothowtodifTemble. I muft teli thefe, ^iffimftUt ion (oris not well with affeEfion : Lo- uers feldome read Loiies Politicks; Let them ap- pcare what they are,with that di-fcrcet temper, as they may deferue the embraces of a Noble Louer. f n briefe, let fuch as are too hot in the quell of their defirej, atremperate that hear with intermifiions; fuch violence is beft rebated by abfencc. Contrari- wi(e, fuch as are too coole,tct them quicken that ea= flneffe with their more freqijcnt confercnce,and aili duate prefence. WHat a furious arid inconfideratc thing is Wom.w, when PafTton diftempersher ? how much is her BehAttiom altered, as if locafia were; now to be perA3nated ? True it is, fomc with a bite I GENTLEWOMAN. 35 of their lip, can fuppreflTe an intended rciienge ; and j Behavior like dangerous Politicians, plealingly entercaine j_~ titne with one they mo rtally hate, rill oportunity vfher reuenge, which they can ad with as much hottility, as if that very moment were the Aflor of their iniary. But this PaJJton neuer workes more tragicke or fearefull cffeds, than when it ftreames from lealoufie or Competition in the Subied where they loue. Whereof wee haue variety of inftances cuen in our owne Hand, to omit /^/y, which is a ve- ry Theatre oi Tragicke Conclufions in this kinde. It is not long fince wc had one matchleffe Prefident of this ftampe. '* It fometimes pleafed a young G^n- " tlervomaiij whofe fortunes had fweli'd her high, to "fettle her affedion on a C/^»r/*?w4» of deferuing' "pirts, which he entertained with a generous re. *' quitali : nothing was omitted that might any way " incrcafe this refped, or fecond the height of dieir '' ioyes. Continuall refort and frequent made them *' infeparably one : No day fo pleafing,as when they '' WwTC together jNo houre fo tedious as when they '* were alunder. Bat how flioit is chat moment of *' vading happineffe, which hath in it a rellifli of * ' lightnefle, and is not grounded on eflentiall good. ** neflbl Long had they not thus liued, and fociably *' loucd, but the GentUwomnn conceiucd fome prf- " uace fufpitiou, that her (elfe was not fole foue- *' raigneffc of his heart, but that another was become *• (liarer in his loue. Neither was this Competitrice, " whom {hee fufpcdcd, any other than her owne at- " tendant, whofe Caskets (liee fecretly opened, "where (he found a Ringofefpecfall note, which " fliee had formerly bellowed on him. This confir- *' med her Conceit, changed her reall louc into *' mortall hate 5 which flieefeconded with this tra- '^ gicke ad: Inuiting him one day to a Summer Ar- F 2 boar, I 3^ i THe BNCUSH I BeH4VI0R *'boiir, where informer times they were vfiially '*wonrtorepofe, amiditof an amorous difcourfe, **ihecafually iixthcr eye vpon three Lennetty one *' whereof picking feme priuet leaucs purpofely to «• buiid her neaft, flew away, white the two which *• remained, louingly billed one with another; which ** ^e inrcntiuely obferiiing, vfed the(c words y More '* tenderly and iwiraareh doe thofe poare fooies mate it ? *' iVere it ti&t pitty they fhouid euer he d'mided ? Which *' words fhe had no iooner vtiered, then the Shee- " Linnet flew away, and left the Male alone, till an- " other returned : with whom the Hw-Z^^w^; bil- " led, %vi^ amoroufly wooed as hee had done before. <* Which fhee more lerioufly eying, O, quoth (hee, " Hoyv lijjot thefe mnles are in their ajfeSiion \ Thia may " ^ecme to you an eafie errayjrut were I ludge of Birds ^ it ^* (hoHidvHeiuecifie cenfure* Why Lady (fcplyed hee) * ^ Tht/epoore Birds dee but according to their kinder Tea, *' hut what doeje kjnd men then, yvho ingageyenr hues, * ' inter efiy otirfclnet, empa/vneyour foules to bee conjlant ** yvhereyoti prefeffeloHei and performe nothing ieffetban " whatyou profeffe mofi. Nor would her long intended " reucnge admit more liberty to her tongue ; for " with a pafTionate enterbreath (hee clozed this ** fpeech with afatallftabbe : leauingfo much time '' to her vnfortunatc and diiafterous Louer, as to dif. "couertooneof that forrowfull family the ground " of her hate, the occafion of his fall, which haftned "onthcdoleftll Scene of her Tragedy. Now toal- lay er abate thefe pafTionate furies, there isno better meanes than to enter parley with reafon ; fo chaftife all ftich innouating motions as dlfquict the inward repoie of the mind ; to vfc the heipe of ftich whole- -(bme inflru(flions, as may attemper the heat of thofe indifpofcd and inordinate palftons. Anger, being an fnflammat ion of blood about the heart, n /uch a fu- ry. ceKtLewoMjN. I 37 ry, as to giuc way to it, is to difclaime reafon: much i Behavior wifcdome is cheu required, mature aduice to bes v- fed, all afiiftaats of Art and Natnye to be employed before this Adier can be charmed. For wee fhal! hardly fee any one more forget themfelues, than when they are farprized with this T^Apatt.Somc you ftiall obftrue fo amazed or entranced ,as they become wholly (ilenced ; They cannot vtter an artipuiate wordtogaineakingdome. Gladly would ihey^&jc^ prclfe their diftalte, asd menace reuenqe, if their tongues would giuechem Ieauc,but wraih hath tycd them to g9od MafiioMr, Others are fo voluble of tongue, as nothing can paffe them vntouch'd, to a- fperfc difgracc on fuch by whom they hold them- felues wrong'd. If any infamy (which to that time lay buried) offer it felfe to their memory, how they ioy in the occafionof venting their malice on their perfons, be their Calumny feconded with words of fowleft afperfion : Which fort of people the euerli- uing Ttndarm termcs perfons of vnbounded and vn- bridelcd tongues. To remedy which cnornnties, take along with you thefe inftfuftions : they will be- nefit you much in the height and heat of your anger, aad allay your f'rf^wwhen-it rageth andrifcth into hugcftdiftemper. Forthwith, fofooncas you (hall percciuc your fclues moued, reftraine your pafifion ; but if you cannot appcafe nor compofe your inward Commotion, at leait reftraine your tongue, and in- ioyneitfilence, that if it fpcake no good, it may fpeakcnocQill, left being loofe andfet atliberty, it vtter what vr^fifr, and not tm/o^ didatcs : More fo- ucraigneandpeaccfullit will bee for you to retire from fociety,makc rccourfe to your Oratory, by re- commending to your bcft Phyfician the cure of this infirmity.Vle likewift thisCordial falue to your cor- roding foare j the reccit isDiuine, if feafonably ap- plycd, 38 I TBe ENGLISH Behavior \9^'£' plycd, and will minifter you comfort when you arc moft diftempered.Soloone as your difquieted minds begin to expoftulate with the quality of your wrongs, which your Enemy isapttoaggrauate and exafperate, purpofely tohaften your precipitate rc- uengej propole andfet before you all the difgraces which poflibly you can iiifFer, and conferre thena with thole that were afperfed on your Sauiour : this will prepare you to fuffer, teach you to conquer : for Arrowes forefeene menace Icfle danger. Like wife, when you confider the iniuries which arc done you by others, you may rcfieft vpon the I wrongs which are done by you vnto others : for I theconfiderationof yourowne infirmity, willcx- I adlofyou towards others an impunity. Weigh with i yourfelucs how much others fuff^r of you, how much God himfelte fuffcrs ofyou, who, if he fkould haue infiided reuenge for eucry particular oflfcnce, you fhould haue perifhed long (ince. In a word, you your fclucs are frequently gricuous, and difpleafing to your felucs : Seeing then you are fo diftafteliill vrn- toyour felues,as you muft ofnecelTity fuftcr manyin- iurics and affronts from your felucs.repine not at the fuffrings which are inflifled by others on your felues. You are like wife to confider tbefe diicommodi- ties which a rile from thlsPa£/o» • which willarme you with patience, if of your felues you haue any com pafiion. What auailes it to be reuenged,aFtct our iniury bereceiuedMsyour woud by anorhers wound to be cured ? Or difgrace tcndred, by rendring difgrace rellored ? Befides all this, fee what hee obtaineth, who af)£fr obey eth .• i . He is depriued of the Crowne of glorvjand reward of eternity : 2, He becomes a Minifter and Inflrament of the Deuill : 3 . He deftroy eth his owne foule, that he might hur t an others body : For a dirpaflioi«te or angry perfon GeNTL6WOMA!7i. islike vnrohim, who that he may kill his Affe, de- {Iroyeth himfclfe ; or rather like hrm, who for huge debts which he is nor able todilcharge, is throvvne into prifon, and difdaincfully refureth any ones offer to pay his debt for him. For by him, who doth you wrongjis the debt which you owe to God/orgiueu, if with patience yon TufFer the iniury which is done. Whereas the angry perfon, who will bte his owne reuenger, relleth God how and in what (ort he is to dealc with him : that as he ftiffered not fmall difgra- ces from another, fo neither fhoald fmall thingibe (uffered in him by God. As it is written, Wtth-wbat nteafunyoH mete^thefa.mtjhAUbe measured toy oh aa^^ne. Six Other detriments or di/commodities there bee which arifc from the exorbitancy of thispaflion. For by Anger is loft; firft, Wifetiome^ while reafon becomes blinded. Secondly, R'ghteoufnejff : for the wrath «f man vorl^eth nst the rtghteonfne^e of God, Thirdly, Society ^ for the Acquaiatance of one 4ngry man, is picafing vntonone. Bewt^ faith the Wife- mzn, a compafsfonnith the dMgry man. Fourthly, C<7;a cofdi while peace is difturbed. Fifthly, th^ Light of Trttth^ becaufe anger cafteth the darkenefle of con- fufion vpon the mind or vnderftanding, from whom God bideth the cheerefull beame of bis Diuine knowledge. Sixchly,the Splendor of the hely fjtrit ' vp- 9n rvhom^ faith the Prophet, /hull my (fir it refl^but vp- on the humhk and ejuiet ? that is, vpon the meeke, mild, and compasfionate. Thu5 you fee what benefits may bee procured by attemperfng,whatdifcommodities incurred by fo- ftring thisTaffifff. W hereon I haue the rather in fi- fledj becaufelamnot ignorant, how theflrongeft and conftanrcft tempers haue beene, and may be di- ftempercdanddifparragedby it ; much more you, whofe mainefl flrength confifts in the exprefsion of that Behavior J I. 40 THe BC^GLISH Behav I OR I that Tafion^ht all times therefore vfe a moderate re ftraint ; in the prime of your yeares, when youth fends forth bcr firft promifing bloflbmes, hhaue your felues mildly without bitterntflc, humbly without haitghtinefle, modeftly without lightneffe, loberly without ehiidifhnefre. The Caskewill re- tainc her firft tafle ; the Wooll her firft dye. If you fhew too much waywardneflTe in your youth, fmall good is to be expeded in your age. As you tender your prefcrrement, feeme milde while yoa are maids, left youprous fcarC'Crowes toa young mans bed, Conforme your Iclues likewife to a nuptiall State, and preferuc your honour without ftaine.Con- teft not with your i>ead for preeminence : you came from him, not he from you, honour him then as he chcrifheth the loue heconceiucsin you. A domeftick ftiry makes ill harmony in any family. The difcord which was hatched and increafed towards M, An- thofty by Fu/uia,v/sis caer allayed and attempered by the moderation of not paffeouerwich delight, and i'pend without dif- tafte. Be the night neucr fo darkc, the place neiier fo meane, the cheerefuli beamcs of conceiuing cm- forts will enlighten the oiiejand their affedions rau- tually planted, enliuen the other. What a Defert then were the world without friends ? and how pofeiefle thofe friends without conceiuing mindes ? and how weake tho(e mindes, vnlefTe vnited in equall bonds? So then, loue is the Cement of our life : life a load without loue. Now, Gentiswcmtn^ you are to put on yourrailes, and goe into ^rf/yd/f/>'lliidovv^dandfKrowded, purpofdy to cir- cumuent pooreman,andleaue him deluded. Dhge- «fj, when b.e found a young roan talking alone, de- manded of him iVhatbewasdoin^f who anfwcred, He WM connerpr.g oc'iih himfelfe : Ti-A^ ^^r^i'Cquorh he} thoH cenaerfsftnot irith thine enern]. To you, Qentlerro-' men, I Alvdd: my difcourfe, whole priuacy may ena- ble you, if well employed, for better things than the tores. GSNTLSWOMAU^. I 45 coycs, tyres, and trifles ofchis age. How many (che i Behavior mors 02rm[(eTy)bt{iowthtirprMJtte(3i>ftres (which »— — — . mighr bededicarcd to Conteinpla'ion, or vv*^if<-s of piety .:nddeiiorion)vpon light- feather'd inncntions, | amorous expoftjlitioiis, orininting of fonie vnbe- I feemiiig fa(bio.is> How few enter into account with | their owne hearts ; or focoifecrare their boures to Gods honour, as they make Primacy their foules har- bour? The day they fpend iiie'//»'rrfri?»/; bow rare and tedious is one hourc referued for mediratioii ? What a ferio'js intercourfe or fociable diao^ue is bstweene an amorous Midrefle and her Looking* glafls I The poynt or pendent o^ her feather wags out of a due pofture ; hcrCheeke wants her true tinfture ; her captious GlaflPc prefents to her quicke eye one error or other,which driues her into a mon- ftruous diftemper. Pride leaues no time for prayer. This is her CLOSET fur LADIES, vdierc ■ fliee fits and accommodates her felfc to Fafhi&n ^ which IS the period of her content, while purer ob- icdsarehadinconcempt. This is not the way to make T^r'nucj your mindcs melody, Thefe employ- ments fhouldfoonerafflidthanaffedl you, bccaufc they wilifoonerdiftrafl thandtred; you. Your fpi- rits will bee reuiued moft, when thcfc arc valued leaft. Let me therefore recommend to yourchoyce, Patterncsofmoreexquifite worth: fuch whofcde- notion may be your diredlion, whofe diredion your inHruaion. Dcuout mention is made of zealous Ama^ who made recourfe to the Temple, ofiring herinccifant prayers, a viall of fweet odoursi chat Hie might con- ceiue a fonne : of whom, to her Hicceeding memory^ the Scripture recordeth, that after her rcares ^o ^q. uoutlyfhcd, her prayers fofincerclyofFred, her re- ligious vowes fo faithfully performed, her counte- nance 46 I TUe ENGLISH Behavior 1 nance was no more alcred; Piety begot in herdiuinc loue, faith in Gods. promife made hcrbeleeue, and zeale to Gods houfe caufed her ro pcrfeuerc : thus (ighing (he fought, feeking (he obtained, and obtai- ning fhe retained a gratefuil memory of what the re- cciued. No leffe fcruour (hewed SJier m preferring the fuiie of her diflrefled I/raelites; what perfwa- fiue Oratory, what powerfull Rbstoricke, what in- ducing reafoss flie vied, to haue their vniuft cenfure reuerfed, their infupportable wrongs redreffedjCheir agrieuances relieued, the incenfed King appeafcd, and them to fauour rellored ^ Shec wooed with teares in her eyes, faith in her heart, almcs in her hand ; Gods caufe was the progrefle of her courlc ; fliee defired nothing more then how to tSe6k itf which was leconded with a fucceffiue concIufion,bc- caufe begun, continued, and ended with deuotion. The like zeale exprefled luditb for he;* beiiedged Be- thuiites ; the loue of God had fo inflamed her, as no feareofthc enemy could amate her; faitharmedher with refolution i conftancy ftrengthncd her againft all oppoficion. Her armour was prayer, Betbuiiai cure her care; holy defires her fole attendants; {he enters her enemies pauilion with a zealous confi- dence;impIores theDiuii;e afliftancein her entrance; and difcomfits a daring foe with cautelouslilence.Her fights and teares were as the fiyfi Bud /ecsfidraine; they brought fucccfle to her thirfty foule, and a glo- rious Conqueft to her natiue foy le. No kfle are we to admire che wonderfull deuotion of that tcarc- fwollcn MagdeUn^ who withdeuout loue fought her dearc Spoufe intombed, whofe body with obfe- quious Odours- flie had embalmed before euerhe was interred. Shee, when his Difciples were de- parted, left not the Sepulchre of her fwcetM after; ft ill fhee /ate for rowing and fighing, weeping long and and much, rifing from her feat offoiTow, her graue ofgricfe; wherehe was, he is iiot; and where hee is^ fhec knowes not : with pioastcares, watchfuil eyes, weary wayes, (hcc reui(its againe and againc the defsrc caucs of his relinquiih'd Sepulchre, ho- pi-ng at laft to haue the happmefl'e to behold, whom with To feruent a defire Ihee fouglit. Mow once and againe had flieeentred his defoIat«To(nbe : but h't- rle was all this to her that lou'd fo much ; The power I orcflicacyofeuerygood worke confifts in Ptrfeue- rance. But obierue the comfortable cfFed of her cf- fcduall loue ! For as much as ihee loued more than ihereft, andlouin^ wept more than thsreft, and weeping fought more than the reft, and feeking per- (luer'djallowing her fclfe no reft: therefore deSrued (he rofinde, behold, and fpeake vnto him before the reft. And not onely (o, but to become the very fir ft meflenger of his glorious rerurre(5lion to hisDifci- ples, according as her choyceSpoule had comman ded her, and by cfpeciall Commilfion recommen- ded to her. Cqc, tflimj Bnthreu thatthsygoe into Ga- Ule^therethej (h^U fee me. Hence note the fruit of a deuout heart ; the incomparable prerogariue granted toDiuinelouf ! Naz.innj:.tnm his Epitapli for his (iH^Gorgoniaj writeth, that ftiee was fogiuen to prayer, that her knees feemed to cleaue to the earth, and to grow to the very ground, by reafonof incef. fancy or continuance in prayer. Gregory in his Dia- logues wrireth, that his Aunt Traftlla being dead, was found to haue her clbowes as hard as home; which h^dnefle fhee got by leaning toaDeske, at which fh^e vfed to pray* Such as theft defcrue your imitation ; for their yerfuei^\k% (weet Odours^ haue lent out a p'.t^afant perfume. They prAjed, and o^z/r;- ^ffi/whatxhey priydforjThey Jit* d m6,j>ran is' d what they ibught for; They 4f4and w</a/»f fb annoy nt you, as it make you forgetfull of him that made you. Be you in your Chambers orpriuate Clofets ; be you retired from the eyes of men ; thinke hdw the eyes of God arc on you. Doc not fay, the walls encom- pafle mee, darkencfle o're-fhadowes mee, the Cur- taine of night fecures me : Thefe be the words of an ^dHhertjfe: Therefore doe nothing pnrfAtslj^whkh you would not doepulf/i^e/j^ There is no retire from the eyes of God. I haue heard of fome, who for want of more amorous or attradliue Obiedls abroad, haue furnifhed their priuate Chambers with waiton pi(f^ures, ty4retinc tables, Sihariticke ftorief, Thcfe j were no obieds for Chriftian eyes : they cotuiay too , inordinate an heat from the eye to the heart. Eye i no obiedl which may eftrange you from thought of ! your Maker. Make euery day your E^emerides. Let ' your morning iaaitate your purpofcs for the day, the H ' day 50 I TBe E!?CGLISH Behav lOR 1 day fecond what your morning purpofed, the Eue- " " 1 ning examine your mornings purpoft^, your dayes purchafe. And fo I dcfcend to the next branch : how you are to Maue your fclues in pnh/tks yV/hich (hould be by r© much more punduall, for as much as the world is more Sroicall. ^ Thi» branch 1 might feeaie included in our formtr dilcourfe of company -jhut thai ceflcftcd on perfefiSy ihiso A af, fi'sret. WOmen in fundry C^untryes, when they goe into any fnhhke coucourfe or prcflTe of people, vfe to wcarcvayles, to imply that fccretin- fcreencd beauty which beft becomes a vt^omAtt^ Bafh. ftillmodefy. Which habit our owne Nation now in latter yeares hathobferued : which, howfoeuer the intention of the wearer appcare, deferues approue- ment : becauleit expreffeth in it fclfe CModfftfhame- fafineffe^ a Womanschiefeft Ornament. I fecond his opinion, who held it for diuers mainc refpcdts, a cuftome very irregular and vndeccHt, that Women fhould frequent places of pMik^ reforr, as Stagc- playes, Wakes, iblemne Feafts, and the like. It is OccaftoH that depraues vs >' Company that corrupts vs. Hence it was, that fome flourifhing States, hauing eyed the inconuenicnces which arife from the vfiiall refort of iVomm to Enterludes and other publike So- lemnities, publilhcd anexprefle inhibition againft fuch firee and frequent meetings. Had Eippedamia neuer wandredjfheehadprou'dan Uypemnefra, and had'ncuer wantoned. Had Dinah neuer roaued; fhec had prou'd a T)iAm^ and had neuer beene rauiflied. Yet fane be it from me, to be fb regularly ftri(ft, or l,aco}jic(iRy feuere, as to exclude Womn from all p»^- lih focieties. Meetings they may hauc, and \m^ ptcethem, by a CiuHlandMorallvfeofthem, to their benefit. They may chat and conuerfe with a modeft freedome, fo they doe not go(Tip it. For theft GSNTLeWOMJN. 5^ thefe Shee-E/pfnor s jind Femimne E^icnres^ who fiir- fec out their time in an vnwomanly cxceflTe, we ex- clude them the pale of our Co.nmon-weale. Be they of what y?4/tf foeuer, they are dairies to their Sexe for eucr. Efpecially fuch, who caroufe it in deepe healths, reioyce at the colour of the wine, till it fparkle in their veines, inflame their bloods, and lay open a breach to the frailty of their Svxe. For preucntion whereof, we rcade that kinfmenkiffcd their kinfwomcn to know whether they dranke wineorno, and if they had , to bee pu'-ifhed by death, or banilhcd into (bme Hand. 7'/«/^r coiirfc drawne by an indired line, may fceme to defcrue re- prchenli on worthily. Iht firfl arc Ihch, who p;iuc too catie raines tohberty; making Pleafure their yocaticti'. asif they were created for no other end, than to dedicate the fii ft fruits of the day to their GUjfei thereliduetothe^^^^^or £Arc^.-2;7^#. Thefe, no (ooncr hauc they layd their /Irttfic'tafl Cowp/exh?) on their adulterate faces, than they grow ficke for their Coach. They muft vifit liKrh a Lady, or what, perchance, is wor(e, fucb a Lord. A minuie now in their Chambers feemes a moneth. Shall wee difpiay onegf thefein her colours ? The '■piay.lil/s muft be brought her by her Pentioner: her eye views andreuicwes, and out of her feminine iudgement culls cut one from among them which iliee wil fee, purpofely to be feene. Much fhee obferues not ia it, onely ftic defires to be obferued at ir. Her Bshaiiiour ina^e.v, would make anyoncthinke fheewere a Bee in a box ; fliee makes fuch a buzzing and rufling. This IS her daily taske, till death enter the Stage and play bis part ; whom {hee entertaines with fuch vnpreparedneffe, ashcrtfjf/rtfiw(?rfc7 prefents obic^s of infinite vnhappinefTe ; "As it fometimes fared *' with a C entlewoman of our owne Nation, who fo " daily beftowed the expence of her beft hoiires vp- *' on the Stage, asbeingfurprizedby fickntfTe, euen ** vnto death, flie became fodeafe to fuch as ad raoni- *' fhcdherof herend, as fhee dozed her ^»»^yc^»^ wirh Bi HATItU. 54 I TUe BNGLISB Behavior OeDottoTi- moris. "with a vehemenc calling onBiero>:imo. So inap- prehenfiue was fhee of death at her end, becaule flie iieuer meditated ot death before her end. Now for the fecond fort^ they are njcere Am'tfodes to the for- mer J Thefe are oiiely f^r profit , as ihc other were for ficufhre, Thcie become fu wedded to the world, as chcy afflid their fpints, macerate their bodies, e- ftrange thcmfelnes from offices of Neighbourhood, toimproue their rcuene wes, by difcouering their too much prouidence to the world. And rhefe are commonly lULh, as are marcht to ScboUcrs, whole contempt Lion hath taken them fiomchc world, and recomniendfcdthe mannagement of their cftate to their wife. Now to both thefle forts let me addrcfle my initrudioa : As I could iiotpofTibly approue of t)Rt former, becaufethey made fleafure thzii tHjtnejfe : fo I cannot commend thefe, becaule they make not theki>fffineJfgzp/tfafHr£, Let thefe take heed, that they incurre not that milerafale in^enfibility, which Ihaue heard fbmetimes befell to a Worldling of their fexe ; "Who approaching neere her hauen., "andentring now her laft Conflidl with Nature, *^was,byfuch as ftood about her, earncftly moued '* te recommend herfclje t« God^ tender the wftfare of her '^ foulcy and ta mak^ her falHdtinnfure \ thus briefly, but " fcarefuIlyanrwer€d,andfoichwitb departed: Ihaue '^ mAde it offure m Larv rvUlmake it. Or as we read in " a booke enticuled The Gift e/feare^how a Religious " Diuinecornming toactraine vrurtfle, toaduife "her of the ftate ofhertoule, andinifru'^ her in *' the way to faluation, atiuch timeasfheelay lan- ^'guifhinginher bcdof affiidion ; told her, how " there were three thirgs by her to bee neccfTarily "peiformed, if euer lliee hoped tobefaued: Firft, " (he was to be contrite in he Art; fecondly. ftiec was " to cfl»/>/0 of thofe fir^ I mil doe miUngly ; '* hut to doe the Ufiy I [hull held it a dtfficit/ty ; ftr fhonld " / mAkereftitHtiott^ n'bat venld remains teraife my chiL •* drcM their portion ? To which the Diuine anfwered ; '* fFtthout thefe thretyoH cannot bs faned. Tea ^»f, quoth "fliee, T^oe onr Learned men and Scriptures faj fo? *' Tes (ureljy faid the Diuine. And I will try ■ ('quoth " fhe) whether thy fay true or mo, for I will reHereno- ''thing, And fo refoIuJag, fearefully dyed, fearing pouerty temporall, more than eternal!, which thee was ofnccellity to fufter, (without Gods infinite in- terceding mercy) for preferring the care «f her po- ftcrity, before the honour of her Maker. To be fhorr, t\\Q former [on dcferucs rcproofc, for making ^Uafure their vocation j the latter for barring bufinejfe all recreation. A difcreer temper will mode- rate both thefc ; thtfirfi, by holding ple^nre a pa- ftime, and no int^neffe; the la/fj^yy apply ing a cure to aninceflfantcarc, andlmmixtng iome pleafure with ^«/;wj(^, to attemper it, left itmciine toheauinefTe. Both which, equally concurring, arc eucr conferring to the labouring mind, inward quictnefie. I^Behavior Complexion inclofed in a bor, giucsno tincture to the Cheeke, nor morall prtcepts vnapp'yed, beauty to the mindc- Thus fanv hauc wp proceeded ndiredionsof5ply her art- fallen haire. That cnazures her feered veines, cmboHlersherdec»yedbrefts, to purchafe a fweet- '^ hart. What an AffetUdQ.iic this gcnerally-infedled ftateaflltmcs, purpofely to gaine a popular eftteme ? Suruey our ftreets, gaze on our vvindowes ; you (hall fee gazers to cntertafne yeur eyes with variety of phantall:ickc3#i&4«/tf»r/. But thefe are none of rit ^nd Behauhur are pro- per and not enforced ; natiuc-and not apifhly intro- duced. Shee cannot wooe a wanton Louer with a diflembledblufh, nor promife more with an out- ward prefencc, thanilice reloluesto admit v/ith a fpotlcflc Confcience. Outward iemblances, if light, diee holds apparant blemifties to her life. Her life, as it is a ^sne to her fclfc, fo {hee would haue it a li^h to oehers. Lactdes^Vnnczo^ Argos, was accounted lafciiiious onely forhis flceke lookes, and mincing gate. So Tom^ej^ becaufc hcc vfed to fcratch his head with one finger, albeit very Continent and modcft. Belecue it,though your Perjonbz the Booke, your BehamoHr is the Inaex. Which will require a large Co/w/wf»/, if it cxprefle it felfe in-ought proba- bly incontinent. Now, for as mucbas nothing bet- ter feemcs you, more commcndubly adorncs you, or more ablblurely accommodates you, than what is natiue and vnaffed:ed,fo it be by Education feafoncd : be your owne Wonfjen j di(- value ail apifh formalityj refort not to the Temple to take a pa:ternc of lomc new falhion : modcft dilcretion biuOieth at fuch ier- uile imitation. What you fee in another, nr:ay be- come them,which would nor become another. The Aflc in the fable feeing the dogge fawne and leap vp- on bis Mafter, thought it would befeeme lim, bar fbrting not with his nature, it got him a beating for hislal)0ur. Now CO diftinguifh bec-wixt an enforced and vn- affecl:ed Bebauioar.it is mofteafie; the very firft bludi will difcouer the one by the other. You (ball ob- fcruethefe whoaretycdro iiffeCiAtion inthiskinde, fet their looke,^ate, and wliaifoeuer clfe may con fcrreaphantaftickegraceon their vfurpcd Beh.-inispir, fopundually, as if they had eiuredafoIsmneCon- I I tradl 57 Bek-avior 58 TBS BD^GLlSU Behavior trad with eye, face, hand, fbot and ail, to hold con- iUntly their dimeniion, to beget in the beholder a more fctled admiration. Whereas contrariwifcjthefc wbofc free, genuine, and generous demeanours ex* preflb themfeluesItffeftriSly, but farre more come- ly, fcorne to tye their affcdions to thefeferuile re- ftraints. They hold it farr€ more fiitablc with an /- talUn Tantomime^ who profeffeth hope of profit vp- on the Stage, to confine them to thefe regularities, than difcreet Women, whofe honour is their honefl 'Behauiour : and whofe praife it is, to bee exemplary to others in goodne{re,and not others Apes in imita- ting their phantafticke fafliions. To conclude then t\{isOhjermuon'^%s you are ^^f-wrtf/^j by birth, dote not OQ that which is moft ridiculous on this Stage of earth. Appiouc your felues chafte Virgins, conti- nent Wines, difcrcet Matrons, honourable W id- do wes, in your vertuous and modeit demeanour. Preferue that eternally ,wbich giues accomplifLmcnt to Gentility. Your Educations (as may be prefuppo- fed) hauefo beautified you 5 asthegarbe youretaine is moft proper vnto you. The Hjane is a dangerous beaft : yet her fubtilty and cruclry take life from af fe^atiott and imitation. Defire you to bee fo 'Behaud^ as others may admire you ? In your choyce of Eeha- uiour, inure your felues to what is ne^tefi^aot what i% nexvejl, Inuention in fubieds of this kinde, doth more harme than good. So hehatte your felues, that too much curiofity may not taxe you of pride, nor too much maiefty of State : Modcfty mixt with hu- mility will temper both thefe, and make that Bcha^ "i^*^' which appeares in you, fo well become you, as if it were borne with you, and not affeSiiaeij deriued from others to you. I 5P THE ENGLIS Gentlewoman. Argument. Complement defirud ; how it mkj he corrupted ; hotv refined ; wherein it m^y ^e admitted as matne/y confer queHt ; "therein omitted as nteerelf impertiitefK ; nvhat Complement giues hB accompli fhraent. Complement* OM P LE MENT bath beene anciently defined , and fo jfiiccct- fiuely retained j a no leflc ree^U than formalJ »»,as theyforgot the ffii> fiance. The laft, which were onely rea/I and complete Cour- tiers, held a feemely graccftill prcfencc, beautifide with a natiuc comelincffe, the defcruingft (^emp^e- went that could attend vs. Ccrtaindy , if we flionld exa(ftly weigh the deriuaiion of the word, we could not imagine fo mcanely of it, as to confift meerely of words, or antickc workcs. It was fir ll intcndeci to diftinguifb betwixt perfons of ciuHi and fauage car- Coffipiement 62 TUS BNCLISH owplement \ carriage: yea,to appropriate a title ot preeminence to ' fuch, who exceeded others in grounds or pecepts of Morality ; whole Hues appeared as Lampe« to enligh- ten others,and confequently perpetuate the memory of themfelues. Many noble and eminent Ladies are recorded both in diuine and humane writ to haue ex- celled in this CewpiemcHtof honaur. Thele knew the difmition of it,and moulded their conuerfation to it : They knew what belonged to a pofture of ftate ; they could court it without apiili curiofity ; embrace louewitha referued modelly; exprcfle themfciues complete without Angularity. Forraigac faftiions they diftafted ; painted Rhetoricke they difrelifticd j re- , aUComflemem was all they affeded. Louc they could without diffembling ; difcourfe without affedling j {liew curt'fie without co»gying ; flill retaining what was beft befeeming. In the Court they retided to better it; not a ftraid looke could promife a loofe Louer leaft hope of a purchafejnor Coyncffe dilhear- ten a faithful! feruant from his affedionate purpofe. They knew not what it was to proteft in icft; to walke in the clouds; todominsere oucr their cap. tiues, or cntertainc many Suitors. They fi-eed Com- plement of diflimulation, made vertue their Load- ftone to affedlion J their anions were dedicated to good ends: by which meanes they made God and ^W wtf» their friends. Nor doe I feare it, but that our flourifliing t/fllfhn hath many fuch noble and complete Ladies; who fo highly eftecme the true and mt'mc dtfiftit ion of (/'implement, as they preferrc the fuh fiance before thepadorv. Honour is their deereft tender, goodneffc their line, by which they daily draw neerer to j?tfr/^(5?«», t\ieir proper Centre. Thus farre for the />f/n/r*«»», wherein we haue the rather inlarged our difcoui (e, that the Su^iell whereof we treat, maybe diicouered in her owne nature ; and fuch I GeNTLeWOMJJi. 6i Tuch as owe attendance to her, becoms better profi- cients In their inlhudtions deriued from her. Nei^ :her can w« obferue what may really deferue your imitation, butby difcerning the excellence of that whereof we treat by a true and proper defimtien, rHere is nothing on earth Co pure,but abufe may corrupt it; nothing fogood, but cuftome (nay dcpraue it. This may appeare inr this one SHbie^^ which wee haucnow in dilcourfe. Former times were not ft) uUed to fafhiont^ as to cfteeme nothing formaJl^ but what w as ^kantaHicaH. It was not then held th^li^Qoi Complement 3 to haue the art to fet a face, court aglafle, ojake a cringe or a ducke. Legges were held for vfefull fupporters, but no Complemen- r^^poftures. New-minted words made not their tongues more complete; nor an Outlandifh Salute their Perfbns more admired. Virgin- modefty made refolution her Steletto to gtiard her honour. Plumes and Feathers were held light dreflfings for ftaid mindsi fufpicioas trimmings for ftale Maids. Adors might weare thera in their prefcntmcnts vpon the Stage, but modeil Matrons were neuer allowed to weare them in the ftate. Women were admitted to haue Painters, but not to be their owne painters: (^ampafpi was pi(5lured out in her colours by ^pelles : Crotom fine daughters liuely depidured by Zeuxes j yet thefe, without any helpe of ait, ftill retained rheirownenatiue features. It was tht Complement of that age to deliuer their minde freely without mincine,conucr(c friendly without glozing ; waike the ftreet demurely without gaziqg. Wherein(w!th (ubmiflion euer to graaeic iud^ements)ihis latter age, in mine opinio' i,defcri:f.s iuft reproofc. Edu- cation is a fecond Nsiiare, and this hath g;uen that fit c- Qom^ement How Comple- fftent may be corrupted. «4j Ttie encLisB frecdome to women,as they may admit any oportu* uity to entertains time vvi:h their amorous (eruant*;; rcdart wanton tales with light blufhes^paflc a whole afternoone in aBay- window, in Cong:ies,Courtfic$, and other vfelefle Complements. Fiafties ot wit are made beguilers of timejand thefe mixt now and then with fucifi lafciuiouspaffa^eSjis modefty might iuft- ly hold itfclfcabuied tobefoencounrred.Alas IVVho knowes not what fcciet trainesarc laid for credulous women,vnder thefe pretenccd parlies ? Doe you ob- ferue how their tongues are tipt with your pray (cs ; how they honour your (liadowcs ; admire the earth you tread on; adore the Ayre you breath on; and with their ayrieapplaufes To gild you, as in the end they palpably gull you ; leauing you nolefle milera- bly deluded, than themfelues feafed of what their fenfuall quefi: purfucd > Beware of that Complement which giues way to rob you of your choyceft Omom ment, S^tiatMi, in C^tulla^, is brought out, fbewing the whitenefle of his teeth: a poorc fubiedf to raife anBncomiaftickepoem. Thefe areThcamcsforan amorous Mitfe : White teeth, roIlii;ig eyes, a bcau- tifull complex ion (all exteriour and inferiour goods) being that which f/^r;^/^! his Nurfe praiftd, when I file wafhed the feet oiyiy(feSy namely, gtmU fpeech, ' zx\^ tender fiefh. No leflc perfwafiue by the clcgan- ^ cy oFchc one, than inaafiue by delicacy of the other. But all thefe ou' ward imbelh'fliments giue but \ fmall accompli flimenc to the inv.'ard beauty ; " Where ^oo;i*s a better attribute than faire.'^ow be not thefe dainty fubieds for a Comflet: yoMxh todif- cant on? What Crotchets and cxtcmpoiall Con- ceits are hatched out of an addle braine ? The very rhadowof/»/ffl'i haire muftnot want thecomplea- teft honour, that either on can dtuife, or c0fitTC&. Not a Cofplet but amft be poetically Complete; which out GENTLEWOMAN. out of aa amorous phrenfic muft withmouating r^/ fcrhUs be thus coatcmiicd. Ski^me more pure than Ida's/^r^iv, Whiter fane than Moorifh mtlke. Sweeter than Ambrofia too^ Softer than the Paphian///^^', Indian flumes or thiUie-dopcne^ Or May-bloflbms nevfly hlowne^ Is my U^ftftrefe RoJie'p4/e, j4Jding keanty to her vaite. An exccllenc peecc of Comp/emeftta/IiiuB'e to catch a fclfe- conceited one. Many you haue of your lexc, who are too attentiuc auditors in the report of their owncprayfes. Nothing can bee attributed to them, which they hold not propfrly due vnto them. Which conceit, many times, (o rranfports them, as, NarciJfw'Vikc^ they are taken with their owne flia- dowes ; doting on nothing more than thefe Encomi- afticke bladders of their defertlefle prailes. Let mee aduifeyou, whofcdifcretion fliouldbee tarrcfrom giuing light care to fuch ay ri« Tritons, to dif-rellifli the oylie Compler^irm of thefe amorous Sycophants. Much more vfefu'l and beneficiall it will be for ycu to rctainc that modelly which appeared in ty^lphon- fm Prince oityiragonz anfwer to a plauduc Orator ; who hauing repeated a long Panegyricail Oration in his prayfe, replyed ; ff that thon hajllaia^confent mth trtithihhanke God for it '^ tfnoty I praj Cjod grart mee grace that I may doe it. You (hall enccunrer with fome of thefe Ctfrn/j/^-f-fAmorifts, who will make a fctfpeech toyourGIoue, and Iwecten eucry pttiod with the perfume of it. Orhers will hold it an ex- traordinary grace to become Porters of your Mtflbr, or holders ofyourFanne, while you pinneonyour Maske. S entice^ Oh((ru:tnce^ lifvotionhQ the CeneritH heads of their Complement, Other Doftrine they K haue Complement Compiemittt h How Comple- mcnt may Le rchned. hauenone, either to inftru6t morally, orinforme politically. Heleeucir, Gentlewomen^xhcy are ili-fpenc houres, that are beftowed in conference vv'tthditre Brain>worn:ei. Thtfir friuolous difcourfe will exid From you feme anfwer : which if you fliaps iuftiy lO I heir dialed, ciierc vviil be more vaine .wind Ipent, than you can redeeme with many teares.Lec no con- ceit tranljport you aboue your felues ', hold ic for no Co»i(p/^»?(?;?r worthy your breeding, totriBe time in loue-toyes. They detrad both from discretion and mode fi J J and oft-times endanger the mine of the /^r- /rrfcarefully. This kindeof Cemflemem with g^eat enes^ wcre but meere Canting among Beggars. Hce or fhee are the CompUtcfi, who in arguments of dt[- cgfirfed.nd(icli6/jarGat/creetej?, Full veflells giue the leaft found. Such as hold (^ompUment the (ole Gb- ied of a glib tongue, adiue cringe, or artfull fmile ; are thole on^\y iJ^amicks > or Bfffbmf o? our age, whofe Behaa^car J ddcrae farre more derifion than applaufe. Thus yon haue heard how CompUment may be corrupted -y wee now purpofe, with as much pro- priety aiid breuity as wee may, to fliew you how it may be refined. To the end, that what is in its owne nature fo commendable, may bee entertained with freedomcof choyce, and retained without purpofe to change. ^■'r'He Vnicorfics horne being dipt in water, cleares i and purifies it. It is the honour of the Phy/ician to re [lore nature, after it tree decayed, ft is the fole worke of that iiipreme Archyrcd: to bring light out of darkentfic» that what was darke might bee enlighrcnc'dj lifeoutof death, that what was dead ^ might bee enliueaed j way out oferror, that t1ic e r- ring might bee dire-fied; knowledg' ■ui ci rance. G6NrLSW0MJN. -'f ^1 ranee, that the ignorant might be inllmded 5 a f«lue out ot finne, that finnts fore nniight bee cured ; com- fort out of affli(flion,that the afflided might be com- forted ; hope out of delpaire, that the defperate might bee fuccoured ; a raifing from falling, that their fall might be recouercd ; ftrength oat of wcak- neffe, that his great worke might be glorified.GoId thrice tryed, becomes the purer and more refined-. And CetnfUment the moft, when it is beil: accommo- dated. True it is, that 5ffrmr is either a PUgneoi a 'Perffime, Itinfe<5ls, where Conforrsare ill-afteded ; but workes excellent effeds, where vertuous Con- forts are aflcmbled. It is the fweetefi note that one can fing^ f^hett Grace »/» Vertucs ^ey^tnrnes tJntuKsfiringt Where two meeke men meet together, theircon- ference (faith mellifiuous Bernard) is fweet and dele- gable.' where one man is meeke, it is profitable: where neither, it proues pernicious and v ncomfor- table. It is Society that glues vs,or takes from vs our Sec»*-itj, Lot me apply this vntoj'ou, Gemlerfemen^ whofc vertuous difpofitions, ( fo fweetly hath na- ture grac'd you) promife nothing ieflc than feruo- rousdefires of being good. Would you haue that refined in you, which Others r(7rr?c/>^, by inucrcing the meanes ? Oi? exprefle that in her natiue Colours, which will beaurifie you more than any artificial! or adulterate colours, whofc painted Varnifh is no foo- ner made than meitfd ? Make choyce of fuch for your Co«/(?r//, whole choyce may admit no change. LetnoCo^fprfw^beafFedcdby you, which may ha- zard infeding of you. Thcff^orldis growne a very Pefi-honfe: timely preucntion muft bc vfed, before the infedion haue entrcd. You haue no fuch /oue- raignereteitstorepell, asyouhaueto prcnenr. The infedion of vice leaues a deeper fpot or fpeckle on K 2 the ^ ornpiement 68 THE ENGLISH (^smpUment the mind, than any diTcafc doth on the bod . The BUci^mo rj may fooncr change his ikui, the Leopard his fpors, than a foule deept dyed in the graine ofiii- fcition, can pat off her habituate corruption. Be it then your principall care to mike cho/ce of fuch baQifull Maids, modeft Matrons, orreuerend Wid- dowes,as hold it their bell C^mpcement to retaine the opinion of being C^ntinmt, Infamy hath wings as fwifcas-famc. Shunnetheoccafion, left youvnder- goe the brand. Tcfihum^^ becaufe giuen to laughter, and fomcthing forward to talke with men, was fu- fpe«?/i/e4'4Mf or oiler, pittf fully to .^eere and deride him. Battodoce foon fafhioii, as roadmire nothing more then a phantaftieke dref- fmg, or roms aniicke Qsmdemtrt^ which the cor- ruption of an effeminate Stare hach brought in, de- rogates more from discretion, then the ftrivft obfcr- uanc^ofany fafhionaddesto her repute. This place fhould be the Biacm of the State ,• Xvhofe monnring Prt'iji^ iiirueyesthefe inferiour coafts which pay homage and Fealty vnto her. The leaft obhq liry chere, is exemplary elfewherc. Picrcingft fudge- ments, as well as prcgnantil wits fliould be there re- fidcnr. Notawandring or indifpoied hiire, but £»iues occilioii of obferinnceto fuc'h as are neere.How requifice then is it for you, who^c Nobler dcfcents promife, yca,exadmoreofyou, then infer ioiirs, to exprc(7e your (clues beft in thefe beil di(cerning and defcTfiM'ng ^Inces ? You are women 1 modcif y makes you complet^ft ; you are Noble women^ defercaccom- panyingyourdefcent wiMm^ko. yon noBl-Ji, Yon may, and conueniency requires it, rctainc a Court- ly garbe , referue a well (eeming State , and ilievv your(tluesliuely Emblemesofthat place, wherein you liue ; You may cntertaine difcourie, to allay the irkefomenede of a tedious houre ; beltow your (elucs in other pleafi ig recreations, which may no leffe rc- frefh the minde, than thcyconferre vigour and vi- uacity to the body. Ycu may be eminent ftarrcf, and exprtlTe your glory in the refplendentbc^unes of yojr vertues ; fo you fuffer noblacke cloud of ii\fa- my to divken your precious name?. She was a Princely Chr'tsiian Courtier^ who ncuer approached the Qomflemem 7* I Tile etiCLisH (Complement the CoHrt^ but fhce medicated of the C^urt o^heauen; neuer coniortcd with her Courtier t^ but (he contem- plated thole CitizrKs of heatiftt ; nor cuer entred the Prefence'Chambtr^ but fiiee thought ohhe/'/'^y^w^ of her Af^ker J the King of 6(f<««'^»,Such Meditations are receits to cure all inordinate modons. Your Lines fliould be the Unes to mealiire others adions. Vcrtue is gracious in euery fubic(fl,but moll in that, which the Prince or Pru-jccfle ha:h made gracious. Anci- ently,tbe H^ar/d was diuided into three parts,wherc- oiEnropa was heW the /ohU •, properly, cuery Po/i- \ itke State may be diuided into three Canrons,whcre- j of the ^Wr is the Sttmf, You arc O^'V^i to many 1 Ejes ; be yo[ir M^iofts plat formes to many /tues,Iczn \ by nomeants approue that wooing and winning i Ci>wple?»eKt (thouoh moft ^<>hns too generally af- ; fed it) which makes her fole Obied, purchafe of j Seruants or Suitors. Thisgarbetaftes morcofC»r- ■ t£<,a» than Courtier : it begets Corrimli, whofe fatall j Duello's end vfually in blood. Our owne State hath Ibmttimcs felt the mifery of thefe tragfcl-.e eucnts j by fuffering thclofTe of many generau and free-bred Sparkes ; who, had not their Torches becne extin- guiihcd in their blood, might to this day hauc fur- uiued, to their Countries ioy and their owne fame. So great is the danger that lyes hid in affable Com- />/, are(b eftrangcd from them, as their Difccurfe con(\{is folcly in arguments of vanity/heir DtJIinclfon in mcere fliadowes of formality, their C^ojfce in fiibict^s and Conforts of effeminacy . Eight things, faith Hippocratesy make ones flciJi moyftand fat ; the firft, to be merry and Hue at hearts eale ; the rccond,to deep rouchithe third,toIie in afofr bcdiche fcurth>fO fare weH;thefifth,to be wel apparelled and appointedjthe fixth,to ride al wayes on horfc-backe • the fciiench,to haue our wil;and the eighth,ro be em - ployed in Plaics &paftimes,& in fuch rimc^beguiling recreations,as yeeldcontentsnentand pleafiire.Thele are the oneiy receits in requeft with thofei'^^f-C^«- /erj we now difcourfe of ; and of whom it may bee faid, as was fometimes (poken of one U^targites^ that he ncuer plowed, nor digged, nor did any thing all his life long that might tend vnto goodncfle ; and by neceflTary confequcnce wholly vnprofirable co the world. Who, howfoeuer they are IcfTc than Wo- men at their i^orke^yct at their mdit (fo vnconfincd is their appetite) they are more than men, and in their I hA^it (io phantafticke is their conceit) neither wo- men nor men. So as, were 1)i&^e»ei to encounter one ofthefc, bee might well expoflulatc the caiife with her, as he did vponlike occalion vvirh a yonch too cur ioufly and effeminately dre ft : If thot4 goejl to men^dllthisishut invMne^ if VK{orvome», iti^vpukjA, But thcfe wee hold altogether vnworthy of ycHr\ moTtge»iroHi rociety;vvhofe excellent breeding harh fufficiencly accommodated yOu for City, Courr, and Countrey ; andfo fully inform'd you hovv to dc- meanc yourfeluesia ail affaires ,♦ 2iS I make iictle doubt, but you know, wherein it m.ay bee adrrmed^ L 2 as 57 Complement 76 THff ENGLISH Com^ierrwit I as maintly conjequcnt ; and wherein owittfii^s meerc- ■ ly impertinent. I meane therefore to descend briefl y to the laft branch of this Ohjertimen, declaring, what Ornament glues O/wp/fwifwr beft; beauty or Accom- pUfTwent, Eccl(f.i%.6. What Comple- ment ^mes hefi accetfi' plijhment. IT is true, what the fonne o^SirAch fotnetimes faid; fVhen a m^fi huth dene bid kejl^ be tnttfl hej^ime Againe^ and when he thiaketh to cemf to nn end, he mpifi goe agedne t$ hii lahonr. There is nothing (b exadl, which may not admit of fomething to make it more perfed.We are to goe by ftayres and fteps to the height of any ilory^FertHes are the Staites^FerfeMion the Spire.^xit I fiiurt: tell you, G'i' (liould be there ; here yoar C^;»;>tf, there your Court. Mcane time, while you foiournc here, you are to hold a^ood Chnftian the compUtffi Courtier ; and that vertue is the otnamei^t, which giues Compknte/it the bell ac' comfli(hm:nt. Silken honour is like painted meate; it may feeds! the eye, but affords no nouriHimcnt. That Courtiers Coate giues a vading glofle, whofe heart is n-jc inwardly lin'd with grace. Let good- neffe guide you in the way, and happincflc will crowne you in the end. Let your C^ntflete armour be righteoH^mi^e ^ your Camflement lowlinciTe ; complete i^ nothingfonauchas holinefle; that in your con- uoy from Earth, you may be endcnized in heauen, naturall Citi2ens,angelicall Courtiers, WMW ^WTi ^^ ¥Tm^Mms\ ComfUr/iSHt ^ 8i THE ENGLIS Gentlewoman. Argument. Decency rtccmmendcd m recjuifte in joure diHin^ Siihiech ; Decency the attraniuefi motiue c/aflediion : thefmootkejipat h that leads to pcrfedlioii. Decency. ' D E c B N c Y. her felfe to the pLce wherein fhe liues, the ferfons with whom flic \ conforrs, the mnke or quality fLcc partakes. Shee is too difcree: to afFed ought that may notfeemsher: tooconftantto change h^vhabh^Qv ECENCYtakcsU//: rr^no«cuer along with her to choofe her fa (hi- Shesccom.mcdates on M rhe 82 I THe ED^GLISU Dbcekcy. 1 the inuention oi any phaatafticke wearer. What ' '*" ■ propriety fliee cxpreflcth in her whole poftureor carriage, you fhall eafiiy perceiue, if you will buc with a piercing eye,a ferious furucyjtefied vpon her demeanour, in her G4te^ Looke, Speech, Habit, Of v\'hich, diftinftly, we purpofe to increat, in our En- cry to thisoyferttation j that by thefe you may pro- bably colled eke excellency of her condition. Deancy tc- coramendcd as requifiie in . (oure diftinft M Tubicfls. Gate. THat, wherein we fliOald cxprdTe our fclues the humbleft, many times tranfports ts moft, and proclaimesvsproudelt. Ic is no hard thing to ga- ther the dtSfofittofjoi our heayfjby the dimetifivn ofour gate. What a circular geftuns wecfiball obferuefbmc vfe in their pace, as if they were troubled with the vertigo ! Others make a tinkling with their feet,and make difcouery of their light thoughts, by their wanton gate. Others with a jetting and (Irutting pace, publifh t^cir hauty and felfe-conceited minde. Thus doe our fVafitons (as if they had tranfparant bo- dies) difplay their folly, and (ubied themfelues to thecenfureof leuicy. This cannot 'Dtfr/arj endure. W hen (lie fees iVomtn, v.'hofc medefij {hould be the Ornament of their beauty, demesne themfelucs more like v45iort than ciniU Profeffants, fiiee compaflio- natcly (uffcrs with them, and with choyce precepts of morall inftrudion(whcrein (he hath euer rh^wne her felfe a fingular proficient)fhe labours to reclaime them. With amorou5,but vcrtuous Rhetorickc,flic wooes them, hooping by that meanes to winne them. Shee bids them looke backe to preceding times, yea thofe , on which thst glorious light which iTiines in thefe Chriftian daycs, neuer refle- %d. And there they (hall finde ^yomcn highly cen- fured, for that their outward carriage onely made them CeNTLSWOMJN. 8? I them fufpedcd. A vailecouered their face^ modcfty ( Decency. [ meafiircd out their pir* ; their SpeUators were as lb I many Cenfrrs : Circumfpec^ therefore were they of i their carriage, kft they fhould become a fcandall or j blemifti to their fexc. Their repaire to their Tem- ples was decent^ without any loole or light gefture ; Entring their Temples,coRftant and tetled was their bchauiour. Quickc was their face in difpatch of houfhold affaires ; but flow in their Epicureall v'u ficsorfenQiaiigoflipings. They had not the art ofi- mitating fuch huifing and mounting gates ^ as our hght-fpiritcd Dames now vie. They were not as then learn'd to pace : fo far ellrang'd were they from the very kait conceit of vanity inchis kinde. How much more ^ouldrhefe purer times, where verity is taught and embraced, vanity lo much tax'd and reproued, afFed that moil, which adornes and beau- tifies moft ? Is it not palpable folly , to walke fo haut'ily in thefc ftreets of our captiuity ? Eye your feet, thofe ^<»/ij of frailty, how they, who lo proud- ly ftrut on earth, are but earth, and approach daily nearer their earth. The Swatt^ when fti prides her Iclfe in her w^»f^«^j(f^,r€fledls on her ('/ackffefir^which brings downe her plumes, and allayes her fe:ft- con- ceit with more humbleneffe.VVhat anticke Pageai^ts {hall wee behold in this furuey of Earth ? With what y^ptfh gcftures they walke, which taxech them of lig-htneffe ? How like Colojjoi others walke, which difcouers their haughtineffe ? how pmcluariy rhele,tts if they were Puppets drawn by an enforced motion? Wovjfhifnt/ijltcaajthofe^ asif their walke wereatbeatralladion? Thefe vnftaid Mmenfens ar- gue vnletlcd Mfpojitions, All is not well with them. For if one of the Spartan fiphori was tolole his p'ace, becaufcheobleruM no Decency in his pace^ how may wc be opLn'ion'd of fuch Wcmen^ whofe jeerei exacl M 2 of THE ENGLISH I iCESCY. of them ftayednefle, whofe places rctainc in ihem more peculiar reuercnce, and whoicdefcc^tts inioyne chemto a ftace-reremance ; when they ,to gaineob- feraaiicjc, admit of any neiv^ but vndecent pofturc ? Deftrue thefe approucment ? Noj difcretton cannot prize them, nor /Wj^^»».'»/ pray (c them » ynlgar opi- nion, whole applaufe neuer recciues life from dcferr, may admire what is next^^ but difcretion that onely which is «raj mine eyes [rem v^t. I nit J. And hence appcares mans mifery. That thofe ' Ejes^ which fliould be the Ceflernes of fcrrow, I'm- beckes of contrition, fliould become the lodges of luft, and portals of our perdition. That thofe which were giucn vs for afliftantsandafTociatcs, Oiould be- come our aflacinats. Our Eye is made thcfenfe of /^rrcwjbecaufe ih.z fenfe oi'Jinne ; yet more apt is fhe to giuc way to (lane, then to finde one teire to rfnfe herfinne. An vncleaxe eje is the fwjfevger of an v». c/eam heart : confine the One, and it will be a means toredificthe orher. Many dangerous obiedls will a wandring eye finde, whereon to vent the difpofition of her corrupt heart. Noplace is exempted, r.ofub- I ie<9: freed. The amhttiom fj? makes honour her ohiei}, i wherewith fheaff^idls her felfe, both in afpirinir to what llie cannot £nioy,as like wife in feeing another enioy that, whereto her felfc did afpire. The Coi^e^ /o?« makes wealth her oliteSt'^ which fhcc obraines with tofle, enioyes with fearc,forgocs with gricfe : for being got they load her, lou'd they foile her, loft thev I- C K £• 8^ I TUe ENGLISH De CENGY. Itfceygall her. The £«««>«/ makes her JS/etgHeurs — — • jflourifliingfieId,or ftuitfull haraeft, here^teS; (he I cannot but iooke on it, looking pine and repine at it, and repining iuftly confume her ^irit with enujing it. The Lafcmdus makes he^utj her eiie^,^nd with a /etrifig /sd-i^p, while {he throweth out her inre to catch others, flic becomes catch t her ftlfc^ This *^#/£F, be- caufc it reficds moft on your fixe, let it be thusdif- poled, that the inward eje of your foules may be on a (iiperiour beauty fixed. Doe ye admire the comc- lintiTe of any creature ? remouc your eye from that o0ie£}, and bellow it on the contemplation of your Creator. Wormcs and flyes,that haue layen dead all winter,by rcficxe of the Sunne beames,are rtuiued : (othQCefli/h'fijfes^ who haue beenc long time buried in thefe feniuail OUcElf of earth, no fooner rcfie A on the Snnnt of n^htcoft/ftfle^ than they become enliue- ned and enlightened. Thofe filmes which darkened the ^/^ of their miades, are remoued, thofe thicke Cataradsof earthly vanities are dilperfed'and dif- pelled, and a new light into a new heart infufcd. I knov/ well, GtntUrvomen , that your refbrt to places of eminent refort, cannot but miniftcr to you variety of Obiefts. Yea, euen where nothing but chafte thoughts, (laid lookcs, and zealous defires {KouM harbour, are now and then loofe thoughts, light lookes, and licentious defires in efpcciall ho- nour. The meancsTo preuent this malady, which like a Tpreadmg vlcer difperfcth it fclfe in euery foci* ety, is neither willingly to rake nor be raken. Dinah may be a proper Embleme for the 7? ; flicc feldome ftrayes abroad, but ftiee is in danger of rauifliing. = Now topreleruepurityoF heart, you muftoblcrue a vigilant difciplineouereueryfcnfe. Where, ifthe fyr, which is the light of the body, be not well dif- pofed, the reft of the fenfes cannot choofe but be much G£NTLeyrOMJJ^. i7 much darkned. We fay, that the want of one pecu- | Decency. liar fenfcfupplies that deft <3; with an higher degree of perfc(flion in the reft. Sure I nm, there is no one (enfe that mere diftempcrs the harmony of the mind, nor profpeft of the Soule, then this window of the bo- dy, Itopenseucrtoche Ratten^ but feldometo the D«Me, Rauing affeclions it ealily conueycs to the heart; but Doue-likc innocence it rarely retaincs ' in the breft. As it is a member of the flefli, fo be- comes it a feruant of the fleiL ; apprehending with gicedineffe, whacfoeuer may minilter fuel! to carnall concupifcence. This you fliall eafily corre<5l-, hy fix- ing her on that pure and abfolute ohieH^ for which flic was made. It is obferueii by profefl: Octiltils(^SLn obfcruation right wot thy a Chriilians ferious conCi- deration) that whereas all creatures haue but foure Mnfclesto turn their eyes round about,man hath ^flft to pull his efei vp to hv aucn. Doe not then depreffe your ^j'w, as if they were fixed on earth, nor turne them roand, by gazing on the fruitlefle vanities of earth; but on ^f4«^«, your A4««f» after earth. In the Philofophers fcale, the foule of a ^Z*? is of more ex- cellence then the tunne • in a Chriftian fcale, the foule of man is infiniteiymore precious then all creatures vnder the Sunne. Prcferuc then the honour Q? z.beMuf»ll foule, which furfers infinitely when it is biemifhed with any foile. So order and difpofc your lookfs^zs ccnfure may not raxe you of lightnefle, iior aa amorous glance impeach you of wantonn-sffe. Send no: forth a tempting ejeto take another; nor entertaine a tempting lool^ darting from another. Meithcr take nor be taken. To become a prey to others, will flaue you; to make a prey of others, will tranfport you. Looke then vpward, whert^ the more you /oo/^tf you fhall/iJ^^, the longer you /w* you fliall lone. With- 88 I THe eUGLISB Decency. Speech, -4 Without Speech can no foclety fubfift. By it vvecxprdTe wixatwe are, as veflcls difco- uer them fellies bell by their found.DifcrGtion makes opportunity her anuilc, whereon is wrought a fea- fonablc difcourfe. Otherwife, howfoeuer we (peake muchyVJt ^iJcoHr[e\m\t, Thatfage Stagirian deba* ting of the conutnience and propriety of difcourfe before ^/^lexander^ maintained, that none were to be admitted toi}eaks(by way of pcfitiue direiflion) but ciihcrthofe that mannaged his warres, or his Philorophers which gouerned his houfe. This Opi- nion tailed of too much ftridncfle (will our n>(ime» fay) who affumc to themfelues a priuiledge in argu- ments of difcOurfe, be the argument neuer fo courfc whereon they treat. Truth is^ their tongues are ; held their defenfiue armour ; but in no particular de- traifl they more from their honour, than by giuing ; too free Icope to that glibbery member. For to fuch as profefTe rhcir ability at this weapon,may that fay- , ing of PdKdciphttt be properly applied : T&ey fpci\e wkchtHy hi-t they [peak; kittle ire//; they fpcake mucijy hut dae little, Againe, They doe ItttUyrell^ but ihejdce much ill ; thejfay rpctlj>nt doe ilU They promife much, ! but doc little. What reflraint is required in refped of the tongue, may appeare by thatiuory guard or garriion with which it is impaled. See, how it is double warded, that it may with more releruancy and better fecurity be reftrained ! To glue liberty to thi.'iopguctovtterwhat itlill, isthe argument of an indi '.'erect perfon. In much Speech there can He% utr w ant finne, it either ieaues fome tinfture of vain- glory j which difcouersthe proud hcart/rom whence ir proceeded; orfometafleof fcurrility, which dif- pisjcstbc wanton heart, from whence it llrcamed j or^c?ir;r. violciit and difpaflionatc heat, which pro- claimes CeNtLeWOMJN. I 89 claimes a rancorous heart, from whence it iflued. 1 Decency. Whereas, a well-difpolcd mind will not (peake be- fore it conceiuc ; nor delluer ought by way oFex- pfeffion, till it be prepared by a well-fcafoned delibc- racion.ThatPhiloibphtrs fpeech defcrues rerention; who feeing a filent gucft at a publike fcaft,vfed thefc words : If thou heefi m/i^thou art 4 foo/idytl>iitrvep}0HUmt be readier to ledrnetb^n to teaeh* fVofnen, as they are to be no Speakers in the Church, fb neither arc they to be difputers of controLierfies of the Church. Holy 3*y»4r<^plearantly glanced at thcfe, when on a time entring a Church, wherein the image of our Lady was eredled, hee was ialuted by the Image in this manner, f which merits louing, where Ciuility is not pat- tern. Decency h their choyccl^ liberty ,which fcts the forth aboue a I Embroydery. There was an ancient Ed* but what we weare. Va- nity hach fet vp her Pi^tgge ; and more freHi-water (baldicrs defire to fight vnder her Baancr, than the Enjigne of honour. But all this workes litclc vpon a conftant and rightly- tempered difpofition. Such an one plants there his loue, where with comfort hec may liuc. Doe you thinke that a jetting Gate, a lee- rii\g Looi^^ fl glibbery Tongue^ or gaudy Attire can mouc affcdtion in any one worthy your loue f Sure no ; he deferues a Itght one for his choyce,who makes his choyce by one of the^e. To be an admirer of one of tbefe, were to prefcrre in his choyce a CMaj- mArrinn before a iAfodefi Ollntron, Now there arc fome fashions which become one incomparably more than another : the reafon whereof may be im- puted either to the natiuc propriety of the p4rtj vfing that forme, habir,or complement ; or elft to the ^«4- ^it) of the perfofi, which makes the falhion vied, infi- nitely more gracious^ Vonhefirjfy you fball neuer fee any thing imitated^ but it feemes the imitator worft at the firft.Habit will bring it into zfecond na- ture ; but till fuch time as cuftomc hath matur'd it, many imperfedions will vfually attend it. Whereas, whatfbeuer is naturally inbred in vs , will beft be- fceme and adorne vs ; it needs no other face than what nature gaue it, and would generally become worfe, were it neuer fo little enforced. For the fe~ cctui^is in any Thearrall prefencraent, what becomes a Peere or Potentace, would not fort with the condi- tion of any inferiour fubftitute ; euery one muft bee fuited to the pcrfonhe pref^nts :So in the Theatre of ftate, diftind faibionsboth in HM and Complement are to be retained, according to the place wherein he is ranked. Lncrece, no doubt, ftampcd a deeper imprclfion of affedion in the heart of her beholder, by addrefling her felfc to houfwiuery and purple- rpinning, Decencv, 9^ I rue ENGLISH De CBN c Y. 1 Ipinningjthan others could cuer doc with their rcerc bankets and riotous fpending. All are not of e/£^^- j^wminde, who was taken with a Complement of lightneffe. This argued, that a youthtuU heat had ra- ther furpriz'd his amorous heart, than any difcrcet affedion preferr*d him to his choyce. But how va- ding is that loue, which is fo lightly grounded ? To what dangerous oucrtures is it expofedi* Where Vertue is notdircdrice in our choyce, our inconftant mindes are euer prone to change. Wee finde not what we expedcd ; nor digeft well what wc for- ujcrly afFec- mory of your vertues fhall crowne you after death. Euen there, " Where youth neuer ageth, lifeneucr '*endetb, beauty neuer fadeth, louenener faileth, " health neuer vadeth, ioy ocuer decreafeth,griefe is ** neuer felt, groanes are neuer heard, noobie<5l of *^ forrow to be feene, gladneffe euer to be found, no '' euill to be fear'd . Yea, the Ktng fliall take plea- sure in your beauty, and at your end inueft you with endlefle glery. Prize not then the cenfure of ienfuall man, for hee is wholly fet On vanity ; but fixe your eyes on him, who will cloath you with eternity.Let this be your Crowne of comfort, that many are im* proued by your Example, many weaned frooi /JWw, many wonne to Sion. By Towing the feed of good- uefl'e, that is, by giuing good examples, expref^ fed beil by the effedruall workesof faith, yoa £hall reape a glorious harueft. Aflions of goodncffe fliall liue in you, and caufc all good men to loue you. Whereas, thofe are to be efleemed worft, who not oaely vfc things euilly in themfelucs, but likewife to- GENTLEWOMAN. 99 towards others. For,of fo many deaths is euery one ( Dbcenc y worthy, as hcchath left examples of naughtineffe vntopofterity. Let vertues then bee the flay res to raife you j thefc willadde vnto your honour, feat you abouc the reach of Cenfiire, and ioyne you indiuidnaUy to your hsi Lmct, ^Hg'Med C.4. ^m>ttim sri^a^ i' r mw ntk T\ . THE ENGLISH Gentlewoman. Argumenc. Eftimation, 4 Gcntlewomans h'^ghefiprtKe ; haw it maj be dtfcirnedta ht rcallj ^ore fupcrficiail; hiv/ it m*j be impre^nnBlj preferued ; Low intfttrsb^ UJi yTheabfo- lute cndywbereta it chiefiy ^fpires^ dnd yf herein it cheer e- fuByrefij. ESTIMATI ON. STIMATION 15 a good opinion drawne from fome probable grounds. An vnualua- blc gemmc, which eue- ry vi^e [Aferchaiftj who tenders his honor, pre- ferres before life. The ie0e of this maizes him an irreparable Bank- rupt r All perfons ' ought to rate it higb,bccaufc it is the value of them^ j fclucsj) Efl'matm, a Gsntlemmanh highcfl prize. 102 1 tB6 encLisH EJiimation* ~ I tj i' feluey, though none more dearcly than thofe, in whom modcfty and a m&fe imprcffiuc fearc of dis- grace vliially lodge, The'e, focaucclous arc they of fufpition, as they will noc ingage their ^oodna?ws lo purchafeafFeAion. Publikc rcforts, bccaufe they may corrupt, they auoyd ; Priuacy they confort vvith, and in it conucrfc with their owne thoughts, whe- ther they haue in them ought that may becray them. They obfeme what in others deferiies approuc- roenr, and this they imitate ; with an vncorrupt eye they note others dcfefts, which they make vfe oFas a oaueat. Pure is their mold^hni firre purer the tem- per of their minde. Fame they hold the fweeteft flower that euer grew ncare the border of Time, Which, If ft cither it (lipu/d wither for want of moi- fture, or wanting warmth fliould lofe its vigour, they bedew it with gtacioas «fFcds, and renue it with zealous refofues. Dcfcentjas they draw it from others, fo would they improucit In themfclues. An- cienchoufes, now and then, ftand in need of props and pillarsjthcfe wouU they haue fupplycd with the Cardinall vertues. Thefc arc Emblemes of your fcfues {Noble La^ dies) who fo highly tender your honour, as EJUptatk on gaints yon more than what your blotids gaue you. It is a Princely command of your afKr(5lions, which mounts y on to this height of goodncflc : dilHngui fti- ing betwixt bltHal-.m, and dtfaeet aff: cltfj»» Picafure; ' cannot maleyoii lb forgetfullofy out honour, as toi depriu-^^ vooof that in a moment, which you fliall neucrr cauer. Vu'Ui hath taken tliat feazuie of you, as ' f li^jHt tbau^br canfeizc on von, ordil^ pofleflfe hci' f^f ih.it ciaimeiiiee hach in you Trea- cherous 7 w/)f jirt's may be taken with gifts }but your honour '«' of too nigl an trtimatcto fuffer the kaft blemifh for reward, fou obftruc what ftaines haue laid GSNTieWOMAD^. I loj lau3,&ced, whereby their ciUtes became confi(cated, their houfes frocn their lineal 1 fucce(- fours eftranged, and they to lading infamy expofcd. Ccrtaincly, thongh not in (b high degree ("for thefe wert CapUall) many families haue receiued deepe ftiins from light a6tions,which neither cime,though neuerfoaged, could weare out, nor the liuing ex- ploits of their noble fiicceflbrs wipe off. Vice hath cucr beene of a deeper dye than vertue ; and the me- mory of the one commonly furaiues the fame of the other. Wounds, when they are healed, leaue their fcarres bebinde them i Paths retaine their prints. Your memory fliall neither receiue life from that noble blood which fprinkles in you, nor from any monamentall ferine which may hereafter coucr you, but from thofc precious odours of your euer- iiuing vercues, which fliall eternize you. Thefe are of power to make fuch as long fince dyed,and whole vnequall'd beauty is for many ages fince to allies turned,retainea flourifhing fame in the grateful! me« mory of the liuing. V^ntXo^forfpendingehafieherdayes, tyii vtarthj 04 Vlyffes yfo* ofpraife, A daily fieg€ Ihee fuffered, and in her Conqueft e- quall was Ihee to tbofe vidorious IJeeres of greece, who made Troy their tyittmph, Efiimation was her btghefiprUe. Suiters Ihccgot, yet amidft thefe,was not her P^^jjffs forgot. Long abfencc had not eftran- ged her alFeftion ; youthfuU conforts could not moue in her thoughts the leaft diftraE S A R. Cleopatra kneeled at hisfcct,laydbairsfor his eyes; but in vainc j her beauties were beneath that Pr nces challity, Abfolute Con?.manders v/ere tbefe Hcroicke Princes of their affections, yet afirre morefingular argument of his comporcd dilpofirion, and of Mo- rall,if not Diuinc,Morrificati6n,{bewcd that young man SFVTIMI A in Falmtu A/aximm, whofc beauty CeNTLSWOMjN. >o5 beauty did fo incomparably become him, as it occa- \ EjUmaticn^ lionedmany women to luft after him: which this noble youth nofoonerprrceiiicd, than hee purpoftly wounded his face, that by the fcarre he fuilamcdi his beauty might become more blemiilied, and confe- quentlyall occafion of lufting after ir, clearely re- mouedt Now {(jentiewtmen) if you make Ejiimatitn your hi^he(i fnz.e • i^ you preferre honojr before pleafure, or what elfe is dcare or tender ; your fame will find wings CO flyc with. This willgaine you deferuing Suiters. Portion may vvooe a worldling ; Proporti^ on a youthful Wanton; but it is Vertue that winnes the heart of difcretion. Surely, Ihaueftldomeknowne any make this e- fteemtof honour, and dye a contemptible begger. Such ashaue beene prodigall ofit, haue fck the mife- ry of it ; whereas, a chafte minde hath euer had fomethingtofuccourand fupport it. Thus you fee what K\i\si»^ard beauty is, which if you cnioy, you fit far re abouethe reach of Calumny ; age cannot taint it, nor youth tempt it. It is the Sfiimctiot with- in you, that fo confines you, as you hate that place which giucs opportunity, that perfbn which makes importunity his agent to lay fiege to your Cha- ftity. Now wee are to defcendtothe fecond branch, wherein wee arc to fhew you how this £7?«iw'/Mrhe \v\^tQ^'Brutm ; ClcehuU the daughter oi CUohalm ^ one of the fcuen Sages of Greece ; SalfitU the wife of Calema^ who no: onely inftruc4ed her children which fhc liad tenderly nur- fed, with excellent precepts while Oiee liued,butleft fundry memorable inftrudlions, as Le^nciet orcJ^/tf- thers llcjfi»gt to them , when (lie dyed. Hortenfia^ the excellent daughter of a moft eloquent Orator, deft r- ued no Icffe fame, for her motherly care in nurfing and breeding, her ability in copious and feriousdil- courfing, her grauity in compofiiig and digeding fuch golden fenrences, as fhee afrcrwards recom- mended to the perufall of herfuruiuing Children. Bdefiahr*i»^ writing vnto Saiuina, faith ; The chaftity of a woman is frailcand fading,like a flower quickly per ifhing and vading, with the leafl guft oi blalt of aduerfe Fortune failing, if not falling: erpeciail}', where her age is apt for vice, and the au- thority of her husband wants to afford her aduice ; from whofeafH fiance, her honour deriucs her bell fuccour and fupportance. Who, if fheehaue a great family, many things? are required of her, and to bee found m her, to minifter fupply to the neceflity of time^ and vf^ ofaffaircs, wherein (he flands interef^ fed, Requifite therefore it were, that fhec made choycej ( ^ GSNTLeWOMj^U. M| r choyce of fomc one dilcrcetly ripe both in ycarcs and inward gifts, by whofehoneft integrity her fa- mily might bee betrermannaged, with more dili- gence attended, and to the woman kfle occafion of di (grace obiedcd. For I haue knownc very many women, whoa/beit they fpent their daies continually within their owne doores, yet haue fallen into reproach either by (omc pcrfons obferuing them, or of their owne families difpofed by thtm ; for fuffering their ftruants goc a- broad to neatly, arguing th trtby a neglecl: of their family: lo as the handmaids pride brought herMi- i^refle into (ufpition of contemning her honour. Sure it is, that an honeft woman, whofe fame is her higheft prize, requires nothing elfe, defires no- thing elfe , than :o /atisfie her husbands bequeft, though dead : honouring him with a due Comme- moration and admiration of his vertues: for the liues of thofe that dye, confifl in the memory oFihofe that line. Sodid -•^wr^s'/rM the daughter oi Marc. Antho- niCy and wife to Drnftu : leading ail the remainder of her life with her llepmothcr, and retaining alwayes the remembrance of her dead husband. The Ike did LtMtay who left both her houfe and land, th.^it fhee might dwell vnder one roofe with Noemia : fearing, perhaps, leftthe Maidsof her family grovviag too lafciuioufly wanton and inordinate, might by their lightnefle preiudicc her honor, which ilie incompa- rably valued aboue any treafure. See you not here by Gurdifcourfe (GeKtleveomen) what excellent Lights darted out from thofe darke times ! Sjiimationvi^^ their beft portion ; nothing of equall prize vnto it Vertues were their choyceii Ornaments, which tiuy preferu'd wich fuch conftancy,asfeare of death could not dcpriue them of them, though after death they had fcarce the leafl glimpfe of immortality. Q_ Thus Efimmof$, 114 EJiimaUoft, on may be dif- ccraedtobe tt j t . - Zlie BS^GLISH Thus haue we traced cucr ihefe three Conditions, which wee haue ft ored with precepts,ftrcngthcned with examples, fweetnedwith choycc ft fence nccs; that this yc4//£y?««w«5», whereof we treat, might be difcerned ; and thztSuferfieiaUE fie erne ^whtx^on we are now to infift, difcouered. MAny defire to appeare moft to the eye^ what they are icaft in heart* They haue learned art- fully to gull the world with apparances; and deceiue the time, wherein they are Maskers, with vizards and fcmblances. Thefe can enforce a fmile, to p^r- fwade you of their affubility; counterfeit a blurti, to paint out their modtfty ; walkc alone, to exprefle their loue to prtuacy ; keepe their houfes, to pubiiQi themprouidentpurueyors for thtir family; rcceiue ftrangers, todcmonflrate their loue to hol'pitality. Their fpeech is minced, their pace mcafurcd, tlieir whole pofture fo cunningly compofed, as one would imagine them terreftriall Saints at leaft, whereas they are nothing lefTe than what they moft appeare. Some youfhall obferue fo demure, as in their Sa- lutes they forbeare to cxprcfTe that freedome of Curtlie, which ciuillcuftomeexads of them. Thofc frue Troian Dames, to pacifie their incenfcd huf- bands, could finde a lippe to procure them loue, and iijpple their contra^fledlookc. Whereas, thefcciui- ifzcd Dames, eitheroutof areferuancy of ftate, or dcfireto be obicru'd, fcorneto be Co familiarly de- meaned ; as if they renounced antiquity,, and fought by all meanes, that fuch Cuftomes as plead pre- fcriprion, mightbe reuerfed. Their Liffe mnft be their C^a maybe imprcgnably piefciueii. u8 I Tiie ENGLISH EJltmatton, la6lant.lib 1 Id, Ehfeh. /.J. dc frxf. Euang, We arc now to fiippofe, that yOLi(vcrruou 5 LadicsJ towhom weaddrcfi'ethis Lahur, are vidonoiifly kated in the fore of honour , where beauty cannot be planted, but it muft be attempted. But focon- ftantly gracious are your refolues, that though it be aflaulted, it can ncuer be foiled; attempted but ne- ucr attainted. This you dcfire, and to this you hope to afpire. In the Port or entrance of cucry Caftlc,, City, or Cittadell, there vfeth fotnf^ Percal/as toho in readincflejto frullrate tht Enemies affault, and kccpe him from entry. The like muft you prepare, if you defire to haue your honour fecured,your daring cnc- OJie repelled, and a glorious conqueft purcbafed. And what muft this Spirituall Engine bc,but a refip- »f A, (ayes (hee, I l^forpnot.'fcrallthe while I TV AS forth ^ Icdfimine ejesvpoM»ent other^ httt thy felfe. An excellent Com maudreife was this Lady of heraffedions ; and no IcflTe imitable was (hee, whom wc arc to inftance next ; for her modeft and bafhfull coue- GSNTLSWCmjN. couering of her husbands infiraiicies. OncTSt/^/rro's tnemies reproaching hini wich a ftinking ijrcath ; W€nthomeandqueftionedh>i wife, why ll.^c cold him noc thereof: who anCMtixdyShethcughtaUr^eft had the fame fau'^uy, Wirhoiic qucilion, there h nothing that addcs more true glory to a woman, or better pnferuft her e/ieeme, than corctaineaconluncy inthc qua ity or difpofirion of her eftate. Bt i"he young or oid,iet her fameliuccucrfrefli; and like greenc Bajer^ moft flourifhing. when the winter of duerdry is moft nipping. Vcrtuecamotexcrcife hcrowuc ftrength, norcxprclTe herowne worih without an Oppolite, Sp.'ces fend forth thefweeteftfcnell, when they arc naolt bruifed ; and Palmes fpread the broadcft, when they are foareft preded. Rtlb'ution without atiaflai- lant, would, intime,bccometft^minare. Yet, Imuft tell you, it is dangerous to tempt eithier yoiirh or age with motiucs of fancy, or to gijc !eaft way to a promifingoppor«jnity. You flia'i finde fecretaflaci- nates enough to vndermine you, you need little to become your owne betrayers. 1 1 auc heard of a noble Lady inmytimc, whofe defcentand defert equally proclaime her worth, fo tender of the cdcemc of her honour, as dice bed it fcarce (afe to receiue any Letter from a great Perfo- nage, whofc reputation was touched by rumour. This was the way to preftrje her honour tmpycgna. bljy and to reare it aboue the reach of Calumny, Neither are you to becautelous onely of your Efii^ mation in fubiecfls of loue and affe-flron ; bur cuen in your domefticke affaires, which trench vpon your prouidence or exper ce. "Y our difcrerions in thcfe are brought ro the *^fage. Let not profnrentde draw you to fpend, where honcfl- prouidence bids you (pare ; nor niggardlintfll caufc ycu to fpare, where a rcpti- 122 1 EJltmAttoH. U9n may be K rep ar ably loft. 1 THEffNGLISH rejWHrtWPWas you (pend. she delcrues not to be ^ouerncfle of an houfe, who wants difcretion to moderate hcrexpcnce. Let her refled vpon her pro gcny. intend her charge, and prouide for her family. .\ooodwipis compared to a n'ife Ui^lerchant^ wno brings \\\s trafn kc from a farrc. Now, a wile Mer- chant will no: baut hisOare in euerymans Boate, cur will ferioufly a-idrtfle bis care to his owne, Bu- ilc women would make ill Snayhs^ and worfe houfe- wiues; ftiaglers will neuer become good houfe- kecpers. . 'Xodozzthhhramh: locompofe your affeclions at ho.Tic and abroad , as prouidence may expreffe your care and charge ia the one; a graue and refer- ued rcuerence preferuc your tftceme m the other. As yojrliues are Hues of dircdion to your fclues, fo iliould they be arguments of inftru Jtion vnto o'.hers. Be you planted m what ftate focutr, let your good I re fort be yoMTgreAttJffittke, for euert'fo may you rcape what your vcrtues haue deferued^ and keepe your Efitmmon imfregnablj freferned* N One can preleruc what heloues, by mixing it with the fociety of that he loathes. The luyc while it windes and wreathes it felfeabout the Plant, withanenuiousconfump'iondecayes the fappe. If vou be companions to O^ridjrts^ you fliall fauour of 'he wilderncfle. Socrates C2\\t6 Euuyan impoftumc of the foulc : fo may euery corrupt afFc 5lion be pro- perly tearmed- Vices loue neighbourhood, which i ike infediousmaladieSidoeuer moll hurtjwhcn they draw neareft the heart. . There is noi\\\r\g(Qent!eii9emtn) that brings your Honour to a more de(peratc hazard, then giuing reines to your owne deiires, Thcfe muft you fubdue to GENTLEWOMAN, to the (bucraignty of reason, if you exped reft ia your inward raanfion. What better fruits then ig- nominy may carnall liberty produce? When you make the Theatre your chicfeft place of rcpofe : phantafticke gallants, who neuer yerconuerft wich vertue, your choifeil conforts ; delicious viands, (cr- uants CO your liquorifh appetites ; what conclufion may wee exper«?/M,A>- f^ftrta, Ltftta, and that molt Chnlban widdow Sa/ui- na^ to whom S. Hierem direftcd maiy fwcttand comfortable Epiftlcs. Tht»<», « ^trc^ot^i« tender care of their Sptmation thii ff .■ ^/{f-rr.i^^n^ u : f-rf in it cheerefuHy rfy?*<^ > It was roc riches, no< r.y luch temperall refped; for »btk ;hey conrera'iedj^o '•heir honour Tlui^rch. Efitmatt^, honour rnighc beprc(triitd.No;rhere was implan- ted ill them an innate dtfirc of Morali {^oodneffe ; mixed with an honeftambirioHj loco aduanceiheir ejieeme during ilk, that thtry might become exam- ples vnto others of a good Morali life, andptrpetu-( ate their memories after death. Your ambition (£/rf lity you afpirc to j a lo.^'er Oibc cannot hold you i norhingelfe may confine you. Be it then your high eft Efiimatiou to honor him, who is the h^rnc of) our I'Aiyation, Let not a moment of deluding vanity, dt- priiieyouof tbehope of eternity. Your voyage is fhort ; your hazzard ^reat. Many d iliJUities en- counter you in the way 5 addrcflfc your Iciuts there- fore in the way, tofbme good workc. Let Pati- ence teach you how to lufFcr,Dv uorion fwec- len your encounter, BfHrft^tton crowne you wirh fucccc- dms: honour. ss fa 4A Wimt.\ ^a VWW^Wms\ 129 FaK C Y, TH E ENGLISH Gendewoman. Argument. Fancy ut»h vritbliebberenen grounded imtb Con- fidMcy retained ; Wanton Fancy is a wandria^ frenzy ; How it mt^y he checked ^ ifteo wilde j How cheered, if too coolc \ Art attemferament of both. Fancy. ANCY is an affeai- on priuily receiued in by the eje^ and fpecdily conucyed lo thei&^drf. The Eje is the ifr4r^^«- ger, bnt the heart is the hmboHter, Loue con. ceiu'd at firll light, fel- dome lafts long. Velt- deration muft lead ir, or elfc it is mif- guided. i^w^ne exchfed. There is no time that exaifls more modf.fly of any .voman, than in her time of fuiring; a fhamtfaft red chcn bcft commends her, and the mouingfl Ora- Lor that fpeakes for her. So as ?ii^^i/,the very Prince of our Latine Poets, when he tJiould bring in King L^t'fifu priuacely conferring with his wife ^Amata^ and Turmu^ to whom in nuptiall bands he was to e- fpoufe his daughter : he brings in the young maid weeping, blufhing, and filcnc. W hf nee is implyed, 'hat GENTLEWOMAN. Iji that it becomes not a Maid to fpcake of marriage in her parents prefence/or chat were Imall argumenc of modelty or ihamefaftnelfc. There is a pretty pleafing kinde of wooing drawne troni a eonceiued but con- cealed Fancy ; wbich5in ray opinion,(uits vvetl with thefe ameroas younglins : they could wifti with all their hearts to be euer in the prefence of thofe they loue, fo they might not be feene by thofe they loue. Might they chufe, they would conuerfc with them freely, confort with them friendly, and impart their truelt thoughts ful/y, yet would they norhaue their baflifiiU loues finde difcouery. They would be feene, yetfeemc oblcured; loue, hcj^not di^clofc it j (ee whom they loue, but notbeeeyed,. This the Poet ii^. the perfon of a Shepherdefle neatly dilp.'ayeth : P hill is to •mll9wes^ li^e a ctinningfljer^ Tljei^jet ^efeares^ber ShepheardjJfOiiUnot fpy her. Now in this Subied of Faticy^ as there is nothing more dangerous than entertaining it without due and deliberate aduice : (o there is nothing growes more generally fatall to the indifcreet Loaer, than by grounding afFedion on outward refpcds, without relation to xhMtn^ard faire^ which onely makes the Obiedl of Fancy {\x[\o^ beauty, and prefents euery day as a Marriage-day to the party .Neither affluence of cftite,potcncy of friends, nor highnefle of descent can attemper the griefe of a loathed bed. Thefe may play vpon the Fantafe, but neuer gUic (atisfaL^ion to the Fancy. Wherefore {getttlcwomen) to the end yon may fliew your feluesdilcreeteft in that, whicb re- quires your difcretion raoft , difcuflfe with your felues the purity of loue, the quality of your loner ; euer refieding on thofe bcft defcruing endowments of his, which cither make bim worthy or unwor- thy your loue. Affcdiou, though it enter in by the narrow cranny of the Sye^ it ilioots at thz hearty I S 3 which !Fa N c Y. 132 I TBS E9CGLISB Fancy. \ which, vnlcfl'e it be (ealonedby iudgcment, it can not delcrue fo fiiire a title. ^ A difcrcet eye will not be taken with a imooth skinnc ;|it is not the riraie but themnde that is her AdgmMt, lufltm a Roman Maid,no lefifc nobly defccnded,than notably accomplifhcd, being married to one more rich ihan wile, exclaimed againft her fate, that folly {hculd hale her to (b loathed a bed. And good reafon had fliC to repincjwhen his groundlefle iealofic made her a tragickfpe^adc of mifery before her timc.For feeing her white necke,rhat obicd begot in him pr«- fently an argument of ill fpcdl, which hce feconded with rcucngCjto ventfdic fury of his nature^and pub> lilh to the world the weakneflc of his temper. Let de liberation lYitn bs rheScale,wherin you may weigh Loue in an equall poize. There bee many high and coniequent Circumihnces,which a difereet woman will not onelydifcourfebntdifcufle, before Aiee en- tertain fomylkcrious and honorable eftatc.Dirparity in defccnt, fortiines,friends,with other like lefpeAs, many times beget dif^radion of mindes. Whence it was, that TittacHt ofCMitjlene^ being intreatcd by a young man, to afford him his befl aduicc, in the Choycc of twowiues tcndrcdhim, whether hec (hould marry; the one whereof was equall to him- fclfe both inbirth and wealth ; the other furpafling himinboth; VVifti*d himtogoc along the ftreets of the City, where children vie to play, and there obferue what they did adiiiie him. Truth is, inequa- lity in thefe,procwre8 diftafte ; but where there is a difference inthefeazurcor difpofurc of the heart, (which fliGuldbe the firmeft and ftrongeft Cement to vnitc affedion) there arifeth the greateft hazard* Thence is ir, Sufpition workes vpon euery light and friuolous iiibicd ; while the other party hunts after opportuaity,to fiirfct on forbidden fruit,and giue her I • fufpitious GeUTLSWOMJS^. 33 fufpitious Mate iufl ground of ieaIou{ie* Feed bee mty his indigedcd humour in a iealous pafture, and vow reuenge when hce (hallHnde an aptlubied^ meane time hee becomes inoifibly gull'd , while he deludes himfelfc with painted fhado wes. I No ledleufie can ettertbdtfreuent WhtrcM tvf 9 forties ence be fni content, Seuerall, I know, are the t^kBa of loue, as arc the difpofitioQS of thofe that loae. Liuia made quicke difpatch of her husband, becaufe (hee lou'd him too little : Ludtinoi hers, becaufe fheeloucd him coo much. Phoedro fancied thefetu leflc than (hee (hould, but young Htffetjtw more than hee would. Which effe(fts arc vfually produced, when either dilparity of yeares breed diilike^; or ob(cu- rity of delcent begets contempt ; or inequality of fortunes, difcontent. Deliberate then before you marry, and thus expoftulate with your felues tou- ching his Condition, whom you are to marry, •* Is he young ? I will beare with his youth, till bet- ter experience bring him to the knowledge of man. My vlage (ball bee moreeaiie, than toweane him firom what bee affefts, by extremity. Youth will hauc his fwinge ; his ownc dilcrction will bring him home ; at lead, time will redaime him ; bee fliall not findemee put onaclowdy brow, oren- tertaine his freer courfe with a (cowle. I mufl con- forme my felfe to him , confirme my loue in him, and fo demcane mee towards him, that Coniugall duty mixt with all afiability may winne him. "Agafne, ishcofd? His age (hall beget in mee more rcuerence ; his words lliall be as fo many aged and cime-improued precepts to informe me; his ani- ons as fb many diredions to guide me; his rebukes t as I Fan C Y, Ruftt, THe eNGLISH as fo many friendly admonitions to reclaimc mee j his bed I will honour, noYnchaltc thought fl>all de- file it ; his Counfell I will kcepe, no forraiue brcft (hall partake it. I will bee a lUffe to him in his age, to (upport him • an eye todiredhim ; an hand to help him; his Subftance I will not fcatteron a youth- fiiU Loucr : but ferue him ftill, whom I haue vow'd to honour. " Againe, is he rich ? Much good may it doe himj thi^ (hall not make me proud ; my defire (hall be, he , may iraploy it for his beftaduantage ; I will moae him to communicate vntothe needy, that his riches may make him truly happy. Ic is a miferable Hate that ftarucs the owner. I will perfwade him to en- ioy his owne, and fo auoyd bafcne(re ; to referuc a prouident care for his owne , and (huane pro- ftifencffc* ■ ,*;* Againe, ishcepoorc? Hi$ pouerty (hall make me rich; there is no want, where there wants no content. This I (hall enioy in him, and with him; which the world could not afford mee, liu'd I with- out him . It hath bcene an old Maxime ; that as po^ iierty goes in at one dopre, loue goes out at the other; but this rule fhall neuer dirtd: my thoughts ,- (Kould poverty enthrall me, it (liall neuer appall me ; my af- 1 fedipn (hall counterpoize all afflidion : Noadiier(i- tycandjulde mee from him, to whom my vowed faith hath indiuidually ti*dme. ''In av/ord, is heel wife ? He (hall be my 7"M^i. " is he foolilli ? J, wiil by all meanes ^ouer his weakenefle : as I am now made one v^ith bim^ fo will I haue mine cijuall (Kare in any afperfion that (hall be throwne on him. , Thus if y^ouexppftwlate,^your Chriftianconftant; reTolues (hi?ll make you-truly fortunate. Your Fttufy hOn^eUymtien grounded; which promiieth (itch fLicce{re,a5.Yi0p.r Marruas-daycs fl^all neuer feare the bitter GSNTLeWOMA^^C. \ IJ5 birtcr encounter of vntimely repentance, nor thei Fan c y. curelcffeanguilliofanafflivfled Conlcience. \ — JL rHe fe'fe-fame rule -which AugHllu4 was faid to oblcTue in his choice and conllanc retention of friends, are y ou, Gentlewnmen^ to apply to your (elues in the choice of your fecond-fclues. He was ilovv in enurtatmng^ but moft coiiftant in retaining, Fauorites are not to be wori;c like fauours ; now in your har, Or about your vvnil, and pr^fently out of rcquell. \.Vhichtopreuenr, entertaine none to lodge neere your heart, cha: may harbor in his breil ought wor- thy your hate. Thofc two Motto's I would h.aue you inceflantly to remember ,• for the vietuil application of them may highly conduce to your honour. The one is that of Caia Tra»^utHa, which fhe eucr wk^ to herroyall Spoufe Cdita Tarcjmnius Prifcm; PVhere thcHcvt CaiHSy I am Cai^i. The other,that ofRhth vn- to Naomt ; If'htther thon goe^^l willgoe : and where thoa dwell J}, I -willd^eU, There xi no greater argument of lightnefle, then toaffwd the acq»jaintance of flrangers, and to enter- taine variety of Suiters. Thefe,as they diffrad the (fr^jfo they infect the ^(frf'T. Conftantyou cannot be where you profcfTe, fo long as ycu affcdl change. Vowtsdchberacelyaduifed,and reh'gioufly groun- ded, arc not to be difpcnc'd with. But fay, you ncuer vowed : haue you made outward profefTions ofloue, and entertained a good opinion of that obied in your heart ? Againe, are you refolued, that his afFerftion IS reall towards you ? That his prorefts, though de- liuered by his mouth, are engrauen in his heart ? Let not fo much good loue be loft; infult notoutr him, whom vnfained affedion hath vow'd your fcr- ua n. Let ^Mcy is to be withconftan- cy retained. 3(J I TUe ENGLISH Fancy. 1 Let fVoiuet and beafit be cruett in tbHr kinde$^ But fVomen meekf, andhatte reknting mindes. It were too much incredulity in you to diftruft, where yoa neuer found iuft caufc oFdiftaftc. Yea, but you will againe obied ; wc are already by your owne Ohftruatiom efficiently inftruftcd, that FAncj U to he with eieliherntion pounded , that loue lightly laid on, lafts not long. Should wc then afFe«fl before we findc ground ofrcfpedl? Should wee entertainc a Rbetotacall Louer,whofe protells arc formal Com- plem€nts,and whofc promifesare gilded pill$,which couer much bitterncfle ? No, I would nothaucyou fo credulous, left your NuptiaH day become omi- nous. Make true triail and experiment of bis Con- ftaocy, who tenders his fcruice toyou. Sift him, ii you can findc any brannc in him. Taske him,bcfore you take him. Yet let thefe be fwcetly tempred with lenity; Let themooi be Taskes of infuperable dif- ficulty. This were to tyrannize, where youlhould louc. This was OtnfbMet fault, to make her faithf ull feruant,aferuileflaue. Alas! fliallhec fare the worfc becaufe hcc loucs you? This would induce others, who take notice of your cruelty, to loath you. And make your discarded louer, furprized with an amo- rous diftempcr,to reply, as Ahjtilotn to H»p>aijt this thy ^ndnejfe to thjjriend ? My counfell is, that, as it willbeviefullfor yoaxo delUerate^ before you take fo much as the Icaft Notions of an afFedionate Ser- uant ; yea, and to (econd that de/iherationwith fbme probable proofe or triail, that hec is truly conftant : fo it will be a gratefull office in you, toretainc him in your fauourwith a gracious refped ; to counte- nance the improuement of his conftancy with a chcerefiill and amiable afpedl: : to banifli all ciowds of feemingdifcontent, and to giue him fome modeft expreffionsofth^increale of your good Conceit to> I wards I GENTLEWOMAN. wards him. .Lee this be done, cill HjwfHlmike yoj ; iadiuidually one. Then, and ncuer till then, may 1 Loue enioy her full freedome. S^c flands priuiledg'd i by a facrcd rite to laftethat fruit, which before was [ forbidden. Mutuallrerpefts,hkeibmany diametrall I lines, pointing all to one Centre, are then direded j to one exquifite obied ; the purttj oUofse ; which ! produceth this admirable efFed : -it makes one (bale rule two hearts, and one heart dwell in two bodies. Now, I would hauc you, when your tiefires are drawne to this period ; to become fo taken with the loue of yourchoyce, as to interpret whatfoeuer hee lliall doe, euer to the btft lenlc.It were little enough that you retained a good opinion of h]in,who ftands in fo many feuerall ingagements obliged for you. Should ypur riot bring him into debt ; his reftraint roufl: make you free. Df^rance muft be his fuif, while better ftuffc makes you a Coace. Yea, wbatConfci- ence is there in it, but hee iliould receiue an affable and amiable refpcd from you ; feeing, li your^<7«. fci.T»cf be no Conferma/tfi, he mufl: pay for you ? Thefe refpeds fliould perpetually eye you, to ho- nour him,who becomes io U^al,'}' ty'd for you. Re- quite thefc then with conftancy, and retains this en- (iiing Example euer in your memory. Ti^eo^cfia^w iic to ^gathociesj fliew'd admirable conftancy m her husbands greateil mi(ery,fhewing her felfe moll his owne, when he was relinquifht and forfaken of his owne; dozing her refolution with this noble Con- clufion : *' Shee had net endj betaken her felfe to be hit '' Companion in frejperitj^ hut in alifcrtmes that jhould ' 'HefaUhim, Conforme your felues to this Ol^firror , and it will reforme in you . many a dangerous er- rors. Thus if you Hue, thus if you loue : honour cannot chufe but accompany you lining, mucbcom- T fort 13.7 A K Y. n8 TBe ED^GLlSU F AN c ¥♦ I fore acteiwi you louing,aiK^a vercuous memory ^m balme you dying. Wanton F«»- iy is a wao- iiring fren^e. W Anton Loue feldomc or neuer promifi:th good fucceffe ; the efcS canno: bee good, when the tfte7isill. Seafe muftbccthe hlindt Un- thorne to guide her, while fl-^ee rambles in the ilrcet : for Reafon, (he leaues her fleeping with the Confta- ble. Whacdcuices iliee hath to purchafc her a mo- ment of penitentiall pleafurc ? Her *;/^/AD»uinePhilofophy,or Diceanhw pious ''re- ceptsot Morality ,muft viik lO ^/c^fff, or ^racre- o*ts wanton l^oe lie. Venta and 4dottu are vufitring Confoi ts for a Ladies bofcme* Remou^ them time- ly from you, if they euer had entertainment by ' ou, lefl, tike the Snuke in the fable, they annoy you. Fourthly, Eyes are thole ^W<>7rtf; by which dca 'j enters ; your inward houfe cannot (hine, vnl' fl' chcfe be Hiut ; Obiefts they haue of more beauty to take them, than thefe fights of vanity, which mife^ rablytainc them. Eue looked on the fruir before fhee counted, coueting Ihf e tafted, tailing flie peri- fhcd. Tbusafpiring to the knowledge of good and 1 T 2 -'•'' euii x4o F A N C THE ENGLISH Ari^ dereg. Tr'm. euill, became to h?r and her pofterity euill. The Eye is a Lintngg/ajpy but if wee make it a faffegUffe^ it will neither reprefent vs truly, nor difcouer our ble- mishes freely ; but make that feemefaire which is o- dious and vgly. By this meancs, many good ob- leifls become Eye-foaress/rLtovs^ which, ifcieaiely viewed, would likeafoucraigne Eje-bri^ht^ rellore fight vnto vs. Fifthly, Conforts are theeues of time, they will rob you of opportunity, the befi: treafure time can afford you, if you fuffcr them toincroach on you and abufe you. Chu(e fuch then for your Confarts, of whom you may haac aflured hope, that they will either better you, or bee bettered by you. Chufe fuch, whom you may admire both when you fee them and heare them : when you lee their liuing Doflrine, and heare their who'.efome inftruclion. Laftly, Ltifi'totu jare is the fuell of euery inordinate concupifcence. Nothing fo much feeds it, norinfcn- fates the vnderftanding by delighting in it. By re- ftraint or this, you lliall learne to moderate your de- fires. Whence you may reioycc, yetinhim,who is yourioy, ifyou can line fparingly, andembraccthe meaacs that may cfiallife in youallfeniuality : for by your fpare life is luft cxtinaui(lied,7ertue nouriflied, themindeftrengthened, the vnderftanding to hea- uenly things rayied. Yea, abftinence auaileth much for preferuino health of body and length of life. Whence it is fa id : Ue that dieteth himjelfey pro huge th iife. Which the profound St may fteire to prcmifefomc perfundlory delight, they euercaftvp their laft account withrepcntarce. V^ti.'O.*- WHen a man bleeds at the nofe, and through abundance of blood is bioi ghtjn danger ot his life,il ePh) f oa lets him b ocd jn hi.^ aim toturn the ccurle of the bleed another vay. If 'oueifine out in too violent a ftrtpmc ,it is to be cooled by a t( mpe» rate txpoilulatic with/ «e«;f;:rr clft by fiMrg cur eic vponlcme nioieattjad>it:< ctit^, diuert thtcourft ot ihat naddirgpi^lTon. txpdlLilafe Uith fancy^ thus you may,fafely 6i fitely *'Hc u is ii with ir.t ? " Met ihinkts, it lares oihtrwile than it hath done " formerly. A flrJrtediflfmper I find in my mind; **ard it might kc me lonKmble Irue, if J J new *^* tf c narurc of it. Loue 1 Can virgin- mode fly re- *' turne that tecmt^ arc nc t bli fl^ ? Yes ; u 1 y ror ? " If the Cbitd I aficd be worthy touing.And i' rot, *' what then ? Is not rhe Icucr tuci blinded with at- ** ftfiion towards his btlcued ? He, w t o may ictmv " aT^f»//fJtoanother, ma) tea P<*r/jin m'necyc: ^ Were he poore as7y»',/^«Kf7nattihm dearer " toiae, than the weatl ot C>a/$u. Yea, but a lit- "tlt aduicc wculd doe well. /*rt thou pcrl'waded "thatthis Non-fa^aLeli ^i\cvi thus afftdVcfl-, hath de- "dicatedhis leruice one'> to thte ? Yes; his pro- " teftshaueconfiim'd him mine. Ftfidcs,hisconti- "ruall prdence feconds whathce proufts : That " hourc is tedious, whtrtin bee kts me not ^ thofc '*pleafuresodious,wh chmy pref^nce accompanies ** nor. His eye is cuei fixtd on me ,• his fole difcourfe '*is tome* What laftcd hee cmbraccth with de- light; '^ light ; what I dif-rcllifli, hce cnccrtaincs with I F a n c y. "d'lUfte. ■- Thefe, Imuftconfefle, {"IfntlewonMn) ircpromi- iing arguraeius oFrnfained loue i yet may aU thefe I erre, and confcqucntly leaue you in a miferable Er- ror. Your True-toM may proue a /<«/«« or a Thefent^ andleaue you mthe bryersforall your confidence. You fay, his Protefts haue confirm'd him yours; he hath atcefted heawn to bearc record of his louc. A!as of Credulity 1 Take heed he play not the pare of that ridiculous A^or in Smjrna^\fjhiO pronouncing, hea, uen \ pointed with his finger to the ground. Or like chat namekflc Louer, who foUiciting aGcntlewo- mans affcdioii with aboundance oFamorous Rheto r!cke,concludcd wuh tliis Emphatictll protefti th^t ^ee vas the oneij UVUfheQ'e ef hts thoughts : which con- clufioa being oucrheai d by one to whom not long oeforc vpon Uke prorcfts bee had ingag'd his faith ; ibe replied. Doe nothUeue him, Gentlewoman ; the 'fife- /ante Arbour xvhereyouttoivare, might ivitneffe that he hath made the v.rjlik^ fr^tefii vnt9 me, many timet hefort, Trialls in affaires of this nature haue euera truer touch than protefts. It \s eafie for beauty to exrort a yoWjOr a temporary proteft; which many times is as Ibone forgot as made. Let not thefethenwoike on your Credulity. Th rebe, I know (and fo all be that are truly gene- ow) who, rather than they would infringe chcir Taith, would in^age theifUfe. But all arc not o^ that noble temper . O hers there bee, whocaotip their g!ozingron<];uts with Rhetoricall protefts^purpofe- ly to guil a credu'ais Creature, for the pure' aie of an vnlawfu Ipleafurc, which obtained, they leaue them j to bcmoane their loft honour. \Vlrh more fafety ' therefore may youfufped, than toorafhly affed. It J will I Fancy. 1 THS INGUSH ( willnocbeamiflTeror you to readehim, before you ' chftfehim. As thus ; "Hath his faire carriage got I *' him eftimation where he Hues? Hath hce neuer I " inur'd his tongue to play Hypocrite with his \ " heart; nor made Ceremoniall proteils to purchafe " a light Miitreflfe ? Hath he kept a faire quarter,and "becneeucr tender ofhisvntainted honour? Hath ** he neuer boafted of young Gentlewomans fauors, 1 " nor runne defcant on their kindncflc ? Hath hce *^' kept himfelfc on eucn boord with all the world, ^* and preferu'd his patrimony from ingagement? " Hath hee euer fince hee vow'd himfelfc your (er- "uant, folely dcuored himfelfe yours, and not im- 1 •*mix*d his aftedioii with forraine beauties ? Chufe I " him, hee well deferues your choyce ; in which j "cboyce, let this be yoiirimprefej U^jfchcjeead-l '* mts no chdM^e, To be (Hort 5 the blelTing whi^h Boa^ pronoun- ! ced vpon /?«/&, (hall like a honey-dew deftill daily : from the lippes of your husband. Bie^edbe thm eftbc | Lordy mj Spp/ife ; thfia bafi ^ewedmore goodne^e in the , latter tnd^ than at thy beginningy in as much as thou fol- \ toTcvefl notjoHKg men^ Vfcre they poore or rich, Contraii- wife, where you find no fuch demeriting refpedls in him, who makes louevnto you; Cheese your wi/de fancy by time, lellaremedilefle C^^r^/ attend youtj Choyce* - \ Couertly knew that vnfortunate Lady how to' paint out her griefe, the «ix cent whereof her tongue- tide paffion could not relate ; When like a finiifH/l vincy fhee had brought forth many faire and promi- fing branches toa debaucht h^sband,by whofe pro- ftifer courfe, her hopes which fhee had Itored in her numerous progeny, perifhed , and her felfc through griefe irrecoucrably wafted ,• £hce wrote thefe penfiue lines with a ^Diamond in her Cham- ber GeNTLeV/OMjN. 145 ber Window, to giue a liuing rhaidow to her la Aing forrow. Vp to the W indors> fprnrg theffreAdin^ lltie^ 'The diWgling Aprkeckf-y andEglardine j Since tvhenjhat vtJie and branches too reert found Shred fiem their root^ Itidfpram/ifjg on the ground. It is noc fo hard to giue comfortable counfel to the forrowfull, as to finde a fitfeafbn when to giue ir. I would hauc you, whofe more nob'e parts promife much comfort to your families, giue fach attention to (eafonabic coanfeIl,as you may preuent ad enfaing occafions offorrow. It is the condition of an incon- fiderate perfon, who ncucr forefces his fall, to cloze the ifluc of his misforcunes with this improuideiit concUifion; **I would neuer haue thought that this "fliouldhauethus come topafie; I ncuer dream'd " of this Eucnt. It will be more vfefull and benefi- ciall to you, to cheese year wilde Fancy, if any fuch (caze vpon you, than to giue way vnto it, and con- fequently vndoe you. Repentance comes too late at Marriage-night, Affaires of fuch weight and con- fequence are not to be entertained without due ad- uice,nor fcconded with rafhne(Te. In one wordjhaue you plaid a little too long with the flame ? Haue you giuen too free acctffe to your defcrtlefle louer ? Haue you fuffered your heart not onely to thinke of him, but with more intimate refped: ro harbour him ? Lodge him no longer in diat roome ; it de- feruesafarrebetrergueft. I will rotheare you, if you reply, and fay ; This IsaTsske of impoflibili- ty. Continuance of time, with difcontiruancc of his prefence, willcafilyetfecl it, N!cane time, fixe your eye vpon fome more deferuing obiefV. Rcuengeyour felfc of that Conceit, that fliall affrefh prefent him t6 you. So rhall the -pfiidm^e or your Farcy be chei kfd ; yourbalfc-Iof> liberty regained ; and your afF-:5Vion V after- Fancy. an. 1^6 THE ENGLISH Fancy. How Funcy may be chee- red if too coU. afterwards planted, where it may be better acqui- red ; there leated, where ic may be more fwectly le*- foiicd. c THere be Hagg^rdi of that wildc Nature, as they will by no meanes be reclaimed J Neither Loue nor fcare will caufc them (loops to any Lure. Em- blemes thefe are to fuch wayward Girles, whofe in- flexible natures will neither be woo'd nor wonne at any rate. Theic had rather dye for loue, than bee dee m'd to lone. Their hearts arc fmeer'd ouer with SuLiinanderseyle^ and will admit noheat. They may cntertaine Suiters, but it is with that coldnefle of af- fedion, as the longer they reCorr, the kflcr/s their hope. They may boaft more of the multiplicity of their SuitorSjthan their Suito):s can of any probabili- ty to be fpeedcrs. As it chanced fometimc in a Con- tefl: betwixt two Maids, who comparing one with the other their dcfccnts , friends, and Suitors : " C^[4kenocompari[on with »«^, rcplyed the one to the " other /or / mufi tell thee j t haHemare Suitsrt thMnthon *' hafi fiends^ MoreflfOmelejfejOH (ahfwercd the O- *' thcr) vnleffejoH menne tofet vp anhoufe ofgoadjeU " /tfWj^i/.Thefe vnfociableNatures,who many times deferre making their choycc, till age bring them to contcm^r, and excludes them from all choycc , Or Da»ae-\i\:e,\iuQ immured in their Chamber,til their Fort be vndermined by fome^ Lay thatafidc fora whi-lc, andbeffowyour eyeon the Piclure. Such imprclTi- ons haue fiiarpened the dull af?edions of many Lo- ucrs. t/ihxander being much u\ loue with AptHes, as one GSNTLSyy'OMJO^. 149 one highly rapt with the exquifitenefle of bis art, | Fa n c y. propoied him chat Modeilforacajke, which hecof ail others, afJeiled molt ; commanding him on a time topamc Campafpe^ a bcauciftill woman, naked ; vvhich ^/?^//?jhauingdone,fuchimprelTion wrought cht Pt^urein his afFjdicii,as Apefies fell in loue with her, which Alexander pcrceiuing, gaue him her. It IS incredible, what rare effects were fometimes drawne from a CMgria*t.Pt6iure, being ontly hung vp in a Ladies Chamber. If fuch imprefliue motiucs of afFcdion draw life from a PtQurcy what may bee conceiued by the Sftkflance} Oris AfoUo writeth,that che Egyptians, when they would defcribc the heart, & fie her With a properEmbieme,paiat^he bird Ibk-. becaule they thinke that no Creature, for proportion of the body , hath fo great an heart as the Ibis hath. It \% the "Bird of loue muft be the Embleme ofyoiir heart. It is neither pidurc nor pofture can content her. Much lefle thefc infenourpUures^ which wc call tnouejei'. which are fo far re from fatisfying theaife- (flion^ as they are onely for the Mold or Worldling ; whofe grofler thoughts neuer yet afpired to the knowledge of loues definition. As then, the precious llone Diaclttes, though it haue many rare and excel- lent foueraignties in if, yet it lofeth them all, if it be put in a dead mans mouth : fo Lotte^ though it bee a fubiedfo pure, as none ofa more refined nature; fo firmo, as none of a more holding temper ; fo hot, s^s none of a more lading feruour : yet becomes her fplendour darkened, her vigor weakened, her feraor cooled, when fheis in a cold brefl entertained. Re- femble, rather, the lunijier-tree, whofccoalcis the harreff, and whole fhadow is the coolefl : be hot in your affe^lion, butcoole in your paj/lon. If you findc any thing which cooleth loue in you, rcmoueitj if any thing which vrgeth palfion, quench it : contra- / riwife ) j5o Fancy. THe SNGLISB riwiff s feed m you loucs htac 5 but reprcfle in you all pafli Jfiatc '..~:e.^ake into your more fciious 1 hoghrs, a view o^ r ti» deiei rs whom you afFed : increalc the conccii O' them b> fuppoiint more than hec expreC- Teth. f he imagination of i«i^«* is ftrong, and works admirable cffcfts in a wiii inp; fubied. Yet in all this, let nor one ftra'id thougbr wrong your Mayden-mo- dei>y fo much, as to iu^-^i^ik ro you a ftraine of light- nefl'e. Other Cloiet-rreatics you may entertainc fafdy and freely, without touch of modefly. As to thinke of the henouy of that State, to which you are approaching ; the mutual/ Comfort from thacmy- fterious vnion arifing ; hov-v griefes will be attempe- red by one anothers fuffcring ; how ioyes will bee augmented by one anothers (hating. Thefc thoughts i cannot but well become you ; nor otherwife chufe than with a pure affedion inflame you i nor receiue lefle than free acceptance from you. Thus may that Loue, which lecm'd before to hauebceneascWW, by thele modefl motiues bee cheered. That day no blacke Cloud fliould by right (it on your faire brow ; no cold dairpe leaze on your heart. You hauc got one whomafacrcd gage hath made yours ; with a cheerefull requitall render your felfehis. This cannot cboofe but highly pleafc the pureeyeofheauen, to fee that (Ji'iyfieriefo fwectly folemniz'djwhich was honoured by Chrifl,with his firft Miracle on Earth. An artempc- ramem ot both. IN this laft branch of (mtOi^feri^mof/, wee are co propole an attemferament of both thofe indifpo- fed fancies before n:ientioned,a3iddeferued!y taxed. Firftjthe rvildeneffe oitht one ; fecoiidly,the cooleneffr of the other ; by feafoning them both with an indif- ferent /^/»f^r. GSNri.eWOMAD^, \ 15' InsLp'tHf^ wild and luxurious branches arc to bee pruned, chat iach a$ are free and kirjdiy may bee bet- ter cheriQivd. In chcfpiriruali field ofyour heart, is neuer to be expcclcd any fruitfull increase of vcrtues, till there be weeded out o'^itall ths chornes of vices. The difK-rence betwixt a 'rf^ifemd rvtldeLoac^is this : the one euer deliberates before ft loue ; the other loucs before it deliberate. The firilqueflion that {he askes, who wifr/y loucs ; *' Is he, who is here recom- " mended to my choyce, of good repute ? Is he rich " in the endowmeits oi his minde ? Next queftion fliee askes, are of a lower fiege : " May his perfo^ " nagfr giue content ? Arc his fortunes fuch, as may '* not beget in loue a contempt ? Thus beginnes ihee that loues »*fclji with ^;oods inward, and ends with outward; whereas, fliee chat loues w/^^/y, beginnes with outward,andends,or elfe neuer remembers the inward: ''Ishee, you tender to mee, of promifing "pcrfonagc? Is hee neat in his cloathes? Complete ** in his drefle ? Can he Court raee in good words ? ** and perfume them with fweet protefts ? Can hec '* vflier me gracefully in the (Ircet ? and m his very ** pace exprefle a referued ftate ? Next q;ieftion fhec askes, muft be neare the fame verge : ** Is he rich ia *• Manors? Hath not fortune made him ? ,omger "brother? Can he, tobuy him e fehonojt, pawic ** the Long-acre ? May hislwclllug meanc - ^urniili *' nae of Coa:h,Caroach, and dally firmee for fome '' Sxcbatigetti^es? Ihaue^ moneihs mi^'dtofeethe ^'manl Hcc cannot bu'd-^'crae my loue. Wherein (heefayes well, for in vcr; dc.d her could deferue little elfe. Now as the forwr^ feidomc beftowes her felfe, but where fhee findc < co itent ; fo the iatter^ ftldone or neuer,but cith^ • ihc with her Choyce, or her Choyce with her falU into contempt, fhe rea- foais,tbis>p#/<^ff Girle neuer cares foi m'^rethanto be F A N c r i5i Thie ENGLISH AN C Y. be married. If (he may bat fee that day,ic accompli- fKci h bcr content : though (hce haue but one Comi- calldayail her life. Yea, it is as well as can be expe- cted from her hands, if (he attaine thzi fiyie without fomeapparant/«/ Doenot; rather ramme vpthofe portells which betray you to your enemy, and preuent his entry by your vigilancy. Keepc home and ftray nor, left by gadding abroad.you incurre Dimhs fate. You haue Confortsofyourownefexe topafife time wirhallijheir fociety wi! teach you to forget, what is betterforgot than kept. Let notaftraid thought be- tray your innocency. Check/ your madding Fancy ^ andif it vfe refinance, curbc it with reftrainr. It will doe excellently well, if you forbeare torefort to pla- ces of publike meeting ; till you haue drawne vp and feal'd a Coaenant with your eyes, to fee naught that they may not lawfully couet.The(c,when they wan- der 3 GSNTLSWOMJN. '5? der, they breed in the hearr, a dangerous diftemper. Laftly,addretfeyourimpIoymentcuerlofomething that is good ; fo (hall your ftmtacj finde nought to workc vpontbat is ill. This (hall aflrord you more li- berty, than the whole worlds freedomc can afford you. Now to you, Cej ff«.?/,whom either toldne^e of na- ture hath benummed, otecyntjff bath made lubtiU to diffembic it. You can leoke and like, and turnc ano- ther way, where you likemoft. No obied: of loue can rake you, till it ouertake you. Be not wife too much. True affedion cannot endure fuch dilTimulati- on. Diuide not him, whom you loue, into uich ex. tremes: youmaybcmodeft, andfpareagreat dea'e of this Cejfiefe ; It is the rule of Charity to doc as you would be done to . Now, would it content yon to be entertained with difdaine, where your deferrs merit acceptance f Redifie this then in your felues, which you would not haue dont by another to your felues. It is an ill requitall^to recompence fancy with contempr,or conftantlouc with difdaine. This were to incurre ingratitude, a vice fo odious, as no age could finde euer ought more vnciuilly impious. I do not mouc you to be too open-hearted, or if fo^not too liberally to exprcffe it j this were no difcouery of fancj, but fo^jr. So concealc your loue, as your louer may not defpaireofall hope to obtaine your loue.In- diflFercnt Curifies you may fhew without light nefle, and receiue them too in lieu of thankfulnefle. I kaue it to your difcretion to diftingui{h times and places ; for thefe may either improue or impaire the oppor- tunity of fuch like Curtfies. Doe not immure your bcauticSjas if a iealoufie of yoarowne weakneffe had ncceditatcd this reftraint. There can be no Ce«<7«o«i image recei- ued no: life in all parts at once •, firll,it took warmth, after that, vitall motion. Is loue colle in you ? lee a kindly warmth heat that coldnefle. Is Loue dull in you ? let a liuely agility quicken that dulneffe. Is loue c«7iayou ? Let a iouelyt affability fupple that coy- neffe : So, in fliort time, you may haueafull rellifli of loues fweetneffe. Now wee come to the atumptramem oCthcCc ; wherein we are to extrad out of grofler ntettals fome pure Oare, which wee muft refine, before it can giuc any true beauty to this fpccious palace of loue. Draw ncare then, and attend to what of neceffity you muft obferue ; if eueryoumcanetodeferue Her loue, whom you are in Ciuility bound to ferue. In Sici/ia there is a fountaine called F0»sSolu, out of which at Mid-day, when the Sun is neareft, flow- eth cold water ; at Midnight, when the Sunne i$ far- theft off, flowcth hot water. This (hould be the liue- ly Embleme of your ftate (Gentlewomen :) who,now after thofe cooler vapours of your frozen affedion dilperred,thofelumpil"hand indifpofed humors di- fpellcd,and thofe queafierifings of your fceming coj- neff, difpofTeftcd ; haue felt that chafte amorous fire burne in you, which will make you of fhamefaftc Maid8,modeft Matrons. When the heat ofpaftion is at Mid-day, I mesne his full height, with thofe, to whom faith hath cngag'd you, and loue, before the hoftage of that faith, confirm'd you j then are you to fefemble the quality of that fountaine, by flowing I with cel4 water of difcKtion and fwect temper, to I allay that heat ; left it weaken thofe you loue, by gi« ' uing GENTLEWOMAn. 155 uing way to paflion,which patience cannot chufc but 1 loath. Againe, when heat is fartheft off", and proui- dence begins to labeur of a lethargy ; when feruants remit their care,ncgle(fl their charge, and the whole family grow out of order, through the coldncflTe of a remiffe Mailer j referable then that foanraine, by flowing with b^t wafer ; win and weane thefe whom loue and loyalty haue made yours, with warme con- iugall teares,to compaflicaate their ncgkded eflate, and by timely preuention to auert the face of impro- uidcnt husbands. Or thus, if you pleafe, may you mtke your felues gracious Emblemes of thatfountaine : Doth the Sun fbine at Mid-day ,and in bis fulleft height on y ou?Do the beams of piofperityreflcd brightly on y ouPFlow with eeldwater ; allay this your heat and height of pfofpecity, with (ome cooling thoughts of aJduerfi- ty, left prosperity makeycu forget both the Author ofif, andinthe endhowtobeftow it. Againe, doth the Sunne fhine farcheft off you ? Doth not one fmall beameling of profperous fuccefTe cheere you ? Flow ^{ih hot water 'j vanquifti aduerfity with refolution of temper. Defift not from labour, becaufe fortune feconds not your endeuour.To conclude,as your wild fancy (if you were euer furpriz'd of any) is now re- ftifi*d ; your ro«/(p«^/tf heatned ; your c4/- 1 ternes, which our Ancefers had,nor the vcrtuous ex- amples of our Ancefiors themfelues, can perfwade vs i to be their followers ? Tfjeir blood ftreames through | ourveynes; why fhould not their vertucs ftine in j our Hues ? Their mortah'ty we carry about with vs; ' but that which made them immortally happy, wee retaine not in vs. Their (7^«ri//7weeclayme ; the priuilegestheyhadby ir, we retaine. Meane time, where is that in vs, that may truly Genfi/ize vs, and defigne vs theirs ? What a poore thing is it to boaft of, that our blood is nobler, our defcent higher.' Teil [ me, can any one prefcribe before iAdam ? And what ftiall he finde in that fir 11 Anceflor of his, but red clay ? The matter whereof he was made, it was no better ; nor can we luppofe our morter to bee pu- rer. Hec moftemphaticallydefcribedour Genealo- gy, who cryed,£<«r^^,£<^>-/^,£<«>-f'&. Sartkby Crea- tion, Condition, DilToIution. No lelTe fully vnder- ftocd he the quality of his Compofition, with the root GSNTLeW0M.A9(l \ 159 roo^ irom whence he tooke his beginning, who cal- led EArth his LM3(her • w^ermes his Brethren Sind si- fteru tAh Kinsfolkcs hce could nor much boaft of/ tbey were liich inFeriour Creatures j no ftrutters in the ftreec, but defpicable Creepers. Let me now rcfted vpon you, Gefft/ewomeH,vjho[c generous birth fliould bcc adorhsd with vermoiu worth, and fo make you mouing Obieds of imita*. tio, nboth in life and death. Are you nobly defcended ? Ennoble that defcent with true defert. Doc not thinke than the priuilege ofgreatneffe, can bee any fubterfugeto guilcinefle. Your more aibending honour requires more than a Common lulkcln places of publike refort you chal- lenge precedency, and it is granted you. Shall the •higheft place haue the leaft inward grace ? No ; let not a word fall from you, that may vnbefeeme you. Others are (ilent when you difcourfe; lietit be worth their attention ; left a prcfiimption of your ovvne worth draw you into fome friuolous cxcurfion. There is not an accent whichyou vtter,afentcnce you deliucr> any motion in your carriage or gefture, whichotherseyenot, and eying aflumenot. Your Retinue is great; your family gracious,- your ani- ons fhould be the life of the one, and line of diree ye^re coaie not abroad? rhole ha/tan and SpAKtj/jiXxmeSj char are mewed vp iike Ha\vks,and lockc vp by their icalous husbands ? f his is (uch a.) enforced reftraintjasit many cimes begees ioofcde- fires in the reftraincd. i'c is the prcucariono^ occaii- oa chat crownes vs More prayfe- worthy were chofe women of^''«'jCOuldchcy confine their actions with-' in the bounds oFmodcfty, than theie rtflrained Li- bertines. For thofe Hand Women, as they arc the beauiifoirf}: Dames of all the Greekes^ Co haue they more liberty granted by their auariclous husbands, than all the Dames in Greece. For their wiucs pro- ftitotionis their promotion. So as, when they fee any ftranger or promifing factor arriue, they will prelently demand if he would baue a Miftris: which, for want of better fupply, they mercenarily ten- der him in the perfon of their owne wiues : fo wil- ling are they to weare the lafting Badge of inhmy, tor bafc lucre or commodity. It is not then an enforced moderation of our affecli. ons,that deferaes the iHlc of goodnelTe. Wee are to tnioy freedorae in our defireSjand ouer thofe a noble Conqucft, if we merit the name of vcrtucm. Come then, Gentlevpcme-a, you fee what Com will honour your Hopfe moft. Other C<>^// may be blan- ched by corruption of blood ; or blcmifhed by fome other occurrent: bur this is fo pure as it will admit of no flaine.Fantafticall &■ falfe prophecies may be omi- noufly aduanced,publi{l-ied,& difperfed,vpon Arms, Field.?, Btafls, or Badges, againfl which our Lawcs baue ord lined neceffary prouifios.But no Augur ^Sccr^ :ixSoothfaycrc^n by any fuch groundles Diu!nari6,dc- tradfrom the coflant beauty orfplcndorofhis CoAt. Soueraignizing SnUdine^ after he had made him- rdfcaterrour to many potent Princes, by making 'cmhisSiibieds, whoneuer till^then knew what fub- 1(55 Gentility, THS snglish Gsntility. fubieflioii meant ; after he had atchieued fo many profperous victories, taken in fo many flourifliing prouinces, and attained the higheft degree of an im- periall greattieflc ; being furprized by lo mortall.and fatall a malady, as he delpaired of recouery : called his Chiefetaine or Generall before himjand bad him hafteaway to the great City Damufcm, and there in the midft of that populous City, to fixe his ihroiid- ing-fheete vpon a Sphcare, and difplay it like a ban- ner, with thefc words; Thifisfill that Sonidan SMa' dmehaihlefttfAlihuEnfignef, How happy had that Emperourbeenc, if after (b many memorable ex- ploits done by him liuing, fo many imperiall tro- phies of his difperfed vidories erecfled by him brea- thing, he bad refer ued this Cwf tohaue mcmoriz'd him dying ? DorcM C^Ats were brought forth and {liown,after \ (lie departed* Soliue, that your 6eft C^AtSy which | are youv vsrtties^ may giue reftimony of you, when j Earth fhali receiue you.Let nor yoMtGemhty become blafted with infamy ; nor your Noble families la- bour of that fcarcity, as not to giue verme all hof- pitality, Diuinely fung our Moderne Poet ; To he *f gen'rous hlood and Parents hrfte^ Artdhaue no gen'rous vcrtues, is afcorne* Let it be your higheft fcorne, to ftoupe to any bafe thought. It is not priority nor precedency of place, but propriety and proficiency in grace tha: makes an honourable Soulc. That Cloath is of moft worth thatwearesbefl; and that fafhion of moft eftecme that holds longeft in requcft, fertae is right ScMpi- terMfimhrweirc; and of that complete fafhion, as with Cfiriflian women it growes ncuer o:it of date. Make ciioice of this Ihiffe then to ftiite you, of this Coat to gentilize you. All others are but counterfeits in GSNTieWOMA^. I I«7 incompariionofhcr; whofe property it is to ho-! nour thofe that fcruc her i harbour thofe that flyc for j refuge to her; and to reward thole, who conftantly I ftand in defence of her honour. There is nothing can i wound youjbeing thus armed ; nothing ill-befeeme youjbcing thus adorned i nothing difparage you,be- ing thus honoured. Heraldry findes a Coat for your houfe, but ffrtt/e findes honour to grace your perfon , Retaine thofe diuine impreflionsof goodneffe in you, that may truly ennoble you: difplay yoav lentility by fuch a Coat, as may beft diftinguifli your family j fofhallyouliucand dye with honour, and furuiuc their fame, whofe onely glory it was to cnioy for- tunes fauour. n PAinters are curious in the choice of their colors, left their Arc become blemiflied, through thofe decaied coIours,whercwith their Pidurcs arc por- trayed. Some are of opinion, that the receit of Pain- ting or Colouring the fubftanceofglafle through, is vtterly loft ; neither that thefe late fuccecding times can regaine,as yet, that myfteriouspcrfe(5lion. Farrc more is it to be doubtc^, left v not yf hat it woi, Tofet their faeCi vr C9urt a Leoking-glaffe, It was their higheft taske to corred thofe err ours that were in them ; by which meanes they became (b inwardly louely, as none truely knew them, that could doeleffc thaa entirely loue them. Surely ,tbere is no ftate that fuites fo fitiy with GfntiUtj, as the loWjbut loyall attendance of humility. This is (hcc, who (as flie is rightly defined) is the Pnttceffit ofver~ tueSj the eo»tjMf-e(fe of vices, the mirror of virginity , thcchoifcft W^wror repofe for the blejfed trinity. Shecoafiders.'howhe, by whom our corrupt blood was rellored, our vnualuable lofles repaired, and our primitiue nakcdncffe compafftonatelycouercd, was not with a Diadem crowned, nor in a ftately bed couched ; yea, (carcely rather with one poore coat couercd : which he wore not as an ornament to his body, to beftow on it trimneffe, but for ncccfiity to couer his nakedneffe. What a pouerty is it then for you, whofe ancient defecnt promifeth fomcthing ex- traor- GSNTieWOMA^: I 175 traordinary in you» to haut riO;:hing toboaft of, faue onelya^ilded outfidc? It was Neceflity that in- uented Cloathes for you ; now wf re it fit to pride you in tbar, which deprm'd yon ofy our prime beau- ty ? You rhall obferue in many ot our graue Matrons, with what iRdifFcrency they attire thcmfelues.Their inward ornaments are their cbiefeft care,- their re- newing and repairing of them, their higheft cure. They haue found fuch choice flowers, as they afford more fpirituail delight to the foulcj than any vjfib!e flowers or odours doe to the fmell. And what are thefe, but diuine and morall precepts, (bueraignc in- ftrudtions; which haue taught them how to con- temne earth, conquer death, and afpire vnto e?:erni- ty ? 1 hefe by a continued cuftome or frequent con- uerfe with heauenly things, cannot now conceiue any obieft to be worthy their beholding on earth., Fafliions may be worne about them, but little obfer- uedbythem. TheWEDDING GARMENT is their defired raiment. This they make ready for thcNuptiallday ; the meditation whereof fo tranf- portsthem, as nothing below hcauen can pofleflTe them. It is not beauty Which they prize ; for they daily and duely confider the Prophets words, ^4U fa- ces ^all gather i/ac^ne^e. AgainCjthey remember the threats which God dcnounceth vpon beautiful], but Cin^ll Nimuehy ImU Mfccuer thj skfrts vpen thj face. This makes them ferioufly to confider the dange- rous quality of fianc, and to apply Niniuehs falue to their (bare ; that rvineof tAngels^ the UAres ef refen- tame» Which, howfoeuer it is, as one wittily ob- ferues, Euery mans medicine; an vniuerfall Anti- dote, that makes many a Mitbridatet venture on poi- fon : yet works it not this bancfull iffed with thefe; for their affedions are fo fweetly tempered, cheir hearts fo truly tcndred^w they make notRepentancc fecuri- Gentility. lotlz, NahunH'jt genti/itjf. Tue BNGLlSn Bern. feciiriry to delinquents: They well remember that Aphorifme oi fpiriruall Phylicke : As he that finnes inhopeof remidioti, feeds difteraperature tofccke aPhyfician; fo hee that repents with apurpofeof finning, fhall finde an eternall place to repent in. Tbefe, who thus belull themfelucs in the downe- beds of fccurity, labour ofan irreparable Lethargy. They make bold to fmns, as if they were furc to^^- pent. But the medicine was made for the wound,noc the wound for the medicine. Wc muft not luftcr our felues voluntarily to be wounded,, in hope wee haue to be cured : butpreuencthemeanes, xhat weemay attaine a more glorious end. Preuent the meancsor occafion offinnc ; which ifat any time wc commit, toinfuffe the balme of re- pentance into it ; which leafonably applyed,may mi- nifter a foueraigne falue to our foare, fb wee intend our care to fo confeqiicnt a cure. Come then, Gentlewomen^ beginnc nowatlaftto feflcdlonyour owne worth. Vnderflandjthat^tfir- f;/*// is not knowne by what you veare^ but what you «i^ tiuefeechof goodiicfiei lowne inije- nvcHibuodi bvlincallfuc- cc-dior. 178 THE ENGLISH Gefitility. the Philofopher) ineuery good man ; and thefc will fin.de titfie toexprefle themfelues. Ic was Dautd' tefUmony of himfelfe : From mj yemhvphaue I ionedt^y Law, An ( xcdient preroga- ritiegiuen bim,3ndwith no It fie diligence improutd b) htrn. Now thefe N at me feeds ^ as they arc diffc- renr, (o -are the fruits which come of them, vari- odfly dilpofed. Some haue a relhlL of true and^^w^- roHf bounty ; wherein they (hew chat noble freedome CO their owne, in their liberality cowards others :as cheir very adlions declare vnto the wortdjllf^ir com- mand and foueraignty oner the things of this world. Others difcouer their noble difpofition,by theirno- table pi:tj and comp^jfion ; Thefe will eftrai^e them- felues from no mans mifery. If they cannot (uccour him, chey wilHufferwith him. Their bofbmcs are euer open with pittifull Zcttocratest to rcceiue a di- ftreifedone. Oueravanquifh'd foe they (corne to infult J or vpona deicded one to triumph. They haue teares to partake with the affliir; to whom no occafion is fooner offe- red, than fome dainty exprelTion mull fecond it. O- thers with more fblidity or <«4cr;»tf«r,though of lefTe prefeat conceit. And thefeare fuch^ as generally im- ploy themfelaes in State-affaires ; wherein Experi- ence, purchafcd by an vfefuU expence eftime, doth fo ripen them, as the Pubuke State takes notice of them-, and rccompenceth their care wf th honours conferred on them. Thefeand many other excellent endowments fhill weobfemetobec /f^^^JiSf/deriued fromAnceftors to their fucccffors; which, as they retaineancare re- femblance of their perfons, fo they reprefent their AiSions : fo powcrHiU is nature in beftowing her di- ftind Oificei on euery creature, wherein they gene- rally partake of cheir dtfftjltion as wel as outward/f^- tftrei whence the Poet, Stout men And good are f^rptngfrom flout anhgoed, Horfes and ^eeres retaine tbetr parents vljod^ Yet fee the iniquity of time 1 It fareth ofc-timss with thofe who are endowed with ihefe vertues, to be moft traduced, where their more noble and emi- nent parts are to be highlieft honoured. Which, as it wasamaineerror in former ages, (b descends it to theft prefcnt times. When Reme was in her glory, this eclipfed her light, by detrading from their de- merits mofl:, whole free-bred vtrrues deferucd of their Goiintreybcfl. Sundry Families (hee had, fa- mous for their vertues, which by a deprau^d and mil- interpreting Cenfure,becamc branded with vn- deferued afperlipus. If the T'tf^s were frugall, they I . A a 2 were \ (jentiliiy. TB$ B!K^HSB ^tm^iiijji', I xK€S• |i^p!ap!^l^j>ybc*i5gccnii.t:ceQai?^. i^twiib good an<$ I' md vvcU-diipofcd (?«iifons, z'.^'^'P««' is ncucr out of fa- uour, though LEbscneucrfoaiuch impeached fay a cradacinj* ccnfure. . Thiij; you haae heard, Gentlewemefiy whit vertuei. haue hncaliy and by (flood defcendcd from Parents to their Children ; what erpcciall inward graces vfual- ly attend feme cfpcciall families> which no leffe me- morize them, thanthofe natiue honours which are conferred on them. Now, tofeledlfuch aslortbeft with your fexe and condition ; in my opinion there is none that ennobles you higher, or makes you more gracious in the eye of thcbeholder than C^^e- ^^/j', which was the greateft aduancerof many Ro- maft families. This is that vcrtue^ which exprtfleth you to be women } this is thar,which makes you ho- noured amongft women* Cbaines and Garkenets, fewels and Habiliments may bee valued ; but this Ornament is of that high eft imatc, as it is not to be prized. Now, there is nothing that will caufe this toappearcmorepretiousvntoyou, next to thctc- ftiniony of a good Confciencew'thin you, with an ardent defire of promoting his g/ory who made you, chana reficxi'on to your Family which bred you; who{e honour to prefcrue, as it '\s your cfpeciall du- ty, fbnoobie(5l of profit or plcafiire, no attrafliue Lure of dcceiaing honour fibould remoue this opini- on from you: ''To bee high borne and bafcly min- '• ded, is to ingraffe baftard flippcsin a noble ftocke. High and heroickc venues become great houfcs . for, as they were fir R made great by facing f(?tff, fo fliould they by furceafing from being/w^,"lofe their title Ge MtLBVFOM J5^. fSi youd^crastft feii j-oui- Ancdkn'S fame, }rou lye a ' blemiOi^on bis iikcine.; wbkli,,tliQag<3 it.t(aich^ him, yet itcaiiiEicsj^^i£ w^Qce^i^bic: Iiiosx.. This, Qodioabt, wascbacMo&Ie^ Ea fo as, their Children were more bound to them for their heeJmjr than hariv^j tiurturiKg than nurfmg, Bclides, there is an inbred fi- lial! feare in Children to their Parents, which will beget in them more attention in hearing, and reten- tion in holding whatthey hcare. Now, there is no in/Ir(i^io» more mouing, than the example of your liuing. By that Line of yours, are they to conforme their owiie. Take heed then, left by the dampe of your life, you darken both their glory and your owne. I might propofe vnto you bookes oiiMfiruni- on^ which might miniller arguments plenteoullyin :this kinde : but fo (horc is the memory in retaining whatitieads, yea fo diftraded is the minde in ob- feruing what it reads,that, as it fares with oavmtun raS/aceinig^aJff, from which the glaffe is no foo- ner remoued,than the refemblance of it is abolished; casn fo, the booke is no fooner left out of the hand, than theContents are leapt out of the heart. Yet, to the end you may not be vnproaided offuch Tnds as may enable you ior iw/lfiK^Mw ; and prepare you to encounter with tentation ; 1 will recount fuch vnto you, as may beft accommodate you for the one, and fortifie you againft the other. Lcar- Gentility. Euang, iS4 I THS ENGLISH qentilitj, A brkfe enu- meration/c- riousdicufli- on, and judi- cious clefti- on of fundry ancienc fa- thers, with o- th€r morall Au:bois. ' Learned Vina in his infiruEiim of a Chrifiian voman^ recommends vntoihem thefeglcricus Lights of rhc Church, S. Hteretff, Cjprinn^ Augufiinty Ambrofey Bi- /arj, Gregory ; annexing vnto them thofe morall Philofophers : "Tlato^ Cicero, Seneca^^c* Of which, feuerally to deHuer my opinion, it is this : Than S Hierom none more grauely copious, as may appeare by thofe pithy and cfFcduall EpilHes of his^diredcd to thofe Noble Lidks,Marcc//a^Dewc~ trid. Lata, Furia^ Sec. wherein he vferh fingular ex- hortations, inuincible arguments, perfwafiue rea- fons, fvveet fimilitudes, and forciue examples. Mo- deftyisthefubiedhee commends vnto them ; de- cency inapparell he approues in them ; to a mode- rate reftraint of liberty he enioynes them j to an ex- emplary holinefle hee exhorts them j and with fwect and com fort able promifes of an incorruptible reward he leaues them* Than S. Cyprian, none more dcuoutly fcruerous ; inhisreproofeshefihewesmilduefle ; in his treaties a pafllonate fweetnefle ; he winnes the (inner by in- ducing; rcafons ; hee ftrcngthens the foule mightily againft temptations ; he propofeth an excellent way of moderating the affcftions j he apply es ibueraignc rcceits to foueraignizing padions j and concludes with that fober and difcreer temper, as with a Di- uineinfinuationhe wooes, winnes, and weanesthc finncr, and in. a fpintualltyevniteshim to his Re- deemer. Than S. j4f4guflini jnont more profoundly iudfci- ous, more iudicioufly zealous-, pithy are his dirc(5li- ons, powerful! his; inf^rudionSj in his C^lei^iratioKS heismouingj inhia So/s/ajuia inwardly piercing; in his Ulfam/iS comfortably dozing Amongft all thofe Conflicfls in oue Chriftian waifare, hee holds none (harper than our Combat with Chaftity. Hee applies! CeNTLSWOMJN. 85 applies mcancs how wee may relirr, refifting van- qui(h ; and by our Chriftian vi<5lory, rtcciue Crownes ofeternall glory. That Conqueft he holds, deferuesfinall honour, which is atchku'd without Encounter. Ina Diuine rapfodie dravvne.as it were, from himlelfe, heelliewes whatfhouldbedontby vs. Earth is no obiedt ft: to entertains our eye j nor her deluding melody oareare : He exhorts vs there- fore to Icaue Earth now while wee line, that lea uing Earth for altogether, wee may enioy our i>eft ThanS. iAhhsff ^none more Diuinely plenteous ; fweetly ferious are his inftru(5tions j enforcing are' hisrealonsj he fpeakes home to the {inner : whom he no fooner findes wounded for Hnne, than hee ap- plies a Spiritual! Salue to cure his finne. Manygraue Untencesare in his Offices methodically couched; fingulardiredlions to guide euery Cbriflian in his Spirituall Path- way, are there deliuered. Like an ex- pert Phyficiau, he firit gathers the natur;; or quality ofyourdiltemper, and thenminiftersfoale-jaluiiig receipts to reftore you to your right tempt r. Hce fhewesyou how in your very motioHj gcOure, and paceyouaretoobferue modtlly : concluding that nothing can afford true comfort to a foiornifig foulci but prad^ife of piety. Than S. HUary^nonc more fully fentcmious ; hee difcouerstleoccafionof ourcorruption familiarly; aduifethvs with many paflionate and tcafe-fwolliie j lints ro prouide for our inward family ; he propo- j feth vs a reward, if we contemne Earth ; be thfea- I tens vs with the Law if wee contemne life. Sundry ) mouins and cffeftuail Lcflbin he recommends to the I perufall of women of all ranVes, ages^ and condiii- i ons. Tenderly hee compafrionatcs the cafe of a fn- ncr;.naflionately treats he of thofe torments which Bb fhall Gentilitj, fe THE ENGLISH Cfntility, Qiall laft for eucr ; with prayers and tcares hce folli- cles them that haue gone aftray,to returnejthofe that are already return'd, to goe no more aftray . He con- cludes witb an vfefiill Exhortation to forrow for finne, promifingthcm, forth of that Store-houfe of Comforts, contained in the Gofpell, for this their momcntaine forrow, an inccffant ioy in Sion, Than S, Gregory ^ none more highly myftcrious, nor contemplatiuely glorious; Diuineiy moraJl are hisMoyah ; full of heauenly comforts are his inftru- dions ; hee walkes in an higher way than others crace, yet with that humility, as there is not a cloze from him, but it difclofeth in him a louc of meekc- neffc, lowlincffc, and piety. With proper and ele- gant fimilitudesarc his works adorned; with choice fentenccs,as with fo many feled flowers,ncatIy gar- nifhedi in a word, hee is fweetly lubftantiall, and fubftantially fweet. He reprehends the times grauc- ly ; commends the pradicc of vertuc gracefully. With an holy zeale he reprouesthcremifncfle of the Miniilry. Diredions he giues vnto women, to haue ancfpeciallcareof modefty : concluding, that the loLieof this life fhould not (b pofTeffcvs, as to de- priucvsof that inheritance which might eternally blelTe vs. In good mindes he holds pouerty the por- trefleof humility: accounting thofe Euils or Ad- ucrfities, which doe here prcfTc vs, to be the Cords whichdraw vsvntoGod who made vs. Touching tbofe three Philofbphers, this is my conceit of them ; wherein none canothervvife chufe than concuvre with me, that fliallferioufly read, and fincerely fcanne them : Than T^Ufo, none more Di- uineiy Philolophicall ; Than^icero, morephilofo- ' phically Rhetoricall ; Than Seneca^ more Sagely I Morall. But for as much as it is notgiuen tomoft of you to I be GENTLEWOMAN. 187 be Linguifts, albeit many of their workes be tranfla- ted in your mother-tongue, youmiyconuerfe with (iindry Englifli Authors, whofe excellent irttrudi- ons will fufficiently ftoj-e you in all points;and if v fe- folly applied, conferrc no firall benefit to your vn« derftanding. I fliali not need particularly to name them to youjbccaufe I doubt not,but you haue made choyceof fuchfaithfull Retainers andvertuousBo- fome-friendsjconftantiy to accompany you. Neither, indeed, are ^osk*s onely necdTary j conference will fingularty impreue your knowledge ; but that is not altogether lo conuenient nor decent for your fcxe in publike places. So as, I much condemne their opini- on, who hold no meanes fo fitting to bring their jtlaughtcrs to audacity, as a frequent confort with Company. This, in time, begets in them rather iw- ■udefice than botdrteffe. It was held a touch to a Maid to bee fcene talking vv Ith any one in a publike place. But in priuatc Nur- ferics, which may be properly termed your houfho/d Academts j\z will fuit well with your honors to treat and enter into Conferenceont withanothcr;or in fuch olaces, where yourownefexc is onely conuerfanr, jor fuch indifcreet Mothers, who vfually trim and U' ck their daughters,to fend them forth to Showes, I ^iettings,orEnterludes, they annoynt bauin with ' oyle, that it may burne the better. But much more ; biame- worthy bee thofe, who take them along to Tauerncs and goffippings ; which Educarona little time will bring into cuftome, and make modefty a ftrangcr to her fdfe* For abouc all things (faith the Philofopher)ought young Girles to be kept from E- briety : which heconfirmes with this rtafon : "^ It 1 " is gooJjfaith hee, for young men and maids to bee I *^* kept from wine, left fuch become afterwards pro- "fcll drunkards,profii(c riorers,and prodfgali expo- B b 2 ftrs I gentility. i28 THe ENGLISH '' lets of chcir honour : the maine occafion whereof, "are their parertis, by raeanes of their ill*w/r«£?w», '' and vvorfe example. Ic is the v{:v)' firJlinflrHclion that takes ihtdeefeflim' prrjpoyii hovv neceHiry then IS it fof you, Centtexfo. mtn^ vvhofe ftxe is the Embieme of wcakeneflc,and whole beft rcfolucs arc ofc-tinfies weakned by y outh- fuli proaiifes, to furnini yo.ir bIoomin \\mz goxi porcioasofrepj:acioi SjfF;r no: rhsn thofe who pircaksefyour image, to lofc their betl beauty. Sigh then ifthsy bee fo/lcd, for their fliamc milt bsco.i» youafperfcd. Grace isa parebalme,a id confeqacntly requires a pure and foaadvcflfell. Invaineis i: infu.ed, if the veflTjIl be no: whole aid fojiid to preferae it. Laoke then to yOLir own aflions; thele mart informe them; Loaketoyoarowaeexitnples, thcfemaftcoTfirni^ tliem. Without you they canno: perifh ; with yo.i they may. What will yoa doe with the relt that U (eft, when yoa fee a part ofy ojr felfe lolj ? The H-tr^ie hath the face of a man, but a B ird fo CJ'u- ell by nature, as when Hie is an hungry, flic wil a (Taut c any rtiinand kill him. After which bloudy repaft^fhs becomes thirfty, foas,.2;oing to the Riuer to qiiench it,flie fees her owne hzt^^nA recalling to mind how it refcmbles him whom flie flew, flie coiiceiues fiich grieff , as flie dyes therewith. If your Education or tyijirn^i9fi depraue thofe who deriuc their beginning from you, the refemblance of this ftory may haue proper reLation vnto you.But if your pious examples rnabicthem, their proficiency in vertuefliillcnno- 3ie you ; your comforts fliall be multiply ed in them; your hopes feconded by them ; and to your euer-li- uing famesjthe memory of your venues prefcrued by them. Let not that adage proue true,- in relpeft ofyour Charge: ''^ The fn9fi precious thin^t ba-te euer thanofi '^ perniciotu Keepers, Nothing more precious than a Virgins honour ; it werefliame for the mother to proue a T'<«>"/>«4M or treacherous keeper. ThatCour ceit was elegintly cxprcfTcd by the Emperour Ch^.rli cbc fifth, inhisinftmdions to the King hisfonne; rh^t 1^9"^^ Gentihtj^ GentiHty. \ 1 ths eUGLisn *' ThM Fortune had fomervhat of the nature ofn vroman ; " that ifpteyeteormtehweod^ Pfeia the farther of , But I hope I ftiall not finde that aiicrfenefle in you. I hauc wooed you in words jexprefle your felucs Yvonne by theteftimony of yourworkcs. I would not follow theindifcrction of Empericks, which miniftcr fame medicines to all Patients; I know well, thatfuch Phy ficke as agrees with age , would not agree with the hot conftltation of youth : To either fort there- fore haue lapplycd my feuerall receits: and tobotb, doe I addreffe my conclufion. ** Let the whole progreflTe of your Conuerfation '* be a continued Line of iuffru^ioK ; Let the mother '^difchargcher orRct in cemmarulttj^, and that with- *' out too much rigour or indulgence; Let the daugh- " ter performe her duty in eheyingi with all faithful! *^ and filiall obfcruance : So (hall honour grace you *• here, and gierj crowne you there with an hcaucniy " inheritance. CCf THE ENGLISH Gende woman. Argument. Honour » painted, vhen it it ntt with verttte pow- dred; No clo^h takes fucb deepe tin(5lure,^ the eloath of honour; HottoHral>/eptrfoMa^ejJhoft/difeprcCidems of ^oodfiejff • Vertue or vice, Vfhetherfoeuer takes hold^r^^ retaines a deeper imprejjion in honouri^^<<» any lower fnk- ie^iThat^vcvtue maj receiue the fir fi imprejfion by means of an in- BrednoUe dilfo/ition, ftconded hj helpes »/ Edu- cation J Which reduc'dto habit, a/pires to perfe^ion. HONCVR. icke Spirits HONOVR, Romotion difcouers what men be, but true Honour {hcwes what theyfliouldbe. That is fed with a defire of being ^nat ; this is in- flam'd with a noble emulation of being good. It is a miferable thing to obfcrue what braue and hero- whofc rcfolutions neither danger could OhJerMt, 8, 92 I rue ENGLISH HO'NOVR- /fi, when it is « notwth ver- tae poHe(red. could amate, nor any difaftcr pcrplexe, haue bccnt madded with an ambi[ious queik after HoKouri what d jficulticstheyincountred; what oppoficions they fuffcred ; whar intricate paflages and prouinces they entertained ! Corriuals thsy could not want in their rifingi nor Enuyers o( tnt\rgr{ at ne(fe in their fetling; nor Spedatorsio reioyce at their fttting. Rough and menacing was the Sea,- on which they fayled ; dangerous and iKcluy the wayey,by which they p>af- fcd; yea, fufl of difquiets was the Pcrr^ at which thcyarriued. Nay ,which is worfe ; in what finiller and indifcieet paths would they walkc ; vpon what ftrange plots and proiedments u^ould rhey v/orke 5 how difcontentedly and difconfolatcly, whhThemi- ftocUs^ would they walke,ti|l they attained their end: which, many times, broughfthcm toanvntimely end ? So quickly h poore man deluded with this Cin%<\y ^i^uxt 0^ ircAtneffe ^ as hee will notflicketo engage for it hisTiopes of quietntfle. But thefc bee not ihofe Emine:it Veyfcnxges^ of whom lam now to treat : for fuch mens homur is meerely painted ^zzzmS.^ it is not with vcrtueponired, MorallPhilofophy, much more our Chriftian theo- ry 5 could ncuer hold that for defer uing greatmffe^ which had not neare relarfon to aosd^ffff. Thole o«- ly they cfUcmed worthy ^*«PAy, who did nor fecke it, much leflebuy it, but were fought by it. Such as knew not what it was to admire the purpU, nor fawncona nCm^ fttuonte ; but interueined their a- clions with the precious Oarc of Diuincil vertucs. Nuchas had attained to a fingubr Command or fo- ucraignty of their afFcclions : ib as, they had lear- ned to lay as C^iU anfwered his brother,^^? l^Ketp hew tofufferiniuries ; Co doe not thefc fiery and furious fpiritJ. It is a poo<-e exprclHon of ^rcatncfe, to cxcr- cife it in reuenge; or in triumphing oucr inferiours ; or CBNTLeWOMJN. 9? or countenancing vniuft adions. Thefe detrad from / H o n o v r» hoaoHr ; neither can th«ir memory liue long, who makes authority aSanduary to wrong. Khovv then, (noble Ge»tlew9meff) that your Hoteur, beitneuer lo eminent ; yoaiDeJcetit^c it ncuer fo ancient ; lofc both their beauty and anticjuity, ii vertas haue not in you a peculiar foueraignty. Be yonr wanton fan- cy painted and trimmed in neuer fo demure or hypo- criticall difguife \ Be your ambition or Courtly a(pi- ring ncuer fofhrouded with gilded fliadowes of hu- mility ; Be y®ur vnbounded dcfire of rcuenge neuer fofinoothly coloured with thefecming remiflion of aoimprefliuciniury. In a word, fhould you neuer walke focouertly in a Clowd ;norncuer focunninfj- ly with a dainty kind ofdiflembling gull the world j all this will not auay le you. W hen your bodies /hall come to be flirouded, then flrall all youradlions be vncafcd. Rumour then will take more liberty tod if. couervntothe wor!d, what you did m it. Shew me thatdeepeftdiflembler, who retired himfelfemofl from the knowledge of man, and came nor to difco- uery, for all his fccrecy , to the eyes ofman. Many you haue knovvnc and heard o'f, that W( re great, but failing in being^c^^, were their pretences neuer fo fpecious,did not their memor>' ret ? hzdcl was more eminent in tiilesthan a-^^/^.^/Zj tut: It fle glorious in htr fame. Suchapoore piece oi vaiKted /?«^ IS that?»{^ulrerate honour^ which from vtrtue rc- ceiuesnother full Inftre. When the (iibtill Spider fliall weauc her curious web ouer your Monuments; when thofe beauteous llru^flurcs ofyouisjfhaU bee diffolwed; when all vour titular g'ory flull l;e2ob- fcured ; when thofe fading haw.vrf, on which you re- lycd, and with which you ftood furprizjd ; Oiall be cftranged •• and you from this good'y low Theatre of earth tranflated; it fliall be then demanded of you, C c ROt 194 THE ENGLISH H ONOVR. nocknovvhoweminenc you were m grr^t fief e^ but how feruent in adions of g^oednejje. While your skinnes then are wirh choyc^ft Odours perfumed, let your (bales be with pureft venues poudred. Now for verthet would you know how to define her, that you may more eagerly defire to become her retainer? Or would you hauc her defcribtd, that you may thence colled how well flie deferues to be oblerued ? Hears the Poet; Vertue ingreatefi danger U mojl Jhoxfine^ ^nA thept^ °fp^^fii ^ ncHiY OHerthrnwnet Such a noble reiolucd temper eucr accompanies venue , as no profperous fliccelTe can euer tranfoort her, nor any aduerfe occurrent deied her. She feeds not on the ayrie breath of vulgar applaufc : her fole ambition is toafpire to an inward grentnefe ;to be truly honourable in the title oCj^oodttejfe* Great atten- dance, punduallobleruance, [lately retinues are not the obieds flie eyes ' flaee loues to be knowne what (heis, by thatconftahtteftimony which is in her, rather than by any outward ornsment, much iefle formall Complemenr, that may apiflily luit her. Would you enter th:n(Gentiewomen)intoa more ferious furuey of your felues? Would you rightly vnderftand wherein your perfonsdeferue honour^ or how you may be eternally honoured by your Ma- ker? Tender your feruice to vrrtae; auoyd what is hurtfull ; admit what is helpfull. Sacrifice not a vaine houre ro the Altar of vanity. Employ your time in exercifcs of piety. Dedicate your dayes tothead- uancemcntof Gods glory. See not that poore foulc in want, which yournoble compaflion will not re- lieue. Hzue you friends? hold them deare vn:o you, i if deare in the eye ofverttue ; otherwiie, difcard them, for you (hal bee more ftained by them, than ftrengthened cenflbwoman. sp5 ftrengthencd in them. Haac youfoes f iivicims^thty | H o n ovr ♦ deftruc euer to be held fo; but if tht7 affc^bgoodnejf?^ prize them abouc the value of your higheCt fauning* friends: who, as they are meerc obfemers of the time, prcferrcyour/er/wwi with which you arein- riched, or hoHoars to which you are aduanced, or fomeothcrby-refpeftfecretly aymed, before thofe eJfentiaB parts which are in you, and truly ennoble you. : Areyouof efteemeinthe^Mr^? Become power- full Petitioners for the poore mans fake, Prefcrre his fuite, entertaine a companionate refpedl of his wrongs. Labour his reliefe j and doe this, not for the eyes of men, but of God ; who, as hec feeth fecretly , will reward you openly. Againe ; haue you liich as maligne your ^isw^^^- ? i Their afpeilions cannot touch you i Hee that made! you, hath made you ftrong enough to defpife thdin, and^wich a patient rmilejOrcarekife neglect to flight them. Th°fvvcetfmellof your vertnej ha.:h already difperfedchemfdues; your memory is without the reach of infamy : line then fccurc, while yoar vet. tnes {liineio pnre. Reraine a true znd vneuforc'd hu- mility in you; fofhall^»»'?«''appeare more graceful- ly in you. Imitate not thofe fuddtn-rifing^o/ir^/ of ffreatneffe^ vvho haue no fooner attained the titles of La^ies^ than this report makes them puc on a new port ; old acquaintance muft be forgot ; fjorne mulV lit on their browes; and a contemptuous difdaine on their lips. Though thtir mold bebutthefame,they wouldfaine change themfelues into anotlier mold. Thefe arc fjch as deferue not your knowledge 5 though they be by their titles honoured, their titles by their ignoble a5:ions bccoirie blemiHicd. Let them therefore lludy making of a face ; canipoHn^ of their gate ; preferuing oftheirvainepoaipeiwith Cc 2 an 195 rHfc" e:mglish Nocloaih takes fuch detpc tin- ^«r^,as the C\qnho£bo. ftour. Hon o/r. an vnbefeeming port : wbilc your Contemplation fliailfiKCit Tdfeonno otner.obiecfV, than, that true cxprtfiiue end oi h^Kour ; which is, ro rccainc a Chriftian humility in your ftate ; a noble CorrpaiTt- 0.1 in your eye ; an affiiblc fwcecneffe in yoar dif- caurfc ; an cxqaifite pradice o't goodneff'e m your whole life. To diGefteeme vtrtuc^ and hugge that painted Idoll ot titular koKmt\ is tocontcmncthc In^rHmtnty and fooliflily 10 prize the Cafe or Coner. Be ye neuerfo eminent, yc are but f»<«i»rr4 7V»»4^ i^ vtYtue be not refidcnt. Let her then not oncly be re- fidem hat prefident ouer all youraflions J fo fhail you not onely hue but dye with hmo»r ; by leaning chat facceeding memory of your vertft^s behind you^thac time may here eternize you, when time to eternity (hall change youFor as fait ro euery fubied:, whereto it is applicd,giues a iauour; fo giucs v^t^e the Cwecr teft reiliHi vnto Heftour,^ C Loath dyed in graine retaines cucr the deepeft colour; but none of deeper dye, than the^leath of Honour, If it be but with the leaft blemifli ««fif,it can neucr wipe off that r^sr;. Spots in white are foo- neftUirccrned,& errors in great perfona^es^whofea- '^ions flioiild be vhites for infcriours to fhoot at, are quicklieft difcouered^ True Coral] needs no colour ; no more needs true HoKour any exterior luftre.When Tarafius, thatexquifite Painter was to take a Coun- terfeit of HeJ/en^ hee drew her with her head^attire loofe ; and being demanded^ the reaion, anfvvered, Sh^ rv^s loefe. Be your adions. neuer fo darkcly (lirouded, nor your amorous encOLjirers cunningly carried ; there wtllbecuer fomc priuatc Pencill to portray them, fome quicke-fightcd eye to difplay them. Loues en- teruiew GeNTLSFVOMJTQ '5>7 mifedtoic felfeasmuch fecure freedome as fading fancy could tender;yet the laft Scene dozed all thofc Comickc paflfages with a Tragicke conclufion. No pleafurc can bceconftant, vnlefTe it afford in- wardcontent; nor can it miniller content, vnlefTe it be on t'^r/aff grounded. Honour then muflchufe for her (clfe fiich a Confort^ as ftiee may not bee aOiam ed tohattccbofen. A vigilant Circum^pedion (hoiild attend herj refembling in thisparticular.the warch- full Crrfwf.whofe wary eye euer feares,and by a time- ly fearepreuentslurprizall. Now, there is nothing that afperfeth a deeper ftaine vpon the Chath o^H9. «5«r,chan too much attention vnto Sy cophants.Thefe arc they, which transport Himnr aboue her felfe, by bringing her to a vainc and odious idolizing of her felfc. Thefe will nor fnfFer their Trencher-patronefle to refled on her fclfe,nor to enter into a priiiate trea- ;y with mortality. Thofe bee too fowre and feuerc tradlates for^r^4rwj(7>. Death is to bee thought on^ with thefe, when nothing elfc is to bee thought on. O what pernicious Confbrts be thefe for noble Per- fonages? Antifihenet fiid truly of them ; Trafiat injii^^^quam tiSifiha^i incidire : for Rauens fccde onely oadead Carkaflcs, but flatterers vponliuing men. O banifh thefe your Fortclls I Their glozing^will labour your Confufion. They will make you forget- full of your being, and confequently dcpriue you of your wdl-being.Euery foole (faith Menantitr) wiJl be taken with arrogance & applaufe;whereas the m- dicioafly wife account it their higheflhappineffcto tnedirate of the meancs how topreucm their high- Lq vnbappinefTe. It is a miferable^thing in a man, to jmakehimfclfea beatt, by forgetting himfelfetobc a man. Which vfuiUy comes to pafle, when wee HONO V*^' ip8 I Ttie SNGLISH H o NOV R . propofe before our bleercd and deluded eyes the glo- rioiisSpcflaclesoftbis Theatre of vanity, butncucr ! ferioufly medicate of our o wne fraiky , nor of the ex* cellency of that Supreme beauty, which makes the I enioyerabfolurcly happy. That Mot of the /Athenians to Pontpey the Great, I T^oH art jo mn6h a God^M then acknorvledgefl thj[elfet9 \ be 4 wm^ a glorious Prince, and a fiirions Tyrant. So flitting is the ap- , plaufe ot the vulgar, as it neucr conferres on the fub- ' ic(5l it approucs or applauds, any pci-manenc homur, Horace, Itismiferable (faith the Poet) to rely on anothers fame; but worfe, to begge fame from them that are infamous. It is prayfc-worthy to bee by feme dif^ pray fed j yea, vertuousadions, fliould they bee 6y vicious pcrfons commended, would rather lofc of their luftre, than become any way improued. To be chcerefull in aducrfity, humble in prosperity, and in both to (hew a temperate equality, is worthy praife, and deferucs Honour for a prize. Yet, fhoufd tbefc be but onely pretences to gull the world, or delude the \ firnple admirer, they would in time vnmaske them- felues, and difplay their counterfeit infides with (hame to the worid.Falfe and adulterate colours will not hold, nor vertuousfcmblances longretaine the efteemethcy haue.Wehaueeuerheld them formoft ridiculous, who follow the fafliion, and were ncuer yetinfafliion. And fuch arc all thofc Counterfeit followers of 'g'tfr/af, who pretend fairely, but fall off GSNTLSWOMA:>i. I 199 ofFfowly. Thefe may be properly, in my opinion, compared to our new counterfeit ftuflFes;which,a3 at firft chcy arc made beft/o do they wcarebeft at firft. Your Cloath, Genticvomen, muft be of another nap : it muft not be the bcft a farre off. Flowers, Edgings, Laces , and Borders doe bcautifie the outward attire, but adde no grace to the inward man. Now,t/iat C^eatb is the beft, which fhrinks the leaft. Doe any extremities'encounter you ? Let the inno- cency of your vntaintcd mindes cbecrcyoa ? Doth difgrace or infamy prcfle you ? You hauea Cloud of witttefes within you,that can bearctefti mony of you, and for you.lhat perfon needs not feare any foe, that hath within him fuch an incomparable friead.There wasneuer any yet fo happy, as to bee wholly freed . from aduerfity, and neuer feele any gufts of affltdi- on. Trials of patience arefweet encounters j by a minde rightly-rcfolucd, they are with more dehght than diftafte entertained. Which, as they come not vnexpeded, (b are they no letfe chcerefully receiued. It is the argument of ^ge»€ro$u fpirit, to cxpreflfc his highncfle mofl, when the world accounts of him Icaft. Honour, if truly grounded, can looke in the face of rerrour,ai3d neuer be amatcd. Her deuice dc- feru'd approueraent, who in the portrature ihe made for her feifc, dire<5led her eye to the piAure of ver- /«f, and pointing thereat with her finger, vied this Impre^z,4i Tbatpioiurt u mjpofiurt. Truth is, ftiee that malces ven^e her obie^ , cannot but make euery earthly thing her /«^/tf(^. Yea, there is nothing ftiee weares, which (he makes noi a tnorall vfe of to bet- ter her (elfe. Her very attire puts her in minde of what fhe was before ihc needed it ; and how breach of obedience necefli:a:ed her to weare it. Shee will not therefore pride her felfc in her fhamc, nor glori- fieheifdfe in tht ccner of fiane. Shte cannot eye her Ho N«VR, 200 Thie ENGLISH H0N0VR< h^r Cdit with any felft-Ioue, feeing fhc loft htr ftlfc by affc^ing that which (he ought not to lone. Her head-tyre puts her in mindc of the he/met o//a/uanc» ; her Jiemacher, oi rhe irefi-ftate ef righiecftfne^e ; her partlet, of the P?te7d of faith ; her very fhooej^ of the fAvddi offence. In this Tabernacle of earth, flicc is eucry day nearer her port of reft ; for her Aii^- courfe is euer feafbncd with difcretion, winged with deuotion, and graced by her ownc conuerfation. She is none ot thefc,whoare Saints in their tongues, but Deuils in their Hues : Shee propounds nought fit to be done, which fhee confirmes not with her owne adion. Agai»c, for her a(5lions, fliee is fre« from publike (candall, as her whole life is a golden rule of diredion, a continued precept of inftrudion. Tn a word5Uie confiders from whence (he camc,her defcent was noble, and this (he graceth with noble vcrtues. Her houfe mufl recciue no diHi oner fro her, but an ample teftimony of a dcferuing fucceflbar. Let this Idia, Gemltwomen^e your Pacterne. Pure is the Cleath yoavje^xe ; let no ftaine of yours bic- mifh it ; noMoatbof deferned detradlion eat into it. Many of your Sexe, though highly borne,haue fo blemiftied the hcmur of that houfelrom whctice they came, and corrupted that ndbie^leodfiota which they fprung, as their memory rots, yet their infa- my Hues. Againc, others there hauebeene, who though oblcurely borne, yet by thofe eminent vcr- tues which did adornc them, thofe Diuine parts which did truly ennoble them, they became enlight- ners of their obrcnrity,filIing Annals with their glo- rious memory. Imitate thef^e ; relinquifh thofe. Ho- nour is not worth receiuing, vnltfTe it be entertained by one that is deferuing : yea, how many hauc in- curred difgracc by dif-cftceming vertue^ when they wercaduanccd to highnelTc of place ? Nay, how ^ many GSNTLSWOMJN. 201 many while they liued obfcure^ liued feciire, and preferucd their good names, who afterwards, by becomming great, loft that priuate cfteeme which before they pofleft ? So hard it is to encounter with honour yZvAtMtiy way rcturne a faucr. Seeing then no] Chath takes (iich deepetm^ure as the CloAth of Honour \ Let no vicious afperfion fpoc it, no corrupt affection ftaine itj left, by being once blcmifhedjit bring that hononr intocontempt,which before you retained. LAndmarkes are vfually creded for direftion of the Mariner, and Magiftrates eleded for inftru- dlion of the inferiour. The keele of mans life, being euer more laden with vamj than verity ; and more chilled with the bitter gufts of afflidlion, then chee- red with the foule-folacing drops of true confolarion, is euer tofled with contrary windes ; neither, with- out the helpe of fome expert Pilot, can poorc delu- ded man arriue fafely at the Port where he would be. Pride tranfports him, auar ice infers him, riot cor- rupts him, fenfuality fecures hitn, anger diftempers him, enuy conlumeshimjidlenelTe duls him. Thus becomes he piece- mealc diuided from himfelfc, be- caufeherefledsnot witha pure and impartiall eye vponhimfelfe. What great need ftands lie in then of diredion in this Maze of mifery, vale of vanity ? Heportraidhim wclljwhoiatbcdcfcription of him, ftird himzfioryoi calamity, zftatfic of infflicity* He isfrailein refifling, prone to falling, flow in rifin^. Examples then were vfcfull, to conduct him in his lournall. And who more fit to be rhefe ^reridentSy than fuch whom an bono jrablc defcent hath enno- bled, or Princes fauour aduanced ? It i s nor for thefe toentertaineanyferuileor degenerate afFe(5tion, nor D ro H®NOVR . I Honourable Pcrronagcs ftiould be Prc- fidenti of goodncflTc. E^^'iClet. a 2t>Z THE ENGLISH BO-NOVR. Iob4.T9» to harbour one mucinous thought againft the foue- raJgnty of reafon. To be a Lady oj benour is more then titnUr, She is onely eminent, who makes eue- ry a'ilion of her life a vcrtuous preftdent, Coodneffe mud be infuftd in her hlood^ that defcent may partake of dffcrt. Now, there be three efpeciall obieds, vpon which they are to refiecl : Charity^ Charity ^ Humilitj. An honoHvdle mindefs beft {howne in her LiheraU and compttJfionateLTihibmoxx toOjch, whofe ncccfiities^ require reliefe. Yea, (he Icues thofe beft, to whom thefe arguments of bounty are in higheft meafure ex- preft. Sheauertsnoc her eare from the needy beg- gar, fhewill fhew him allfauourfor his image or feature. She holds it an vnbeieemiHg ftate, to enter- taine a fowre looke, where noble pitty fhould beget in her a companionate loae. She is fo daily and duely inured towcrl^eso^wircy^ aslhce ioyesin noobied morethanoccafioaof bounty. Shee conliders (and this flic Diuinely applies vnto her fcife)how nought but vanity is to be attributed to them, retaine they neuer io much earthly glory on them, who dwell in houfes of clay, vi\\o(tfetw(i,mc» is in the <^«y?,which i^ecrufhedbQ^oreiheLMoath, Silken vanity cannot delude her, nor any opinionatc conceit of her owne eftate tranfporc her. Her mi'nde is not fubied: to wa- uering, nor her walke to wandring. Be her life leng; hergoodnefle becomes improued : be it Ihor: ; her defires arc crowned. Neither referuesfhee theglea* nings for him, that is Matter of the Harueft. Pouer- ty,appeareitneucrfo defpicable to her ^r^, ir con- ueyes companion to her heart, Shee giues Almes of the beft, fbrhisfake whom fliceloues beft. A mi- ) ferableminde flie hates ; for ftic conceiues how no- thing can be better worth enioying, than a libcrall defire of difpofing ; which (he exprelTeth with that cheere- I GENTLEWOMAN. 203 cheerefuU alacrity, as it inhanceth the \mliie of her I H o n ovr , bounty. Thus (heeliues in a free and ablolute com- 1 -~- mand of what fhe enioyesj witli an hand no lefTe o- ptn than her Awrf; that aUien might, (econd her pi- ous intention. Neither is the true Nobility of her mindeleflfe dirccrncd by her loue to CkaftUy. Pure bee her thoughts, and vnftained. The Sandnary of her heart is folely dedicated to her Maker; it can find no roome for an inordinate afFelaw, Shee rightly confidcrs how her Aa^tsdiitmettlurahle^trng but a fpan Iong,which im- plies her breuity; and »«/^r«dangeroufly mutining ; Be yourowne Ce»frrs» Be not too indulgent jn the fauouring of your felues. Proficients you cannot be in the School^ of vertue, vnlefTe you timely preuent the ouer-fprea - ding ZOC \ me eNGLisH HoNOVR. ' ding growth ofvice. Let HOC your iJ^w^^jthe light of ( your foule be darkned, Let not your i'^r/»^,the fount I of your vermes be troubled j Let not your Famej the ' perfume of your Hottourbe impaired. As you are ^r- rterotu by defcettt^ be grAciotu by defert, Prejidents arc j more powerfiiU than Precepts. Be examples of good" I nele, that you may be hcires o^hapfinep. The fljU I youenioy, the7?4/ffyouretaine, they?4/«(fjwhich af- ter you may remaine, are but glorious trophies of fa- ding frailty. Vertues are more permanent Monu- ments than all theft ; thefe are thofc fvveet flowers that (hall adorne you liuing, impali you dying, and Crownc you with comfort at yourdeparting.Laitlyj as you were honoMrahU Perfonages on Earth, where yo\x VJCreTreJtdefitJ oi' ggodf$ifff, fofhall you be glo- rious Citizens in heauen, where you are to be Parti- cipants of ail bj^ppineife. f^ertue or vice whether foe - uer takes h9ld fitft/e- taines a dee- per impiefTx- onin honour, chan any low- er fvibicft. WHtreVertHe is fowneina noble Seed-plot, manured and frudlified by good difcipline, ftrengthened by Example, and adorned with chofe more gracefuU parts, which accomplifli the fubiedt wherein verttie is featcd : what bickrings of fortune will it fuftaine / What Conflids in the neccflitics of nature will it cheerefolly encounter ? Her /pirit is raifed aboue any inferiour pitch. Yea, the habit of goodnefle hath wrought (uch diuine imprejfions inhcr ' Ibule who is thus difpoied j as fociety may improue her, but cannor corrupt her,becaafc a zealous affcdi- on to vertue^oth poffefle h^r. Youfhallcuer oblerue thefe, whom Nobility of blood hath aduanced, to retaine (bme feeds or fem- blanccs of their progenitors, which are foimprcf- iiueinthem,asnooccurrent,beit neuer fb violent, canellrange thefe from them. Here you Ihall fee a natiue - -~— «-^— -^ - GSNTLSWOMAD^. \ io7 ma.. natiue afFabilicy, or lingular arc of winning affedion, \ Ho n ovr. to one naturally deriued. There in another fuch a j-oagh and vnfeafonable auftericy, as her very count '- nance is the refemblancc of a MaltmU, Some from their infancy haue retained fiich a fwect and pleating Candor, as they could couer anger with a cheerefull fmile, and attemper palTioa with a gracemll bluifi. Befides, they had the gift to expoftulate with their difconccnts, and by applying feafonable receits to their wounds, free thcmfelues from falling into any defperate extreames. Others w»u!d rather dye,then fuffer xhtexpreftons of their Taffiom lo dye. For af- fronts, as their fpirits could not beare them, fo did their anions difcouer them, and make them obieds of dcrifiontofucha? obferu'd them. And whence proceeds all this? Surely, from the very firft relifh of our humours ; when that vnwrought Table o^jouth becomes furniflied with choice chara(flers ; and theSukeS} begins to afFed what is engrauen in them; by continuance of time they become fo habituate, as no art can make them adulterate. ScfuproHu was too light in her 7(?»/^, to beftaid in her age. VhIuU gaue too much way to her paflion in htvjouth^ to at- temper It in her age.ZrfW^/'/'tfwas too flirewd a maid, to become a quiet wife. What A'<«f«/f bath not effe- fted in vs,may by induftry be facilitated in vs, fo we begin to worke, while the waxe is foft. O Gentle, wemsn^ how many,whofe excellent-endowments de- ferue admiration, either by (el fe- opinion haue be- come tranfportedj or by giuing loofc reinesto paffi- on, haue miferably vvaadred, or by inueying againft others more deferuing parts, haue wittingly tranC grefled ? By which meanes, they become fpedacles ofcontemptjVf ho ocherwife by their conceiuing dif- courfe might haue giuen occafion of content. It it tootrue, that the liberty of greatnejfe is fuch, as it is more 208 THe ENGLISH H o N ov R . I more apt to findc fewsll to feede the humour of vice, ■'■ — ' 1 then to miniftcr any vfcfull ingrediencc for thcrc- I couery of vertne. Great mindes are many times fickc of gieat maladies, which by foothing parafitcs be- come infcnfibic,and confcquently incurable, vice in apoorchabit neuer retaines that maiefty, which it difplayes in a richer roabc. Is it fo ? Rcficd ihen vp- on your fclues ; if vice fceme fo fpccious, what will vertfte do.(Though all your vertuesht but indeed fpe - cious vices.) Belccue it, i^ you cherifli vertt^e in your minority, (he will pcrforme the office of a faithftill guardian. The widdowcs tearcs (hall be very few, for flic will finde wi?»Vtf to redreile her : the Orphans cryes ftiall not be lo leud, flie will finde comp(i(ston tocheerehcr. The State (hall not exdaimc of (ur- feits, for temferanceikzW fliicld her : nor the Church ofcoldnefle, for ^ceale fhall inflame her : What a fwee: confort is an vnifon of vermes to the care of a di- uinefoulc ? ' All other Muficke is difrcllifliing, be- caMfe it workes not on the affedion. Now would you know whence it comcs,that vet- r«tf or ':'<«■*, whet herfoeucr rakes holdfirft, ret«iues2. ([eeper imprejsion [n Hononr^ than in any iower fubieSl ? The reafon is euident : As in their ftate or condition they are more eminent, fo Is their reprefcnratiue ex- ample in others more inherent. Doe thele honourable perfonages then loue vertne ? they are vertuom molds vnto their followers : theyfhall finde in their ^a- dowesyihzx. they exprefle in thewfelues. la/ta could not be Uofe^ when Lucrecia was fo chaFie : fhe faw that in her MiftrefTe, which deferu'd loue , and to that ftiee conform'd the line of her life. To confort at vnfeafonable houres with loofe louers^or to cntertaine light difcourfe ro beguile rime, was no authenticke doflrinc in her Miflrefle family : no day was without her taske, no night without her pecu- liar GENTLBWOMAN, IQc^ iiar employment. There is no qucftion,bac the prime yccre« of this noble Lady were fealoned witli fuch exquifite inftrudions, as whather p^r^hadrecei- ucdj were not in her riper 7f4r<'.*- tfires, Litda and /«//<<, t^ug:>^u^ his daughters , were fillers, but of different natures. Some there: are, who euen from their infancy haue fuch excel- lent feeds of natiue goodnefTe fovvne in them, as thtir ^tifofitiens cannot reliifh ought that isarcg-a- lar. In arguments of difcourfc, they are moderate ; in Company temperate ; in their refoluesconflanr; in their defires continent ; in their whole courfe or carriage abfolute. Others naturally ib peruerfe, that Ee 2 liVe Tharvsttuc ■ray rectii'.e th'' fii A im- piefilon by mear.es of an in-bred noble cifp^licion, f;:coiidcdby helps ef Edu- caiion. 2lZ THE ENGLISH H ONOV«.. >k Thelc aie dcicribed to life in the pcrfon of an humorous fancafticke in this plcafaar Epigiam. S'ic'thntmiifi eathcrireak.- fa fin her bed, jndUtiUioon in trimmmi of hsrhca^fi Md ft Silt tit- hi li'ieAmii- dcn-Br;dt\ Jnd tallies all djyef nothing but of pride: ^^ God way doe ^'mucbinffisr' 'Uyfortofaue « her. '< tut what i << cdfe khc'tn ''■ihAiJihaU ^'■b.utcha) * This was formerly in- flanccdin that memora- b'ee'x ample oE'^.putimiaj like our * hHnoorertJ Ladies^ they can afFccl nought chat others laie, nor rellifh ought ihac others like. The by as oF their fancy runnes ftiilou the fafhion ; their tongue a voluble Engine of feminine paflion; their rcfolues full of vnccrtainty and alteration. The whole Enterlude of their life a continued Adl of fe- mall-follies. It were hard to winne thefexo the loue ofv^rr^i"-, or fi^*/' to delight in -zz/f*?. This might ea- filybe iilultrated bydiuers memorable inftances, perlbnated in fiich ; who from their very Cradie,be- came ferioufly denoted to a religious priuacy, fup- plying their want of bookes, wherein they were meercly ignorant, with a deuout and conftant medi- tation of Gods works,whcrcin they employed their whole ftudy. Incu'lriouswcre their hands in labouring, and bounteous v/eretheyinbeftowing. A natiue com- palTien lodged in their hearts, which they cxpreflcd [n their charitable workes. Hofpitality to the flran- ger and needy beggar, was their h\ght^honour, Suf^ Ferthcy would the height of all extremes, ere they would fufFcT the defolare to want rcliefe. So flrongly were their affedlionsfortifi'dagainf I the afTaults of an imperious Louer ; as death was to them achecre- full obie(5l toprcferue their high-priz'd honeur* Such lingular cffedls as the(e,haue beenc viiialiy produced byzninmteK»l>leDiff)9fttio»i fo as, fome of thefe whom wee haue here curfbrily fhadowed, were en- dowed with fuch virile fpirits, as they ftickt not to ^pit in the face of tyranny ; others vvere not abafli'd CO* disfigure their owne beauty, left if (hould be-' come an adulterers booty. In thefe had '^^r/«^ taken (iich dsepeimprejjionyzs nothing could deepely touch themjbut what trenched on their reputatioja. Though by nature they were timorous, and inconflanr, refo- lution had (o prepar'd them,as they becailne difcrcet- GSNTLeWOMAS^. \ ilJ ly valiant ; looking deach in the face witbouc fcare, and embracing her ftroake as a fauour. Doe you ad- mire this in them ? Imirate them, and you fliall be no lefle by fucceeding times honoured, than thele in ours admired. Conceiue your life to bean intricate Labyrinth of afflicflion; the very anuill, whereon the heauy hammer of mifery inceflantly beatcth, Refle workconyour fancy? Cure betime, this dangerous pbrcnzy. Auci*: your /of v/oiir well-difpofcd natures In .iile<^fng what is good, f^tce thro-"i;ii htr afpCi lions on no J fubied fo much as on HotJur, Rflinquifli then ra- 1 ther ) HONOV^* 2l5 1 Ttie ENGLISH HONCVR. yertui rt' ducM to hi" feif jalpires to perfections , ther all fi'ttft tbaa itftiould retaine the leaft fiahe. Much is protnifcd by your dtfpofition ; and no iefife by your DtjcipHtte or Education, Your well-fcalbned youth was neu€r knowne to that rudcncflc, which more rurall or ftniilc ftatcs were bred in. Second ■ thcfc rifing hopes of inward happincflc. You arc fruitlcfly great, if you be not fruitfully good. Euery moment wafts you nearer your haucn j let euery a- ftion draw you nearer heauen. If you feare at any time to wander, RcUgiom f«are will be year ^ondpt" Sler, If you doubt the iffue of your Encoantcr, Jled- ,fafip4itiencewiU.bte yom EncoHrAger^ if youdiftmft yourowne ftrengch, you are fecurer; bHwUitjviVX crownc you with homnrf and dired you to an kapfj harhmr. As inkred noble difftfimns hauc then enriched you, which by he/peso£Ed«e4tionarefec9nded in you, profefle your fclues louers of vertue by your affedi- ons, aduancers oivertue by yoar actions ; that as ^#- tteur attends your perfons, fame may crowne your name«;felicity your foules. T T V 7 Hat rcmaincs then, to perfit this abfolutc V V Mafter-pieceof ^woiwr ; but that yec re- duce to habit ^^n^ confequenrly to their bcft iroproue-r mcntjthefe initiate feeds ofgoodnefle fowne in your I natiue dtfpofition^ growne by fficcejjion^ and ripened I thtou^ Education f Now arc yeeintheway, and daily nearer the end of your worke. Your vnconfi- ned foules muft eaer bee ttfpiring^ till they come to ihtk perf'slfien. There is nothing vndcr heauen, that can fatisfie a foule created for heauen. Are you Vir- gins? tctyour Pirgiti'L^mpsht fed .vith theC>;/^of CW/>7. Be ready before the Brtt^i-groome call you; yea, call on htm before hcecall you. Let not yoar Virgin^vafUs be 'ut^yUs for vices, Fnccrfiaine not a ^ GSNTLeVI^OMJD^. I''g':t thovght^ left by degrees it fpread to a fmne. In iuffering /y»».*'rtr^ A GENTLEWOMAN. Characierr her Tynng-roome, where (he bethinks her how Aie may play her part on the worlds Thtatre ; that fhee may gainc applaufe of her heauenly Spedators. Her conft'antrelide is in the Country ; where hofpitah'ty proclaimes her in-bred affedion to workcs ©f piety. AlUvhichfhc exercifcth with that priuacy, as they will witnefle for her, {he feares nothing more than vaine-glory. In her houfefliec perfor roes the office of a Miftris, no imperious gouerntflV. Shce knowes when to put on a fmooth brow, and to cherifli indu- ftry with moderate bounty. Her difcreet prouidenee makes her family look with a cheerefu! countenance: Her pofterity cannot chilfc but profperjbeing RurS'd by fo natural! a mother.Tbc open field llie makes her Gallery ; her Labourers,her liuing Pidlures ; which, though flie finds meere T^iUureSj hanging on, rather than labouring, Paflton tranfports her not aboue her (elfc,nor forcethhcrtothc leaft expreflion vnwor- thy of her felfc : ftic paflcth by them with a modeft rcproofe, which workes in them a deeper iQipreflfi- on, than any fiery or furious paffion : Her Neighbors fhe daily wooes and winnes: which Hie effeds with fuch innocent affability, as none can iulHy tax her ©f flattery. An 0«^r-/rfr for the /jotr^ flie appoints her felfe,whercin flic exceeds dli thofc that are chofen by the PAri(hSht takes a Suruey daily and duly of t her/) and without any charge tothcH.««?j(inne takes to difplay her ilia me I Her garment is ofanother cut. Though (he cannot redifie this broad- fpieading malady, the cor- ruption of this age muft nor draw her to that vanK ty. Shee knowesthcvfeof Ap p are 1 1, wli^h ilhe would bee loath to inuert. Ordain'd it was, to keepe in naturall heat,and tokecpe out cold : this flic obferues with a gracefiili prefencc, making this her Impreze : Comely ^not Guudj, B E H A V I o V R flie fets out with a ciuill cxprcf- fion, without much art or affectation. There is no- thing which doth not infinitely become her. In pla- ces ofrefortjQie is fo highly admir'd, as thGfe''which obferue '^siaim'rwtm A GeNTieryOMj:^^. obferue her, could be well content to /erue her. Shee ! /f/5 is^etttr9m in all j Not a Look but giucs Life f o Loue ^ ' and that forcrtuoufly difpos'd^as not a light thour^hr candiflraftit. Her very morion is a moaino' dire- dioniShe ncucr learned to tin^/c with hcrfcft^to mia- der with htveyei, lojfainc her fpoclefle honour with ipaifttcdb/Hjfh, All Aice doch is her owne ; All her owne doth incomparably pleafe ; which flie clo?eth with this impreze : Loning^ CModefij u a Lining "Beauty, Complement file admits, but not that which this Age afFcAsjlhe preferresi'«^/?4«ftf before meere formaUtj^ 7*r^ before thzRinde, Performance before Crrtfw*«7,Shediftafts nothing fo much as thatCourts fuftian J which, ia her efteemc, is quite out of faflii- on,yoMrSeTHavts Sernaut. She cannot proted in iefl:, nor profeflc what fliee meaoes nor in earneft. Shcc cares not for this Rhetoricall varnifli, it makes a good caufe fufpitious ; her dcfire istoexprclTe her (eife in a^ioii more than Mfafurfi.Thit Comp lement which confifts in congies, cringles, and lalutes, d:f- relli/heth her pallate moft : ir falbs too much ofthe Caske ; for the rell ihc is fecure, fo her anions bee really pure; her Iclfe completely honeft. Thus lliee fummesvpher dayes, m^kcsvertttehtv prayle, this iier Impreze : Q^iil Ccfnpiemcnt, mj beU Accomflifh- De CENCY is her natiue Liuery ; though (liee make no Ihadow of ic,her owne fliadow is nor more indiuiduate. In her attire {he is not fo fumptuoiis as feemely,not fo coftly as comely ; in her difcourfc fhe deliuers her mind not fo amply as fally,not fo quick- | ly as freely ; in her whole courfcrheeexpreifeth her inward beauty. Her GlalTe is no: balfefovfcfall tcf herfelfe.asthe glaffeof her life is to others. VVhat- foeucr is wornc by her,recciues a lingular grace from G g 2 her ^s.tra^lcr. .4, ! A GS^TLSWOMAv^. Cliara£ier, f her. Her fa{liion is neuer our of requeft ; though ( more conftant in it, than tljc- Age would admit. She hues to bring /i;»f into feme better /«»^: thisisher taske in euery place j this is that which crownes her j with peace ; while (hcc dtuifeth this for hcrim- prczc : Virq^in-Dccencj u Venues Liuerj, Estimation js that precicus odour which giuesfwectnefletoherWoar. Dye had fliecratlicr with it, than enioy an Empire and liue without ic.Ic is the Goale of ail her adions. The Crownc of all hcr^ Labours, Pouerty fhe holds aa incomparable blefling, fo her name be inrichcd by Estimation: No dead FIj can corrupt that C*;«/^^»/.Happy needs muft i bf her State^ that preferues this withoat Staifte.This \ fhe feeds not with the iayce of vain-gloryj nor feeks 1 to augment it with a fabulous ftory. Many haue pur- i chas'd praife in Oyiie lines, that neuer merited ap- plaufc all their hues. Her defireisto^^, rather than ; Jeem^, Icii fee f?fi»£ to ^e whit (he Kffot, fliecguU the, world, but her fclfe moft,by playing the counterfeit, j Refolutc is (he in this her Impreze ; (Jl'ljipnz.e U her 0wnefrajfe» \ Fancy fliee entertaines wirh acheerefull but j chaftcbofome. Though Lone be blind, her louc has 1 eyes. No leiTe faithfulU is fhee in retaining, than i dottbtfull in entertaining. Protcfts are dangerous I Lures to credulous Louers, but her P a n c y is too ' ftaid to ftoope vnto them. She can loae well, but left (he {hould repent foone, andthattoo late, (Tieewill <7 before (hc!r»/}, haue fome reafon to Ai^ before {hc/o/^e. She holds that Fancy* Frenz^y, which is onely led by Scnfe» She vmktsreAfon.hcr x**^de,t\\^t Consnt may be her G^A/e, Long nmt (liee debates with L 'iv^jbefore euer flie glue Lone her ^ than ^yr4/». Shee holds no- thing more worthy of her approuing, than a daily drawing nearer to FerfeEiioa^by her vertuous liuing. Her whole Pilgrimage is nothing elfe than tofliew vnto the world what is moft requifitc for a great Perfonagc. In a word, (hall wee take a re- view of her Noble carriage in each di Q]xt Okferuances} For the firfi^ (hcisfafliionably neat; ^or the fecend, for- mally difcrcetj for the f^/V^,ciuilly complete; for the /»«r^^,amiably decent ; for the ^(/^, precious in re- pute ; for xhzfixth^ affedionatcly conflant j for the feuertt^, geKeroujij accommodated ; for the ti^th, ho. ffoftrdffij iccomp[:^sd^ Whence it is, that (he im- palls her diurnal! race ''irh this imperial! Impreze : Ho, ChAtader, .. — ChdvaQer, I A GENTLEWOMAN. Honour u Vertues Harboftr, Goc on, then, fhe may with Honour, feeing the King in her tfeAuty takes fucb fiea[ure. A Diuine pre- sage of promifing goodnefle was her infancy j A continuare pradice ofpicty was her youth and ma- cnrity; The cloze of her Pilgrimage acalroepafliigc from frailty to felicity. Long would the earth keepe her, but fb Hiould flie be kept from that which flicc values farrc better. Her Husband cannot ftay long behind, &cing his htterpMrtis gone before* FIS^JS. I ^OQ g^^im— g^FBff t^ - v i* - J y , / •. , . . ' u. <»! ^ .' •* • ■ •/ . O >i c X frl " 1 s .1 >t; (^ •. ;: I '', i i il: i; 1 1 1 '"■4 iS Sd ./